Journal of Sacred Work

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    For leaders and many caregivers, organizational life turns heavily on a strange rhythm of gatherings called meetings.  No one admits they like meetings and everyone says they want less of them. Having attended thousands, I can often see why many people dread them. Meetings can raise energy, but most meetings drain it away. No one wants more meetings. Everyone would like more meaningful meetings – gatherings in which the mission of loving care is truly advanced.
   Most faith-based, and some other organizations, begin meetings with a brief devotional. It usually Man_reading_1takes a few minutes after which the leader will often say something like: "Now let’s get down to business." The brief devotional is tossed aside by most as a necessary evil rather than a true source of inspiration to inform the texture of the rest of the meeting. This can change if leaders and team members find the courage to make a few changes. The typical meditation in the Journal takes less than three minutes to read…

   In fact, most meditations are written to be read in a few minutes with the hope that the reader will reflect awhile longer and absorb the reflection into their being. Our spirits must be fed as well as our minds and bodies. When caregiver spirits are not refreshed with reflection, burn-out can settle in.

   Meditations remind us of the meaning of our daily endeavors. A key sign of burnout is a loss of meaning in our work.
   Each day, we ask others how they are doing. An equally important question is: How are you being?
   Three minutes reading a meditation – here in the Journal or from some other source – can help support caregivers who are seeking to be present to life. That is the principle goal of the Journal – to help you in your goal to be present – to help you breathe in meaning and breathe out Love.
   Ritual #1, the subject of the previous meditation, was the Three Second Pause which I encourage caregivers to take before (and during) each encounter. Three seconds to take a breath and reflect on the sacred nature of caregiving work.
   Ritual #2, today’s subject, calls us to set aside a Three Minute Reading and three more minutes to reflect. We need to quiet ourselves at different moments across the day because it is in the quiet Stained_glassspace that we can reconnect with Love’s light.
   Take a few minutes now, to pause, breathe and reflect. I know you’re busy. I also know you would like to breathe more life into your days. Three minutes reading a meditation like the ones presented here in the Journal can help you find your breath and your heart.
   See you here tomorrow.

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5 responses to “Rituals for the Spirit: #2 – Three Minutes a Day”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I took a 20 minute breath this morning in silent meditation. It was a gift I gave to myself to pause, to breathe, to relax.
    Karen

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  2. Sonya Jones Avatar
    Sonya Jones

    I so look forward to each day of this Sacred Journal. It truly breathes more life into each day and never fails to challenge me to see the sacred in the most mundane tasks of my day. As the volunteer coordinator, I don’t usually have direct contact with our patients. My day is spent either on the phone or email contact with our volunteers and caregivers of our patients. I am learning to welcome the ringing of the phone as an opportunity to minister in some way. Thanks to each one who contributes to this wonderful tool of growth. Each comment is a spark of life and light to a hungry soul and I am more consistently pausing for moments of reflection, meditation and breathing moments as a result of this journal. I feel a wonderful kinship knowing that we are connected through this work. May your day be filled with love and beauty.
    sonya jones

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  3. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    I spoke to a colleague after a meeting yesterday, who shared, “We are not having fun anymore. I know everyone is stressed, but we still need to have fun and enjoy each other.” Wow, what great perspective and how true, for life is too short to do otherwise. Reflections at the beginning of our meetings have become a System-wide practice. I think reflections are an invaluable mechanism for bringing spirituality into our work setting. For this reason, I do not underestimate their power.
    At a recent Health System gathering, we acknowledged that reflections seem to have lost some of their intended impact. For some it is almost a perfunctory duty. We discussed ways of making reflection sharing more meaningful. Speaker, Jack Shea suggested silence as a reflection, even adding a pause of silence during a meeting. He emphasized, a leader who thinks that they are too busy for reflection are truly the ones in greatest need.

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  4. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thanks for each of these comments. They truly enrich the meditation. In the case of the suggested Rituals 1 and 2 (and #3 coming tomorrow,) the goal is to integrate these rituals into daily practice. It’s up to leaders to help keep things in balance in meetings. But it’s also up to everyone in the meeting to contribute to balance. “Not enough fun” may mean that people have forgotten that great line pf wisdom from the late Sen. Bobby Kennedy, “We must always take our work seriously, but never ourselves.”
    A period of silence, as Mr. Shea suggests, is also a great way to center a group – especially if the silences are longer than just the token one minute.

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  5. Jan Keeling Avatar

    I just love this. As a person with “all-or-nothing” tendencies, I tend to have the attitude that if I can’t devote 30 minutes to meditation, then I just can’t do it at all. This reminds me that three minutes can be valuable.

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