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I think of summer with its luminous fruit,/ blossoms rounding to berries, leaves,/ handfuls of grain.  -Mary Oliver

   With so many things to do in our hectic lives, we may sometimes wish for nothing to do. What better season than summer to fulfill such a wish?  

Summer    In our school days, we yearned for long summer break. I remember chapters of my childhood when I played alone in my California neighborhood. I hid behind trees firing at enemies with my Hopalong Cassidy cap pistols. Then I jumped on my horse (a red Schwinn bike) put my U.S. Keds to the pedals, and sailed off like the wind, hundreds of cavalrymen following my lead.

   Sometimes, we drove east to my parents hometown of Elyria, Ohio. There, on the farm where my father grew up, I swung from trees like Tarzan and jumped into the Black River, swiming to my heart's content, fishing with my dad, and rowing an old boat upstream.

   Doing "nothing," of course, usally means doing something we deeply enjoy.

   Sometimes, I actually tried to do nothing. I lay beneath a bush, looked up at the eucalyptus trees, and daydreamed about cowboys and generals and Presidents. But, it wouldn't be long before I felt called to action to protect the neighborhood from marauding bands of pirates and bank robbers. 

   It's interesting to see how many of my contemporaries, now in their sixties, spend more and more time recalling their childhood summers – almost as if it were impossible to create any kind of joy in the current season of their lives. They may harken back, as well, to their first days as a doctor or nurse or social worker.

   Through the misted lens of memory, they often see a special glow haloing their early days of caregiving.

   Other than a week or two of vacation, there is no summer break for most caregivers. What life can teach us now has to do with something we may not have understood as children: How to savor the gifts of the summer can offer us right now.

   Of course, we can choose to complain about summer's heat or her thunderstorms. But what about summer's "luminous fruit,/ blossoms rounding to berries, leaves,/ handfuls of grain"?

   How do you experience summer's most joyful gifts? How do you "do" nothing?

-Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Day 210 – Summers of “Doing Nothing””

  1. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I love the fields of summer. A meadow of green and wildflowers – wildflowers that change over the weeks of summer – lots of Queen Anne’s Lace now. And of course the sounds – birds, bugs, frogs. And that perfect light at dusk – a little pink, a little golden, a sweet, warm white with touches of gray.
    As a child in first grade, my favorite book was The Little House by Virginia Lee Burton, both author and illustrator. The story of a little house throughout the seasons and over the years as a city grew around her. I loved it. I still do.
    I love this meditation. It reminds me of the joy of summer and living. It reminds me to savor it.

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Diana,
    I remember that story as well… and I love your vivid images of summer!
    Erie, your question is a good barometer to gauge how well I am experiencing summer. I have to say with summer half over and I am thinking, “holy cow, where did it go?” My days are whirling by, yet summer has no patience for the arrogance of “too busy” to take in the warmth of her glow and then she packs up and goes.
    My best experiences are similar to the childhood experiences you have described. I rarely feel a deep sense of relaxation and total ease; sometimes it happens when I step out of my normal routine and escape to some other place.
    I guess the secret to living well is finding balance amidst every day realities. It is tough as I get caught up in the looming and sometimes overwhelming “gotta do” that conflict with my need to relax and enjoy.
    I appreciate your lovely invitation to awaken and embrace summer’s joy. Thank you for your encouragement to discover and savor joy in being alive! As I write, I realize that I don’t really need to escape to some other place to find peace. True joy springs up from within, trusting Love’s purpose, being willing to listen, and reaching for the hand or my brother/sister along the way…

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  3. Marilyn Donan Avatar
    Marilyn Donan

    Reading the meditation today, it made me think how much nature helps me as a caregiver to rejuvinate. I long to live in a place where wilderness is outside my door. Unforutunately, I grew up and still live in an urban environment.
    One recent Friday afternoon, I performed a procedure on a patient that prompted her to scream loudly for 10 minutes despite being pre-medicated for pain. I hadn’t planned to go away for the weekend, but I needed to after that. I inherently knew that the peace of the forest was what would make me feel whole again. I couldn’t help this poor woman anymore than I had. I didn’t feel guilty; I’d done what I needed to do for her. But I needed the wilderness to get centered again. Thank you, God, for providing this healing place to me. Whether it’s summer or winter, the wilderness allows me to go back and do an often difficult job.

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  4. Angelica Tronco Avatar
    Angelica Tronco

    Thank you for sharing…reading this brings warm feelings of memories and excitement of things to come. I can’t say I’ve been doing nothing this summer, but in terms of the feelings that “doing nothing” can bring, I believe I have felt it. What a refreshing feeling! sigh It makes me want to read a book that I read during the summers of high school, one of the required readings that often gave me reason to not look forward to summer breaks so much. Nevertheless, I enjoyed that book…it’s called The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck. You’ve probably heard of it before. I really enjoyed reading it, even though initially reading during summer seemed to equate to “doing nothing.” I know I really was doing something…something worthwhile.

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