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Bread_rosesHearts starve as well as bodies; give us bread, but give us roses!
– from the 1911 poem by James Oppenheim

On January 1, 1912, textile workers at a Lawrence, Massachusetts factory told a bold and couageous action. Fed up with tyranical behavior and oppressive treatment by management, the workers, including women from twenty-five different countries, walked out into the winter cold and began a nine-week strike.

   So often, short-sighted employers think that all staff ever cares about is money. But these workers proved them wrong. Yes, we want better wages, they said, but we want roses as well. We want to be treated with dignity and respect… 

   After an extended battle, management finally gave in to most of the worker’s demands. But one wonders if they ever understood that the strike was about so much more than money. Subsequent generations of first line staff have sought to Textile_workersteach overbearing managers the same lesson. True work is about more than daily bread, it’s about kind and respectful treatment. It’s about offering the roses of compassion and affirmation to the staff that labors each day to do their work.
   Study after study demonstrates that the biggest single determinant of employee satisfaction is how they feel about their supervisor. Bread alone will not sustain the hearts of America’s caregivers. Wise and enlightened leadership will ensure that organizations are lead with respect for the fundamental Mimi_100dignity and worth of each person.
   More than sixty years after the women of Lawrence adopted Oppenheim’s poem as their anthem,
an organization called Bread and Roses (www.breadandroses.org) was founded by Mimi Farina (see photo) in 1974 to bring music and art to those institutionalized for any reason. The charity’s name was inspired by the poem and it continues its work to this day. In 1976, Oppenheim’s words were set to music interpreted into a popular song recorded by Judy Collins and played countless times since.
   Bread and Roses. It’s a nice combination of images. And a reminder to every leader that it’s the first line caregiver who delivers service to patients and clients of charities. Every successful organization and every healed person needs a sweet balance of bread and rose. And there is no more important job for health care leaders than to take care of the people who take care of people.

   All of this is a signal, as well, to the need we have for the nurturing of our souls as well as the feeding of our bodies. We need to take care of ourselves so that we can take care of others. We need roses as well as bread in order to make life feel worth living. So give yourself some of both today.
   Here is the closing stanza of Oppenheim’s poem. The emphasis on women reminds us that more than seventy percent of America’s hospital caregivers are female. And the words ring as true today
as they did when they were recited in the winter of 1912 by a band of brave women seeking fair treatment.

As we come marching, marching, we bring the greater days.
The rising of the women means the rising of the race.

No more the drudge and idler
Strike_speaker — ten that toil where one reposes,
But a sharing of life’s glories: Bread and roses! Bread and roses!

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5 responses to “Bread AND Roses – Taking Care of the People who Take Care of People”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I appreciate your images of nurturing and honoring our bodies and our spirits…bread and roses. Today I think I need more roses than bread. As a leader in an organization committed to loving care, I find that one of the greatest challenges is in feeding the leaders as well. We are probably the worst at self care because we devote so much of our energies to serving those who serve patients. Let us not forget to honor our colleagues in leadership positions who often carry a heavy weight in their hearts and may feel isolated in their continual caregiving.
    Karen York
    Alive Hospice

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  2. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    Presently our home health agency is preparing to make some structural changes that will significantly impact agency processes of how the work gets done and how our caregivers will need to obtain authorization for patient care. As I listen to some of our managers, it feels like the ice cube is melting (Lewin’s change theory). The growing list of tasks calls out to me and as the piles increase so can my anxiety. It is easy to lost site of the forest through the trees and this is what I hear echoing out of the managers mouths, along with a strong desire to bring their best to each day.
    “The most important job of a leader is to care for the people who care for the people.” Your edict surely offers clarity and focus and challenges me to ask the question, “What would caring for our managers and caregivers look like in this time of change?” I have some ideas but…I need to ask, “How can I best support you?”

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  3. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    To Liz,
    If you are asking how I would recommend you support leaders, your question is the perfect way to begin. By asking leaders how you can support them, you are handing them the gift of your interest in their well being. Thanks to you and Karen for thinking of this key part of caregiving.
    Erie Chapman
    Editor

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  4. Sonya Jones Avatar
    Sonya Jones

    I had an encounter recently with a very special leader in our organization that left me thinking she was feeling overwhelmed and emotionally exhausted. I could empathize with her but until reading this meditation, I didn’t stop to think that it was my responsibility to ‘give her roses.’ I’m not on an equal plane in our organization but if I see a need then I am the responsible one to minister to her. Thank you for the gentle nudge to be caregivers to each other and ourselves.
    Sonya Jones
    Alive Hospice – Murfreesboro

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  5. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network

    Yesterday some of our managers attended an inservice presented by Kevin Murphy AVP Theology. Ethics, SJHS. Initially, I thought I was going to have to cancel the class because of low participant registration. When I called to notify Kevin, he kindly offered to adjust his presentation to a topic called, “Being healers Within Change and Transitions.” A small group of managers attended. Kevin was able to create an open space for these managers to talk about current work pressures and to express their feelings around upcoming changes. This time together seemed to shift the team’s energy from high stress towards a healing experience. I felt encouraged to discover just what an hour and a half could do for the well being of our managers.
    Kevin also shared this quote written by Jack Glaser Sr, VP theology & Ethics, SJHS that I think is an awesome vision of a community of compassionate caregivers.
    “To be a community that serves, that speaks, that celebrates, and prays in such a way that others- regardless of their religious belief-encountering this community experience a revelation of life’s deepest truths-about human dignity, community, success, power, growth, sacrifice, love, suffering, debility, and death. Experiencing a harmony between their hearts’ deepest resonances and this community’s character, persons go from this encounter more healed, more whole, more able to live, to love, to hope, to die.”

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