Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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Our task is to become aware of God’s presence…We are called to see differently and then to live differently.   – Sallie McFague, Ph.D, Life Abundant

   Why is it that some caregivers seem to have such a genius for caregiving? Could it be that, as Dr. McFague says, they have learned to see differently and, therefore, they live differently?

   The best definition of God I have ever seen is the one offered by both the apostles Paul and John. God is love. The latest polls show that over ninety percent of Americans say they believe in God. Yet if they were asked if they believed in love, perhaps the percentage would be even higher…

   Dr. McFague says that "we are instruments of divine love" and, since "We were created in God’s image, in the image of love, our goal is to grow more fully into that image by loving each other and the world in concrete ways."  Those who have learned to let God’s love flow through them are the ones in whom we see this genius gift of caregiving. Perhaps they have done nothing more than get out of the way so that love can flow through them.

   But what about the rest of us? If we are having trouble loving, it might be because we fight love instead of surrending to it. We fall victim to the original sin – Pride. In so doing, we pit our limited strength against Love’s unlimited power.

   Mozart, one of the most widely acknowledged geniuses in history, claimed that he was only a scribe, writing down the music that flowed through him. "Love, love, love," he said. "That is the soul of genius." An astonishing footnote to his genius is that his music manuscripts remain almost entirely free of corrections. He simply wrote down what he heard.

   It requires a great deal of courage and commitment for us to peel away all the layers of noise around us so that we can hear the voice of love and do love’s biding. So many cross currents confuse our pathway. Our challenge, as Dr. McFague says so well, is to learn how to see differently and then to live differently. This means, in caregiving, letting of self and replacing self with other. It means learning to see the other and ourselves with sacred eyes. For, as children of God, we are children of Love.

   Each of us needs to travel our own inner pathway toward this truth. Why? Because the voyage to God leads to Love. 

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3 responses to “Sacred Eyes”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    For someone who was raised in a strict religious context, the paradigm shift to God’s love is a great one for me. Sure, I was raised to believe that “God is Love”, in fact a few cute Sunday School songs jump into my mind that testify to that fact. Yet, the upbringing was also that of fear and guilt and shame over many transgressions. In my adult life I have chosen to view God in a different way, in the way you describe here. God is love and wants love to shine through me to other people. Is that not the greatest gift we can give to ourselves and to humanity?

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  2. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    Your wonderful meditation brings so many thoughts to mind. Thich Nhat Hahn teaches that we have many kinds of seeds within us, some good, and some bad. He encourages us to nourish healthy seeds by practicing mindfulness and intentionally watering the good seeds. Here is where our spiritual practices can support this process.
    I recall the many years I visited patients and family members in their homes, often I saw images of Christ hanging in pictures on the wall. These images helped me tremendously when I needed strength to be supportive and loving in some very difficult situations. Seeing Christ’s image prompted me to look closer and see God’s face in the person before me.
    Recently, Pasteur Mike spoke to our congregation. He talked about how Christ did not call on professionals; rather he called on amateurs to become his disciples. These disciples held a passion in their hearts to follow God’s call to love. At times, I hear voices of self-doubt, yet the image of amateur-self heartens me as I find the courage to respond to God’s call to love.

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  3. Jane L. Sirac, R.N. Avatar
    Jane L. Sirac, R.N.

    I find almost all of your mediations inspiring and this one is no exception. The thing that is helpful for me about reading these each day is that I need lots of prompting and encouragement. Like Liz, I have lots of voices of self doubt and other voices calling me, in my weaker moments, to give up – especially when I confront all the paper work required of caregivers these days.
    Your meditations are an oasis for me and I love the comments people are offering as well.
    Jane L. Sirac, R.N.

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