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Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place
. – Zora Neale Hurston (1891-1960)

   What a gift we had, and have, in the life and work of Zora Neale Hurston. She is known, as a novelist, through her transcendent novel Their Eyes Were Watching God. She wrote the novel, she said, because "she had to." It was a story she had damned up inside her. A story she needed to tell.
   She wrote so well because of a fact central to all great writers. She understood Love. And she let this love flow through her like a fire…   

   Hurston let Love do its sweet and powerful work in her life. And in so doing, she transcended the enormous and oppressive discrimination that afflicted her generation like a plague.
   Hurston’s wisdom sings to us, if we will only listen. It tells us that the way to release our souls, the ONLY way, is by surrendering to Love’s energy.
   Why do our souls hide? Society, the force that tell us early in our lives how we are supposed to behave, drives our souls into hiding.
Hurston   Caregivers understand this. Efforts caregivers make to live Love are so often frustrated by oppressive supervisors and oppressive regulations. These systems can be soul-stealing.
 
Hurston transcended her time, and all time, because she let her soul sing its truest music. As one of her admirers said about Hurston, "She let her soul come in with the rhythm."
   What rhythm? It is the rhythm that every great caregiver hears?
   Yes, we need to perform the rites of everyday life. We also need to surpass those rites of man-made rules when we live Love. We all hear the beat of true life, thumping in the background of the world with all the persistence of truth.  Can we dance to this rhythm, or will we surrender to the mechanical droning of the forces which seek to frustrate our humanity?
   Like so many who hear, and express, the voice of God’s Love, Hurston suffered the worst kind of calumny – apathy – during the later part of her life. Her later works, along with Hurston herself, fell away from the rhythm of her times. She was listening, of course, to the voice of eternity.
   After Hurston’s funeral, a fire was set to burn many of her original manuscripts, thought to be junk. A Deputy Sheriff stopped the burning saying that he had heard she was a great writer and maybe the stuff should be saved. Thank God.    
   Hurston feared marriage because she was afraid it would "widen her hips and narrow her life." What she really feared was anything that would constrict her ability to express her truth.
   Hurston said, "Love, I find, is like singing. Everybody can do
enough to satisfy themselves, though it may not impress the neighbors
as being very much."

   
   How do you deal with the threats to your singing, your humanity – threats which may steal your soul? How do you release your soul from its hiding place?

-Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Days 105 & 106 – Watching God”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Personally, I want to face my fears and have the courage to have the difficult conversations with people as the need arises. Avoidance only creates tensions and a festering of pent up emotions that leak out in unhealthy ways. In conversation, I am often surprised to learn more about the other person’s viewpoint and that my assumptions can be faulty. It is a good reality check for me. Honest communication opens the door to understanding and helps Love to flourish. I am thankful for friendships that offer mutual support and encouragement; where there is enough trust to speak truthfully to enable each other’s personal growth.
    I try to have empty space-time to listen to what naturally draws me into Love. I am learning to turn down the volume of internal voices that may discourage me from trying. I appreciate friends who hang in there with me when my irrational voice flares. Most importantly, is to do what I love despite those internal voices of doubt. To risk singing clearly from my heart, even if a bit shaky or off key, understanding that when offered in a spirit of Love my voice can still be beautiful. The more we are drawn into our own natural rhythms and apply ourselves to do our best the greater the flow of Love’s energy will be. Thank you for this opportunity to reflect upon and rekindle these beliefs.
    I am also glad to receive this recommendation of a great novel, and I look forward to reading Zora Neale Hurston’s book.

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  2. Tom Knowles-Bagwell Avatar
    Tom Knowles-Bagwell

    Thank you for introducing me to Zora Neale Hurston this morning, Erie. She sounds like an amazing woman. Looks like I have something to add to my reading list.
    As for your question about how I deal with threats to my “singing,” my “humanity” . . . In my work as a pastoral psychotherapist I find myself swimming in the sea of contemporary healthcare. And as you so rightly point out, this sea is filled with those who would tell me how and with who to practice my care. One huge expression of this is the managed “care” (really managed cost) movement. I can choose to participate in this quagmire, or I can conduct my paractice outside its reach. I have chosen to stay on the outside. Now, I pay a price for this choice. I have to do a lot of marketing since I will not have anyone referred to me by an insurance company. And I bear the financial brunt of seeing patients who cannot afford to pay my regular fee (right now around 70% of my patients). I wonder what would happen if large medical institutions decided to extract themselves from the prison of managed “care.” I can imagine that would seem imposible and would be very scary and risky to try.

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  3. AllenAyres Avatar

    It would be nearly instantaneous financial death – the tentacles are too deep. Some good things have come about because of ‘managed cost’, but there’s a mean backhand with it if your goal is excellence in healthcare.
    Thank you for the introduction to Zora Neale Hurston, both my wife and I have some reading to do now 🙂

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  4. Megan Briceno Avatar
    Megan Briceno

    I’ve actually just read this book last week. It was beautiful and poetic. Just the opening few sentences were enough to impact me forever. It was filled with earthy subjects and was heavenly poetic. I loved it.

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