Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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Moon’s gravity tugs on the ocean enough to make a small bulge form in the sea
below the Ocean_tide
Moon. As Earth turns, ocean shores pass through the bulge, and we
observe tides.
– Bill Nye, scientist. (click on photo at left to see tide advance & recede)

   
It’s sort of a strange thing that we don’t have to know things to live them. We drive cars without knowing how they run, live in bodies without knowing how they work, live in the world unconscious of the fact that the surface we stand on is orbiting at a thousand miles per hour. And we love without ever understanding all the reasons. If we did, it wouldn’t be love, but some logical process disconnected from true feeling.
   I grew up a few miles from the Pacific and also spent several years living in sight of the Atlantic. Like you, I’ve watched the ocean tides advance and recede never knowing, until a couple days ago, that the Moon’s energy actually pulls the ocean enough enough to create "a small bulge."…

Moon
    I’ve always been enchanted by the moon and the stars and the ebb and flow of the ocean. Scientific facts don’t drain away that magic for me, they enhance it.
   The more we understand the mechanics of the human body and the more we fiddle with the idea of cloning, stem cell research and the artificial replacement of various organs, the more clear it becomes that the most miraculous part of our lives is the human spirit. Every physical part of us is now actually, or theoretically, replaceable. Isn’t that, in a way, the most astonishing fact of all?
   Technology now enables the replacement of every limb and every bit of skin. Artificial hearts have been available for a long time. And that fact makes it clear that every organ will one day be replaceable.
Face_transplant
   Interestingly, in the wake of recent face transplants, surgeons announced that they will soon be able to modify or replace bones beneath the face. A person of the future will be able to design his or her own appearance!
   Of course, there’s the issue of the human brain. If tiny computers can already analyze and calculate many things substantially better than any person, isn’t it likely that this aspect of our uniqueness will also fade? If this seems unlikely, we need only imagine the way adults of just a century ago would have reacted to the idea of artificial hearts and cell phones not to mention a man landing on the moon.
   What is left? The personality, that volatile thing that triggers our daily behavior, has always been vulnerable to external manipulation by a variety of drugs and experiences that impact brain chemistry.
   My mother-in-law was one of the kindest people I ever met. As I watched her descend into the valley of Alzheimer’s, I wondered who any of us truly are? 
   Our thoughts and behavior are stunningly vulnerable to influence. Indeed, perhaps the old myth about the moon affecting our personalities is true after all. If the moon can make the sea swell, why wouldn’t it’s near passage to earth nudge our personalities at least once a month, making some of us act like lunatics?
   As science fiction becomes science fact, we may revel in our new knowledge, in the sophistication of our training as caregivers and in the advances of science. And it is critical that we step back to marvel at the mysterious power of our ability to love. As science continues to shrink the island of the Moonimage
known, we may imagine that the most astonishing facts of all may be those still hidden from us.
   Meanwhile, I will never again be able to watch the tides advance and recede without sensing the presence of the moon, the sun, and the force that shaped it all.

-Erie Chapman

Today’s Poem

XXXIV (You are the daughter of the sea) by Pablo Neruda
You are the daughter of the sea, oregano’s first cousin.
Swimmer, your body is pure as the water;
cook, your blood is quick as the soil.
Everything you do is full of flowers, rich with the earth.

Your eyes go out toward the water, and the waves rise;
your hands go out to the earth and the seeds swell;
you know the deep essence of water and the earth,
conjoined in you like a formula for clay.

Naiad: cut your body into turquoise pieces,
they will bloom resurrected in the kitchen.
This is how you become everything that lives.

And so at last, you sleep, in the circle of my arms
that push back the shadows so that you can rest–
vegetables, seaweed, herbs: the foam of your dreams.

 

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6 responses to “Astonishing Facts”

  1. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Wow, the picture offered was astonishingly like watching the in an out breath of the ocean!
    I do believe that the invisible forces of the planetary movements influence our being. I am certain of this when I reflect on the way my woman’s cycle has always been in sync with the lunar cycle. It is fascinating to think of the universe in relation to our bodies, that ancient particles of ocean and stardust, billions of years old, form our bodies today. I must go down to the sea this weekend and experience the beauty of the ocean tides!
    “Let the waters settle
    you will see stars and moon
    mirrored in your Being.”
    — Rumi

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  2. Dr. Jon Ellwood Avatar
    Dr. Jon Ellwood

    This is an interesting article and a very interesting site. Those of us who work in chiropractic have long appreciated that healing goes much deeper than what conventional science can discern. This “astonishing fact” is a reality many patients experience regularly and M.D.s need to accept.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    The moon and the ocean are powerful, yet peaceful objects for me. Places for longing, dreaming, and of letting go. Thank you for sharing this poem today. It is entrancingly beautiful.
    Karen

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  4. Kimberly Smith Avatar
    Kimberly Smith

    This is such a powerful recognition…the pull of natural or supernatural forces, the technological advances, and the reparability or replacability of our physical beings. One’s spirit and soul will remain, can never be replaced, borrowed, or duplicated. It seems to me then, that a good question to ask is, how am I nurturing my soul, my spirit, and how am I sharing my spirit with others? Essentially, how am I contributing to the elements of me that are eternal? Additionally, what is it that pulls me?
    Kim

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  5. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Kim,
    I loved your response to this meditation, especially the questions that you offer for reflection!
    liz

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  6. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Woody and I rose before the sun this morning to make our way down to a favorite place, Laguna Beach. We sat on a boardwalk bench as daylight ascended. We watched as several men, multi-generational, walked out onto the sand to form a circle of one. Two played guitar as a chorus of beautiful voices sang praise to God. Beholding grace, I felt the ocean breeze cool upon my face. I gazed as seagulls were drawn in close to the circle only to soar off with my thoughts, flying high on the winds of time.
    A memory of Chuck flew in to descend upon my heart recalling times of my distant past. I visited Chuck twice weekly then, for over a year at Huber House, a residential home for men with AIDS. As his nurse, I assessed his condition, drew his blood, educated him on treatments, and monitored his responses. As his friend, I listened to this gentle young man speak of his hopes and dreams. Fondly I recall, Chuck did get his dream vacation to the Bahama’s.
    Sadly, his family had abandoned him due to homophobia, fear of AIDS or both, I don’t really know. Along side, I accompanied Chuck as he tried to make sense of his illness and find meaning in his life. Gradually he moved through all the stages Kubler-Ross described until finally the end drew near. Chuck transitioned to a HMSA in Laguna Beach where he could receive full care in his dying. He was discharged from our home care service.
    I needed to say goodbye. That weekend, we drove down to Laguna; Woody took our two boys (young at the time) to the beach, while I visited Chuck. He was in that in between stage, semi-comatose and unable to speak. I let him know I was there and sat quietly holding his hand. A caregiver came by and delivered a letter. She asked if I would read it to him, as they were just too busy. It was from a relative that was a priest, reading that letter was one of the most profound experiences of my life. The letter was an outpouring of forgiveness, reconciliation, and love. Overcome with emotion, I continued reading as tears streamed down my face. After a while, I kissed Chuck and bid this sweet gentle soul farewell. I left in awe of the miracle of God placing me there at just the right moment in time to become the messenger of His Love.
    Sitting on the boardwalk bench I listen to the rhythmic in and out breath of the ocean’s tide. Sun has begun to poke his head above the hills greeting us in a radiant glow of warmth and light. Sky iridescent with pastel hues of blue and pink, reflecting the beauty of Chuck’s gentle spirit in the shimmering grey of the sea’s fluid movements. Grateful, once again, we take our leave.

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