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Caseyboy_2Why do people love their pets so much? Look at this little photo and see if you don’t feel better. Meet Casey, my younger sister Martha’s dog. Martha is a caregiver at The Toledo Hospital in Toledo, Ohio. Each day, she greets hundreds of visitors in her role as receptionist at the front desk. She does her job so well that last year she was named employee of the year at this large hospital.

How do you keep up your energy in such a demanding job, especially when many people are asking you the same questions every day? As she comes home tired at the end of her work, Martha knows she can count on something special from Casey – uncondtional affection…

   As you may know from direct experience, animals can be wonderful caregivers. Alive Hospice in Nashville engages the help of a partner who brings both cats and dogs to visit patients. Hospice at Riverside in Columbus, Ohio used to have a marvelous dog named Libby. Libby wore a name badge on her collar and was, with due respect to the rest of the staff, the most popular caregiver in the place.

   The most striking thing I recall about Libby is the stories the staff would tell about Libby’s caregiving. One patient, distraught over her terminal illness, withdrew into herself so completely that she refused to speak. One night, the nurse found the patient lying on the floor hugging Libby and weeping as she spoke for the first time in a week. Throughout, Libby lay quiet.

   Dogs and cats don’t pass judgment. They don’t mind if a patient has lost all her hair and they don’t mind lying still for hours as patients on the edge of life stroke their ears or confess their heart’s pain.

Casey_also  The Case of Casey is open and shut. He is a caregiver’s caregiver. And I know he brings energy and hope to my sister everyday – just like he did for you when you gazed into his warm brown eyes a few moments ago.

Reflection: Click on this picture to enlarge. Consider any animals in your life that have seemed to bring you comfort. What can we learn from them about love? What can you share in your experience of animals (in a Comment – below) that  might warm the lives of others reading this meditation.

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4 responses to “Meditation: Unconditional Love – The Case of Casey”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I have very many happy memories of pets through the years. I grew up with a small poodle named Samantha. As I child, I often talked to her about how mean my parents were after I had been punished. She gazed at me with understanding eyes and listened to all of my woes. More recently I have had the pleasure of two Pembroke Welsh Corgis who have allowed me to hold them close to my breast. Now that my children are teenagers, they don’t allow me to snuggle with them like they did when they were babies. Somehow holding my little dog meets a deep need for holding my babies close. I know my children use our pet as a place for comfort and warmth as I watch them bury their faces into his fur and allow him to heal their sometimes sad hearts.
    Karen York
    Alive Hospice, Nashville

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  2. Sm Yoon Avatar
    Sm Yoon

    I’ve enjoyed your daily meditation and know I will continue to do so. Today’s meditation feels like an alarm has gone off. I wonder at times if I’m capable of unconditional love. Today is a good day to start working on it……

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  3. kathy parolini Avatar
    kathy parolini

    This is a really nice meditation. Pets are wonderful caregivers for patients with cancer. In fact, my own dog, Gucci, is my best friend.
    Thank you!
    Kathy Parolini
    American Cancer Society

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  4. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Gazing at Casey is… love at first sight!
    Open school night in ’98, a litter of puppies were being auctioned. My eye caught site of a darling fur ball of a puppy. I had resisted having a pet for years due to the associated responsibility. Once I saw “Pudge,” however it was all over for me, without hesitation, I knew he was destined to come home us. During this time, our family was feeling very sad as my husband’s beloved father/my sons’ grandpa was dying. Pudge knew just how to lick away tears and love us all unconditionally.
    These days, I look forward to arriving home as Pudge greets me with unabashed joy, tail wagging happy.

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