Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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The health care leader’s job is to take care of the people who take care of people.  – Erie Chapman
   The secret of great health care leadership isn’t a secret. It’s perhaps the best advice I’ve ever offered to managers who seek to do their work well: Take care of the people who take care of people."
   Love Jesus_foot_washingthe first line caregivers. These are the one’s who give care. Most executives (fortunately) don’t look after patients. They often lack the skills and their calling is to lead. The best way to model care giving is to serve the servers.
    This is what Jesus modeled for us when he knelt down to wash the feet of his disciples (see painting by Ford Madox Brown, circa 1852.) Whether you are Christian or not, you can see the power in Jesus’ example. Leaders can talk endlessly about humility. But the best leaders teach by modeling the behavior that they seek from their staff….

   Rev. Becca Stevens, (see photo) founder and head of the Magdalene charity in Nashville,
adopted a literal
expression of the footwashing ritual which she does periodically with staff and members of her oBecca_bio_picrganization. She also models
caregiving in the organization by constantly urging staff to care for themselves and by consistently offering them the best leadership presence she can. As a result, Magdalene, with astonishing recovery rates among the former prostitutes and drug addicts who come to them for care, has become one of the most successful charities of its type anywhere in the country.

   The first example of loving leadership I saw was in the actions of my late father (see photo) during his many years as a YMCA general secretary.
He got out there with his
staff and helped them deliver services to
kids. He led classes in calisthentics, helped clean toilets,
cleared brush and picked up trash at Y camps, and set an example of health, energy, caring and integrity for his staff and Edc_jreveryone who knew him. In 1990, in recognition of his example of loving leadership, he was elected to the YMCA Hall of Fame.
   I discovered the secret of effective healthcare leadership while working at the old Riverside Hospital in Toledo (now called St. Ann.) in 1975. As a new Vice President with some departments to run, I was a complete novice in healthcare, having spent the previous seven years as a trial lawyer. I was used to taking care of my clients. Untrained as a clinician, I wondered who I was supposed to take care of in the hospital. Suddenly, a Code Blue was announced over the hospital PA system. Someone was having a heart attack. Instinctively (if not wisely) I jumped up from my chair and began racing down the hallway toward the site of the Code. Halfway there, I slowed my pace, stopped, and turned around. As a lawyer, what the devil was I going to do at a Code Blue? Write someone’s last will and testament?
   It was then that the idea began to emerge. I had several hospital departments reporting to me including housekeeping, dietary and maintenance. I’ve always admired the work people in these area do. It involves tiring and repetitive task work to do the job well. I realized that these were my new clients. Their work is meaningful and sacred. These were the people I needed to look after with love.     I want to emphasize that this kind of leadership must be done with sincere intention. The truth, for me, is that I love the regular staff in hospitals. I love how hard they work for low paychecks, I love how they usually get along with each other and identify with the pain of patients, I love how they commit to their work with (usually) very little recognition. I love the humility I so often see among this group of caregivers. 
   Take care of the people who take care of people. It’s amazing how simple this leadership "secret" seems to be. Yet I see it practiced infrequently by leaders in charities and hospitals across America. Leaders have a dangerous tendency to get carried away with their power and position. I’ve sometimes fallen victim to this mistake myself. Caught up with some of the exalted sounding titles I’ve held, I’ve let myself hide too many times in the relative comfort of my office instead of spending the maximum time out on the floors where the real caregiving is taking place.

   Debi Villines, a former nursing leader at Nashville’s Baptist Hospital, handed us a great line one day when she was talking about the relative unimportance of executives. "The hospital really starts in the ER and on the second floor," she said. "What executives do doesn’t really matter to most caregivers."
   She’s right. And in her wisdom is also an invitation to leaders. If you want your work to matter, get out of your office, put on the clothing of first line caregivers, work alongside them as often as your schedule permits.
   Take care of the people who take care of people and you will be performing the best service a healthcare leader can provide.

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5 responses to “The Best Leadership Secret – Take care of the people who take care of people”

  1. Ellen Johnston, R.N. Avatar
    Ellen Johnston, R.N.

    We have some leaders at our hospital that really take care of their team and some who are just terrible. You can always tell because the teams with the bad leaders often have these beaten down looks on their faces. Thanks for drawing attention to the most important thing a caregiver does. You are right. It looks like you had a great example in your dad!
    Ellen Johston, R.N.
    Memorial Hospital

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  2. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    Your opening quote really says it all! Today’s meditation is one all leaders need to hear and I plan to share it with other SJHS leaders and I encourage readers to do the same. So true, leaders need to model serving the servers! In a previous role as Director of Clinical Services at home health I tried to live by the edict that I would not ask anyone to do something I was not willing to do myself. At the time, my office was located in the heart of the clinical area rather than back in administration. I was immersed in daily team operations and very accessible. I was amazed at the loyalty and team support I received, which was tenfold, in return.
    I can see that your father was an incredible role model for you, and for countless others, and that he was a great inspiration to you. In turn you have been, and are, a great role model and inspiration for all of us who have a sincere desire to become servant leaders. Unfortunately, I never had the honor of meeting your father (love the picture), but I am grateful to the man who taught you, and in a way I feel as though I do know him.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Surround them with love, in turn they will surround others.
    Karen

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  4. Shirley Irby RN SJHS Home Health Avatar
    Shirley Irby RN SJHS Home Health

    To try to understand this concept of Quantum Caregiving I looked up the meaning of the word.
    Quantum: one of the small molecular packets of a neurotransmitter (as acetylcholine) released into the synaptic cleft in the transmission of a nerve impulse across a synapse.
    Quantum Caregiving means to me that tiny spark of humanity you offer to a person and the profound unknown effects it can have. I’ve always felt that it is a dance and by being present in the moment you give and they respond and the moment grows. It seems to go places I would never have imagined. For me an emotional rush reinforces the significance of living like this.
    Last night my patient died. It has been so emotional on many levels. It seems to me that the more difficult something is, the closer I feel to those involved. This was not an ideal home death. But I will be forever positively effected by the experience and for a time traumatized also. Yet, I imagine my experience is so tiny compared to the two primary caregivers: her boyfriend and brother. The months, weeks, days and hours without sleep, offering amazing strength. Providing a level of care they never imagined. They promised the 53 yr old sister and girlfriend they would keep her at home and despite horrendous bleeding, they were able to do it. They are my hero’s. And I know I will be able to give better care and do more difficult things in my life now because of them and their modeling. And yet, they thank me.
    I know that together we connected to participate in this amazing experience. You articulated this encounter beautifully. You have put words to something I’ve experienced many times and on many levels and yet couldn’t quite explain. As I cared for my other patients in the days and weeks leading up to this, some of them came to know a little of this story, and in turn they healed me also. They validate how important it is to have nurses who will open their heart to their patients and how they appreciate this in me. This gives me the strength to continue despite the pain and sleepless nights. I notice how this circle of support grows, from my 12 year old daughter at home, to the seemingly unrelated fast food servers at the drive thru. With just a passing smile, we lift each other. We are all connected whether we expect it or not.
    And now I find another source of support, this web site. Thank You! And I will be a better person, and this ripple you’ve started will move on and out, in ways we will never fully realize .

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  5. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    Shirley, thank you for sharing your beautiful story with us in such an intimate and personal way, for sharing your learnings and your wisdom. The sharing of your story adds a deeper dimension to this Journal. As a caregiver you have walked courageously to accompany this patient and family in this sacred time of living and of dying. You were able to offer support and “quantum” caring by remaining present and bearing witness to the pain, suffering, and “quantum” love that accompanied saying goodbye to a precious life as she took leave of this earth.
    I believe that it is in the telling of our story that we are able to release, and bleed off, some of the pain of grief and loss. It is also a way to affirm the person’s life, to acknowledge the family, and to begin to find some closure for oneself and heal. When we do not take time to heal, we risk burnout. I encourage other caregivers to share their stories as well. We are all forever changed when we share our experiences, our pain, our dying to the moment, our love.

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