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   We can access incredible energy, as occurs with the Flow phenomenon, if we work hard, stay focused, stay committed, and have the wisdom to know when to let go and let Love takeover.
-Erie Chapman

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   Sometimes, seemingly from nowhere, an astonishing kind of energy will arrive in our lives. Things we thought would always require hard struggle suddenly (and all to briefly) become easy for us. The phenomenon, dubbed "Flow" by a famous psychologist with a complex name Mihaly
Csikszentmihalyi
, typically occurs after we’ve been struggling for a long time to master something important to us.
   Athletes call the experience "being in the zone." But I have heard caregivers use similar terminology in their work. A gifted surgeon may say the he or she entered the zone in the middle of a complex surgery. Suddenly, a challenging surgery becomes easy and the doctor discovers all of his or her skills and gifts coming together in perfect harmony.  Another caregiver may notice the same thing in the course of looking after a difficult patient. As they find themselves fighting to control the problem before them, they suddenly experience a serenity that enables them to make all the right moves with complete grace…

   Those who have chosen to study the Flow experience have learned some things all of us can use if we seek to increase the chance for Flow in our work and with our teams.*
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1) Flow is more likely to occur when we have first engaged a great effort and full commitment to learn mastery of a set of skills. At the peak of frustration, and after hard effort, the reward of Flow may arrive. Those who have experienced it describe it as effort followed by a kind of letting go.
2) The Flow experience has been described (somewhat embarrassingly) as not unlike a good experience of sexual intercourse. There is a build up of tension, an effort toward relieving that tension, and then a release – a letting go.
3) Flow is more often experienced by those who make a sustained commitment to mastery and is rarely experienced by those who make little or no effort. The Flow experience appears to be limited exclusively to those who work hard at achieving success.

   About twenty years ago, I was watching a Boston Celtics basketball game. it was the Byrd_also
heyday of the great Larry Byrd. As Byrd was dribbling the ball down the court, the "color" announcer said something I’ll never forget. "Watching Byrd," he said, "reminds me of a story about the pianist Vladimir Horowitz."
   "Horowitz?" the play -by-play announcer asked, confused.
   "Horowitz," the color man continued, "was dreaming that he was playing Rachmaninoff’s Piano Concerto #3 perfectly. He was in the first movement when the phone rang, waking him. He talked on the phone for about twenty minutes. When he hung up, he realized to his amazement that he was in third movement. His mind had continued to play the concerto perfectly and he hadn’t even been aware of it!"
   "I don’t get it," his partner said. "What does that have to do with Larry Byrd.
   "Larry Byrd is like all great performers. In his case, Byrd is playing basketball all the time. No matter what he is doing, his subconscious mind is always playing the game he loves."
    If we seek the astonishing experience of "Flow" it will require that we make a deep and enduring commitment to something we love. When we do this, Flow is still not guaranteed, but we have maximized the conditions for it to occur. And when it does, we know in that moment that all the hard work was worthwhile.
   The seeming exception to this rule is not an exception at all. It is the kind of story that appears periodically in the news. A five-foot, one-hundred-pound mother will suddenly pick up a full-sized automobile. Where did she get such strength? The answer is that her child is caught under the wheel. Suddenly, from some unknown place, an extraordinary flow energy is engaged. Once the child is free, the woman has no more ability to pick up the car than do you or I. But the circumstance proves that the energy has always been hidden there, waiting for the right stimulus to awaken it.
   Within you, and within your team, is the potential for you to engage healing energy far beyond your imagination. The concept of Flow teaches us that it requires hard work to have a chance of accessing this energy. It also teaches us to have faith in our capability to open the door to the energy of Love and then to let go of ego so that this energy can flow through us.

-Erie Chapman

*Flow is so named because during Csikszentmihalyi’s 1975 interviews several
people described their ‘flow’ experiences using the metaphor of a current
carrying them along. For those who seek a more elaborate description of Flow factors, here is Csikszentmihalyi’s summary:

  1. Clear goals (expectations and rules are discernable).
  2. Concentrating and focusing, a high degree of concentration on a
    limited field of attention (a person engaged in the activity will have the
    opportunity to focus and to delve deeply into it).
  3. A loss of the feeling of self-consciousness, the merging of action
    and awareness.
  4. Distorted sense of time – one’s subjective experience of time is
    altered.
  5. Direct and immediate feedback (successes and failures in the course
    of the activity are apparent, so that behavior can be adjusted as needed).
  6. Balance between ability level and challenge (the activity is neither
    too easy nor too difficult).
  7. A sense of personal control over the situation or activity.
  8. The activity is intrinsically rewarding, so there is an
    effortlessness of action.
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5 responses to “The Astonishing Energy of Flow”

  1. Carol Elkins, R.N. Avatar
    Carol Elkins, R.N.

    I have had this experience before and didn’t know it’s name. It has happened for me because I am a runner and experience, sometimes, what is called “runner’s high.” I don’t know if this is exactly the same thing as Flow, but your descripton makes me believe that it is. After running hard for awhile, suddenly the “high” occurs and running becomes very easy for awhile. The comparison to sex is probably accurate. In my work, the experience of Flow is more subtle and a little less of a physical sensation. Some days, after working hard to be present to patients, the effort will change and, and I feel myself letting go of trying because I don’t need to try any more. It’s very hard to describe. It’s as if God is taking over.

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  2. Jaimee Gerrie Avatar
    Jaimee Gerrie

    Thank you,
    This article was needed in this moment.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Some of my most memorable experiences have been while I was in the presence of flow. Letting go of everything that inhibits my true self from shining through is the key. Not always easy to do, but rewarding none the less.
    Karen

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  4. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network, Orange, CA

    In the realm of nursing practice Patricia Benner RN PhD, researcher-University of San Francisco has applied the Dreyfus model to nursing. Stuart Dreyfus, a mathematician and systems analyst and Hubert Dreyfus a philosopher developed a model of skill acquisition based on the fascinating study of chess players and airplane pilots. In this model, there are 5 levels of proficiency: novice, advanced beginner, competent, proficient, and expert.
    I have the privilege to work with some expert nurses who apply their talents to the art of nursing. These nurses have advanced to a level of expertise where they are able to manage the most complex situations with seeming ease. No longer are they dependent on policy and rules to guide their actions but can quickly assess difficult situations and intuitively know to initiate the best course of action to make a difference in the lives of patients/families. Their skill goes beyond the technical tasks to care of the whole person or as Benner describes they move from detached observer to involved performer. And as you describe this is where the magic occurs and the energy of loving care unfolds.

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  5. Sun Fu CHONG Avatar

    I think it was a flow experience to come to know of the work of Mihaly Csiksczentmihalyi itself and finding your journal. I come from the country of Malaysia which has the best of the west and east. It has been a fertile ground for me to work hard and strive to gain an understanding of life. I have worked on a personal research of reading over 200 books in search of understanding optimal thinking, yet amazingly missed any on the Flow Theory. It was just in the last 24 hours that I came up with the concept of flow and decided to search the internet. Wow! I was so glad my thinking is not far from the minds of experts and will continue to ponder, research, live life and continue to enjoy the rewards of the flow experience.

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