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[Today’s meditation was written by Cathy Self, Senior Vice President for the Baptist Healing Trust.]

Everything that grows holds in perfection but for a moment. – Shakespeare

     For years I kept this Shakespearean quote on the wall next to my desk. Accompanying the quote was Old_tree a picture of a tree with great and grand asymmetries. I found great comfort in both the picture and the quote. They were gentle reminders that in this journey called life, I have two choices – I can create a picture of perfect symmetry and freeze it there for all to behold and admire, or I can be courageous enough to grow in many ways, knowing that such growth means that, at times, my "beauty" may be less obvious or even defined differently. I am grateful to have chosen the latter despite some of the funny warts that have appeared…

     Yet, in that choosing, I sometimes look less polished – perhaps in trying out new vocabulary I misuse a word, or when learning a new dance I turn the wrong way. And certainly I’ve looked less polished after I’ve courageously said to my hairdresser "you can’t cut it too short!" Even in seeking to love, I have taken wrong turns, misstepped with my words, worried too much. The weight of worry is heavy.
     Meister Eckhart, a 13th century mystic, seemed not to revel in worry, but rather seemed to love the life of this world and the wonders of the human heart. In a sweet poem titled Love Does That, Eckhart peeks into the heart of those who labor under heavy weight:

All day long a little burro labors, sometimes/ with heavy loads on her back and sometimes just with worries/ about things that bother only burros.

And worries, as we know, can be more exhausting/ than physical labor.

Once in a while a kind monk comes/ to her stable and brings/ a pear, but more/ than that,

he looks into the burro’s eyes and touches her ears

and for a few seconds the burro is free/ and even seems to laugh,

because love does/ that.

Love frees.

 Perhaps today, when I encounter you and maybe even myself, we can share love’s laughter, and celebrate each other, warts and all.

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3 responses to “Day 136 – Love’s Laughter”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Catherine, if today I was blessed to be in your presence, to encounter you, surely I would laugh with you, cry with you, whatever the day might bring… and I’d tell you that I Love you!
    😉
    ~liz

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  2. Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales Avatar
    Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales

    Thank you for sharing Cathy. I feel your beauty shining through the leaves in your words that you gave us today… I also find that trees not only represent life in the spring when they begin to show new life and sprout but also death when when in the winter they loose their leaves. Like our life span or the cycle of life. It is often for only short periods that we are able to enjoy their beauty, but we can have the memory forever if we take time to nurture and love the tree.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I love the freedom you’ve described when we open ourselves to something new and allow ourselves not to be perfect. So often our fear of failure or looking foolish keeps us from the grand adventure. Love’s grace holds us in her arms while we test our new wings, or walk on stilts for the first time. Thank you Cathy.

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