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1Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain. Unless the Lord guards the city, the guard keeps watch in vain. – Psalm 127

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     A female enters the Matthew Walker Clinic seeking care. Diagnosis? She is pregnant. But the medical diagnosis does not begin to touch the human tragedy. The pregnant female is twelve years old.* As if this fact isn’t sad enough, it turns out that the father of her baby is her father.
   Fortunately, the girl is placed in the care of a loving caregiver – Dr. Michele Williams. Dr. Williams offers more than medical treatment for she knows that this girl hurts in many ways beyond the physical. Unless Love is engaged in the care of this patient, those who treat her will, like the Psalmist says, labor in vain. Unless this girl is surrounded with love, there will be no healing…

  TSacred_work_coverhe image that symbolizes sacred work (see bottom of book cover, left) engages two intersecting circles with a heart in the
intersection and a golden thread weaving through the middle. The golden thread represents the healing tradition of humanity; one circle represents love, the other represents need. The heart represents the presence of the Servant’s Heart.
   If our work and our lives are not guided by Love, than we labor in vain. If our lives are not informed by Love, than what is the point of owning any possessions we have much less trying to guard them with security systems and bank protections?
   We all need a certain amount of worldly goods to travel our journey through this world. We need food and shelter in order to survive. As humans, we also need the company of others and we need love.
   There is a funny illustration of our need for love and companionship in the movie Cast Away, starring Tom Hanks. After the character played by Hanks is stranded on a desert island he rapidly becomes lonely. How to solve this sense of isolation? He finds a volleyball among the wreckage, Hanks_and_wilson
paints a face on it, names it Wilson, and engages his new "friend" in regular conversation (click on image from movie at left.) He even goes to great lengths to save the "life" of his "companion" during various events.
   We all need love. We all need the companionship of others. We all need the meaning that faith in a higher power provides. Otherwise, we labor in vain suffering with no answer to the challenging question: "So what?" God’s love enriches our lives with meaning. For Christians, Jesus’ presence offers comfort when we are in pain or feel abandoned by the rest of the world. People of all faiths look to a higher power for strength. When the Lord is with us, we are never alone. When God’s Love is passing through us, our caregiving work always has meaning.

-Erie Chapman

*The image of the pregnant teenager is by Rosmarie Doumitt and is used for illustration. It is not a picture of the girl in the story although the story itself is true.

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4 responses to “Sunday Meditation – Why Love is What Matters”

  1. Ellen Johnston, R.N. Avatar
    Ellen Johnston, R.N.

    The story of the pregnant 12-year old is heartbreaking and all too common. What is uncommon is the degree to which she was apparently supported by the people at the clinic. This is when loving care is at its best (and sometimes at its worst.) Thank you for your continued encouragement to live love.

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  2. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I watched Cast Away again a few weeks ago. Perhaps the most powerful scene in the movie is when Wilson slips off the slipshod wraft and drifts away. Hank’s character swims out to save him, calling desperately for Wilson to return. He holds on to the end of the rope, his lifeline, and even lets go, knowing that his only hope for survival will drift away. He risks his life to rescue his only companion. The reality of his predicament takes hold and he wisely goes back to the wraft. Yet he curls up and wails until he passes out from despair. Wilson was his hope, Wilson was his love. This powerful scene resonates with us because we all have that deep place that is lonely, that needs companionship, that cries out for love.
    Karen

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  3. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    I’ve said before that every craftsman
    searches for what’s not there
    to practice his craft.
    A builder looks for the rotten hole
    where the roof caved in. A water carrier
    picks the empty pot. A carpenter
    stops at the house with no door.
    Workers rush toward some hint
    of emptiness, which they then
    start to fill. Their hope, though,
    Is for emptiness, so don’t think
    you must avoid it. It contains
    What you need!
    ~Rumi
    Sometimes I feel that my words are just filling up empty spaces and ring so hallow. Let me come into communion with you who are hurting with my heart exposed and vulnerable. An understanding that moves beyond words to reveal that I, as you, know the pain of being human, and I suffer too. In this space of being I have no answers, but perhaps in this moment of our sharing in uncertainty, if we listen quietly, we will hear God’s whisper of love call to us.

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  4. Beth Daniels, MSN Avatar
    Beth Daniels, MSN

    I have just discovered this site and it is marvelous – the best thing I’ve seen for care givers. Your distinction today between things done with love or not is the big issue. When care givers act without love they begin the process of burn out. I am going to share this site with our staff and thank you for what you are doing.

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