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   I've often wondered how the hospital or hospice experience looks to someone who doesn't work there. Most of us grow up frightened of these places. They are populated by people in various kinds of uniforms and, of course, the occupants are sick.
   I came across a fragment of a poem by Susan Mitchell in which she offers a glimpse of the deeper ways poets seem to experience everyday things:

I went to visit a friend, the hospital
room dark except for the branch
I placed in a vase before leaving,
so she might hear the buds
open, no lid no roof for them, as they persisted
in blooming, though severed,
isolated from the tree, sweating
as if running uphill, as if this coming
into blossom were a race, this
opening, all five together, an ache in
the side of the tree, the fragile
anther gasped out-

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   People are forever dying and blooming in hospitals. The gift for the caregiver is that they have the chance to be present for these vital events – and for the pain that often punctuates the time in between. How do experiences change when we seek to express them in some artistic form – painting, poetry, music, or other form?
   Happy May Day to you!

-Erie Chapman

p.s. I had to look up the word 'anther.' You may know that it's the pollen-bearing part of the stamen.

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3 responses to “Days 121-123 – Happy May Day…How Poets See Hospitals”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    And what a gift to be invited in…to share in our joys and sorrows. Yesterday, a small group of us met to practice our presentation for our upcoming Values in Action awards celebration. One caregiver had received tragic news that her nephew had died in a car accident. Her family is in Mexico and she is not able to go there. She cried and we were present with her. She remained with us and as each one of us practiced reading aloud the stories of caregivers who we will be honored May 12, emotions ran high. None of us could get through reading a story without being choked up with emotion, which overflowed in our tears and laughter. In my years of facilitating this group process, I must say, this was a very unusual occurrence. It was also a most sacred time of sharing in our pain and Love.
    In response to the question posed…there is an honoring, a preciousness in being with, a communion, expression is expansive and manifests in Love.

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  2. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I think artists see beauty. In the hospital setting it means seeing beauty in those who are sick and infirm. It means being present and moving beyond the superficial.
    Yesterday my niece, nephew and i went strawberry picking. My nephew is 6 and after a while became more interested in the mud than the strawberries. So between the mud distraction and eating a few while he picked, his basket only contained a few berries. He wanted my nearly full basket, so we traded. I realized he was picking through the berries I had picked and throwing out the ones that were not shaped perfectly. Correcting this, I said there is beauty in imperfection – and besides what matters is how they taste, not how they look. (A small lesson for the best nephew in the world.)
    Again, to answer your question, artists experience deeply with love and see beauty – I think that is what many caregivers do too.

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    What an absolutely beautiful reflection, on life and of your endearing heart, Diana!
    Meister Eckhart said, “An artist is not a special kind of person.
    Rather every person is a special kind of artist.”
    So often we allow a negative thought or fear to contract in on us, and we miss the beauty that is ever present in all. Love opens us to possibilities. Caregiving is an art when we approach our work(life) all things, with an open heart.
    “Inside you there’s an artist you don’t know about… Say yes quickly, if you know, if youv’e known it from before the beginning of the universe.”
    ~Jalai Ud-Din Rumi
    For me, art adds color and illumines, what would otherwise be, a drab lifeless existance.

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