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This reflection is dedicated in loving memory of my brother John
Edward Sorensen, a gentle kind soul who dances with light, born on April
17th.

“Music is what language would love to be if it could, you
know?”
John O’ Donohue

Musicsymbol What is it about music that is so difficult to define in words? Music’s fluid nature flows through and around barriers to touch the
core of our being. Music bypasses intellect and arrows straight for the heart. Yet, language
seems inadequate to capture the essence and fullness of our experience. Music
opens us to beauty. A beauty that can manifest as the sweetest joy or soul’s
deepest longing. Music has infinite possibilities, it blends and changes to create a wide spectrum of meaning with diverse interpretations.

  I attended a 50th birthday celebration for a good
friend.  A Mariachi band played lively
tunes. Bold trumpets bellowed in a crescendo of laughter that overflowed throughout the hall and onto the street. Before long, anticipatory excitement could no longer be contained; one
after another, people jumped up and began to dance. Later, that evening, the
mood shifted as the musicians serenaded us with Herb Alpert’s song, “Spanish
Eyes.”  Tears flowed as I remembered how
much my dad had loved that song. Ah, music is such a universal and integral
part of human life. It can ground us in the moment, revitalize traditions,
herald momentous occasions, and enhances sacred ceremonies and rituals. Music influences
mood, creates nostalgia, adds gorgeous color to life, awakens our imagination, and fuses love's passion.

 Yes, music does have this crazy power to energize us. It may begin with a subtle, involuntary tapping
of the toes. Next, the body begins to gently rock and fingers begin to snapping
to the beat. Finally, the legs take over and before the brain can stifle these
natural desires, we are up and moving on the dance floor. Inhibitions lost, people
sway to the melody, twirl and swirl with their partner. At Vermont
contra dances, young and old gather in community, moving in sync as sparks of light in intimate joy. Vermontcontra-4_n Photo by Roger H. Katz, Vermont Photographer.    

Funny, but it was not until mid-life that I developed an
appreciation for classical music.Then I fell helplessly in love with listening.
For the first year, I lost all interest in any other music genres. Songs with
words were only a distraction. Ah, but
the violin cried out with exquisite sensitivity and piano's notes, light as
feathers, would skip and run towards the highest peaks then delight in floating
back home.  

  Nature’s music offers a sense of peace. Amidst restlessness
we are drawn to the calm of a crackling fire, find joy in a bird’s solitary song, are mesmerized
by ocean waves, invigorated by river’s roar, quieted by rustling
leaves, reflective with summer crickets, enclosed by rain drumming rooftops, awakened
by distant church bells tolling, comforted with hush of nightfall and the
twinkling of stars. Music coaxes us to relax and de-stress, return to our
breath and reconnect with our source. “Music can be made by anyone, anything,
anywhere… so if this is your goal, remember first the sound of your soul – then
create it!”
~Empathism

 Music is a bridge between heaven and earth. Music and
singing can lead us into deeper listening and meditative prayer. In the Christian
tradition, Taizé prayer
seeks to include people and traditions worldwide. Voices uplifted in song or in
the sounds of cadenced chanting become the instruments and conduits of
God’s infinite Love. Father Peter Hickman once said, “Singing is praying twice,” isn’t
that a lovely thought?   “Open your heart and you will hear the lutes of the angels.”
~Rumi

 Music is associated with amazing healing effects on the
body. In various studies, certain kinds of music have actually lowered blood
pressure and heart rate, calmed breathing and reduced cholesterol levels.
Research has shown that soothing music (such as classical, Eastern, harp, and
chant) can actually improve a person’s immune system (Kate Mucci.)

In Hinduism and some Eastern traditions, there
is the most sacred syllable of Aum. It is their belief that Aum is the primal sound that contains all other sounds of the universe. Aum symbolizes
the Oneness of God and the interconnectedness of all beings. The seed center of
all sound, the point of vision. There are two movements in life, a movement
towards and a movement away but at the center is union.
As humans, we all strive for a sense of wholeness, balance and harmony in our lives. Music offers us a lovely invitation. “The end of all good music is to affect the
soul.”
~Claudio Monteverdi

I offer this marvelous music video that was shared with me by Christina Gomes of Portugal.

~Liz Sorensen Wessel

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9 responses to “Days 107-108 What Language Would Love to Be”

  1. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Liz, Your writing truly soars in this marvelous post. Thank you for lifting us beyond language and inviting us to dance with you along music’s waves. In so doing, you created a special spiritual experience. – Erie

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  2. Musingsfromargus.wordpress.com Avatar

    Liz- thank you for this reminder of the power of music. For Sherry’s service, I invited Connie Washburn, who found Damon Zick, sax player, to play Joni Mitchell’s “One Week Last Summer” from the album Shine.
    Sherry and I had played this song over and over. She loved the album. But when we heard it played that morning, we were brought to tears. The notes and chords went to the core of our being.
    The memory continues through music…

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  3. Marily Paco Tronco Avatar
    Marily Paco Tronco

    I will give you thanks, O Lord with all my heart.
    I will tell about all the miracles you have done.
    I will find joy and be glad about you.
    I will make music to praise your name, O Most High.
    Psalm 9:1-2
    Listening to your worshipful music since early this morning Liz, indeed it is a music that affected my soul. The tune so soothing and calm, it expresses God’s promise… He gives us all we need. In His Word God has given us “the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness” (Isaiah 61:3).
    As I delight in His Word, I accept His promise. I come to renew my faith which brings rejoicing in Him my Savior.
    I will find joy in the Lord.
    I will delight in my God.
    He has dressed me in the clothes of salvation.
    He has wrapped me in the robe of righteousness
    like a bridegroom with a priest’s turban,
    like a bride with her jewels.
    Like the ground that brings fort its crops
    and like a garden that makes the seed in it grow,
    so the Almighty Lord will make righteousness and praise
    spring up in front of all nations.
    Isaiah 61:10-11

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  4. Barbara Avatar
    Barbara

    Liz,
    What a wonderful dedication to Johnny! Being a music educator for 30 years has taught me in many ways all that music holds in the heart and soul. The way you have put this sentiment into words is so powerful. Your creative gift of painting words is so amazing to me. Thank you for sharing your gift!
    Love you!
    Barbara AKA Pickles 🙂

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  5. Maureen McDermott rsj Avatar
    Maureen McDermott rsj

    Music, the joy of our hearts, Liz, the inspiration of our day. As we continue our day may we dance with the Spirit with brihgt eyes and a singing heart. Bless you Liz. Thank you

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  6. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    Lizzie …you have out done yourself with this oh so befitting and marvelous Tribute to Johnny!!!
    Your words and music you chose were inspirational……
    oxoxo

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  7. Suan Geh Avatar
    Suan Geh

    Liz: Amazing and so well written. Your dear brother must feel honored fot the tribute paid to him from his dear sister. In the sphere of Hospice work there was the music therapist who visited the patients. Nothing calms the spirit and soul more when one is in pain (whether it be physical or psychological) is when soothing music is being played especially hymns which bring the individual in communion with the Lord…”when peace like a river…it is well, it is well with my soul”. Sometimes we as caregivers we need to relax and get away mentally from our busy schedule and the song that I enjoy and find it most liberating is the one sung by Julie Andrews: “The hills are alive with the sound of music…” when I listen to this song I am transported once again to the time when I was among the hills in Austria where the “Sound of Music” was filmed.

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  8. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you Erie, I am reminded of how often I’ve experienced listening to the sacred music you have composed and the blessings I’ve received through your music. Blessings that continue to ripple out exponentially when your music is shared with others. Sr. Maureen and Marily, thank you for shining such a radiant light of faithfulness and gift of your friendship offered so generously through this Journal. Carolyn, thank you for sharing such a treasured memory and loving remembrance of Sherry. Sue and Pickles I recall so many memories of music entwined in our lives growing up. Even last summer we shared moments of singing to Joni Mitchell songs in the car. The energy between you two is magical when you’re together, singing just flows so naturally. Pickles I will never forget the time I had dinner with you and your family. After the meal your grandfather played the violin. It was so joyful being present to experience that extraordinary moment. I remember the three of us going to a dance at Nativity on my 13th birthday and your brother’s band playing the Beatles song, “Today is your birthday….we’re gonna have a good time.” Sue, I remember you playing your fabulous 12 string guitar and all the good times we had singing songs… Suan, thank you for your insights and peace offered in communion here with others. This is the gift I gratefully receive and I wish to thank each of you for today.

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  9. Victoria Facey Avatar

    Liz, you’ve touched upon one of my favorite heartstrings – music. Once the sound fills your ears, your heart seeks the rhythm and you are in that wonderful trance. I think that music can fill the emptiness of many situations: work, home, study and travel. I took a music appreciation class several years ago and fell in love with Classical music. I now use it to guide me through tense office days and to calm my anxious periods.
    There are several wonderful internet radio stations available now and the music is worthy of your desktop (without causing chaos in the workplace). And, music does provide energy, peace and a chance to celebrate our lives. Thank you for this beautiful piece and your loving tribute to your brother, John…

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