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Japanesegarden Every sacred place is a place where eternity shines through time.
– Joseph Campbell

   With loving care, a Japanese garden was created several years back as a sacred space on the outskirts of Nashville. It offers its peaceful presence in the middle of a searingly beautiful park called Cheekwood.

   The first time I visited the garden, I paused to read a small sign that recommended traveling the garden path slowly in order to appreciate the many fine details of nature and occasional small sculptures that live along the way. Part way through my journey, I entered a thick stand of bamboo. The stalks swayed in the breeze, tapping each other in rhythmic conversation. Amid the beauty and grace of the garden, something strange happened…

    A family of four, including two children in their early teens, came charging through as if escaping a house fire. One of the teens was running. "Come on," the father shouted to the other teen, "there’s more stuff to see over by the lake."
   On the heels of the family of four was a woman in her twenties talking on a cell phone. "So what did Bobby say?" she shouted into the phone as she walked by me, staring at the ground.
   I don’t know what Bobby said, but it took some effort for me to ease back into the experience of listening to the voice of the garden. What she have to say to me or to anyone who slowed long enough to listen to her songs. Perhaps, more than anything, what she did was help me to hear my own music.

   Yes, it can sound judgmental to criticize others for seeming to ignore the sacred experiences before their eyes. Yet we are all surrounded by noise and distractions and we often create them ourselves.
   A place may be sacred, but for a sacred experience to occur, a dialogue must be opened between the place and the person. And there must be a genuine pause, a silence that allows the sacred to speak to us. Otherwise, the sacred is nothing more than a piece of ground or a pile of stones.
   A Christian may enter a mosque, a Muslim may enter Notre Dame, a Jew may enter a Buddhist StonehengeShrine, or a Hindu a synagogue and gather nothing of the sacred that lives there for others. A tourist may stand before the ancient shapes of Stonehenge (click on photo) or the mysterious smile of the Mona Lisa and feel nothing. Each of these encounters will lack the resonance needed for the sacred to shine through unless each person approaches the sacred place of others with special respect and an openness to the universality of God’s beauty.
   An openness and a dialogue is required in order for a vibration with the sacred to occur.
   So long as any caregiver sees the homeless as lazy, bad & troublesome, no love will flow through the encounter. So long as caregivers think of patients as gall bladders or hips or kidneys, instead of whole human beings, the sacred will be blocked off. So long as caregivers scorn patient gowns as signs of lowliness and weakness instead of robes deserving respect, the people wearing them will never receive the healing care they need.

   Fortunately, there are many caregivers across this land who appreciate the gift that care-giving offers. For them, each shift they work is an opportunity to open a sacred dialogue between their hearts and the pain of those for whom they care. These special caregivers understand the whole notion of the sacred because they live it every day. If you introduce them to Stonehenge or to the holy shrine of a different faith, or to a great painting, they can feel the sacred in these things because they know that the sacred is an expression of Love and that Love is universal.

The_caregiver_tia_chapman_3    How does eternity shine through time? It happens millions of times a day, when caregivers open their hearts and let God’s Love travel through them and into the heart of a person in need. And they feel something else, as the Love they give travels back through them and back to them in a sacred circle. Because of this truth, any fluorescent-lit corner of linoleum in a hospital or hospice or other charity can instantly become sacred. Because any place Love finds expression becomes a place where eternity shines through time.

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7 responses to “Monday Meditation: Dialogue with the Sacred”

  1. Catherine Self Avatar
    Catherine Self

    Presence is, indeed full consciousness and awareness in the present moment; and it is also deep listening and being open to what emerges. Peter Senge, co-author of Presence – Human Purpose and the Field of the Future calls this “letting come.” This kind of presence creates an awareness of the larger whole and enables a learning that moves our thinking and doing to deeper and wider possibilities.
    Nature tries to teach us that the whole is present in every part – the potential of the tree in symmetry of the pine cone, the life of the sea in the beauty of a shell, the soul of a person in touch of a hand. It is so easy to stay stuck in old patterns of seeing and acting. In our rush to see and do it all, to find what is also “over by the lake,” how much of the whole have we missed by running past the smaller part?

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  2. Sonya Jones Avatar
    Sonya Jones

    I am compelled by this meditation to ‘be still and know’…The Sacred surrounds me continually, I just need to be present and aware.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    The beginning of your meditation took me immediately to Centennial Park here in Nashville. It’s a place I often go when I’m feeling troubled or stressed, or just need a place to commune with the earth and the air. One particular day, a conversation occurred while I was at work and the floodgates of my heart opened. I could not stop crying and knew I couldn’t continue working in this way. I headed off to the park and found solace among the tulips and pansies, redbuds and magnolias. While I was facing the trees, I heard a man’s voice behind me whisper, “Ma’am, are you okay? You seem so distressed”. I turned and saw a kind face looking at me. I assured him I was fine (even though I looked quite the opposite). I had to assure him a few more times before he turned to leave. I glanced away for a moment and looked back and I saw no trace of the man anywhere. Being open and present to nature in the garden that day, brought an angel to me. After this brief sacred encounter, I was able to shift my energy so I could regroup myself before going home for the day.
    Karen York
    Nashville

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  4. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Ancient wisdom tells us that, called or not called, God is present. This truth tells us the truth of each of these comments – That the question is not whether the sacred is around us, but whether WE are open to it.
    Thanks to each of your for enriching this dialogue.
    Erie Chapman
    Editor

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  5. Natalie Sellers Avatar

    I love beginning my day by reading the meditation. It helps center me so I am open to accepting the “vibration of the sacred” – present – during the day. I had the pleasure of participating in a presence retreat recently with Cathy Self. Dedicating several hours in one day just to be present for myself and my care partners who were sharing the experience with me was such a gift. Thank you Cathy and Erie!

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  6. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thanks so much for being a loyal reader, Natalie, and for the great work you do at Parrish Medical Center!
    Erie

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  7. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    Just wanted to say I really appreciated reading the comments posted. I especially loved Karen’s story. Thanks for sharing.

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