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(Today’s Meditation is a written and edited by Catherine Self based on the writings of Erie Chapman on High Purpose Leadership and her own reflections.)

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We listen to the words of the wise, because the wise are
explorers who have discovered lands we have not seen:

“Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable…
Every step toward the goal…requires the passionate concern of
dedicated individuals…
This is the time for vigorous and positive action
.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.   

   It is easy to confuse the words passion and desire.
Anthropologist Dr. Jennifer James has said there is a difference between the
two. “Passion can be satisfied,” says Dr. James, “desire cannot.” A parallel
truth is that desire is driven by fear.
On the other side of our hearts, passion is pulled forth by love.
    Just like dictatorship and partnership, both desire and
passion can generate the appearance of success. Beneath the surface, there is
an important difference. With desire, there is always the push of fear of failure. With passion, there is always the pull of love for success.
    My son, early in his life, learned the difference between desire
and passion. As a young, aspiring baseball pitcher, Matt first tasted the
desire to be the best pitcher on the team. His focus was on earned run
averages, strikeouts, the win/loss columns, and whether his stats were better
than other pitchers in his league. However, as Matt’s heart grew to love the
game, desire turned to passion. He looked forward to playing for the game
itself, the joy of doing his best, and thrilled in the successes of his
teammates.
    As Erie Chapman has written: "The football running back pushed by fear will run to avoid being tackled.  The player pulled by passion will be drawn to the sweet grass of the end zone.
The desire driven musician fears not
playing the notes right and practices her craft out of duty. The passion filled cellist loves the sound
of the instrument and practices for the joy of creation.
    "Desire looks over its
shoulder, passion looks ahead.
Desire never notices the color of the sky,
passion always sees blue. Desire counts losses and experiences fleeting
happiness. Passion sees successes and knows the warm embrace of joy.
    "Living with high purpose comes from passion, from acting out
of love rather than from fear. Martin Luther King, Jr. understood this
principle and practice. In the mid 1950’s, those who lived in the deep South
experienced a different reality than we see today. The south that Martin Luther
King knew was riddled with discrimination and infested with blatant bias by
whites toward blacks. If you were black in the 1950 south, you could not eat at
a restaurant, drink at a water fountain or use a public bathroom without
checking first for the sign that said “Colored Only.” You could not go to
school with white children. You could not vote without paying a poll tax. You
could not ride in the front half of the bus.
    "It was obvious to any fair minded person that segregation
was wrong. Yet it took a revolutionary movement to establish the obvious in America.
    "It
took the passion of Martin Luther King, Jr – passion that was evident in his
words and in his actions. This was a man who spoke with passion, walked with
passion, marched with passion, and lived with passion. And flickering within
those who followed this man of passion was a light ready to burst into flame.
   "The bright flame of those civil rights workers is the same
light that lives in each of us. For some it flickers low, almost beneath
consciousness, like a pilot light waiting for something or someone comes along
and fans it into flame. This is the flame
that passion can awaken.
For each of us it is
meaning that motivates passion
. If the driving passion for King was
integrating the South, and the driving passion for Mother Teresa was serving
the poorest of the poor, what is our passion?
If we have decided that meaning is
important and have made our personal
commitment
, what is our passion?

   "We need not look far to find those who need our passion. It is, of course, our patients. We must flame
into being the light of our passion because our patients and our peers need us
to be more than ordinary. They need us to live from and for a high purpose."

   As you move through your day, let these questions give you
pause for reflection:

  1. What drives me in my work?
  2. What passion pulls me forward in my life? In my work?
  3. Is my passion bright enough to awaken the light in others?
  4. If not, what would make my passion even more vibrant? 

“Hatred and bitterness
can never cure the disease fear; only love can do that. Hatred paralyzes life;
love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens
life; love illumines it.”
– Martin Luther King, Jr.

   May your lives be so illumined today. 

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5 responses to “Guest Meditation: Living Passion”

  1. Kimberly Smith Avatar
    Kimberly Smith

    Reflecting on the difference between passion and desire I can’t help but think that when I’m working, serving, or giving of myself from my passion it is so very FREEING! However, when I do anything out of fear, obligation, or a sense of duty, as in the desire to please, the desire to complete tasks, or the desire to make money…I feel bound. I would much rather go through my days experiencing the freedom of living out of my passion. When I do that, all those I encounter will have the opportunity to connect with me and I with them, in a “sacred” moment.
    Kim

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  2. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    It is the challenge of leaders to nurture an environment where people are free to live/work their passions. Rather than being fearful of making a mistake, they are loved for the work that they accomplish. I appreciate today’s distinction between desire and passion.
    Karen

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  3. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    This meditation is awe inspiring, yet honestly, I feel so disconnected today, instead caught up in my emotions. The distinctions made between desire and passion, love and fear, hold promise and hopeful instruction but I feel so far removed from the wisdom offered. Awakening at an unseemly hour, life’s responsibilities and demands seem to be pulling at me in all directions. As a looming avalanche, my anxiety is fueled with feelings of inadequacy, and fear.
    So I ask myself, whom will I serve today if I succumb and fold in on myself? No one, darkness prevails. How can I serve today? Perhaps by first honoring my human weakness and acknowledging these feelings with kindness.
    How will I serve today? I gather courage and I commit doing my best today. As I step out into the light of this beautiful day, I ask for God’s grace. Today, as I reach out in my vulnerability may I somehow offer strength to others and together may we experience the healing power of love.
    I share this quote by Nelson Mandela that really speaks to my heart today.
    “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

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  4. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Kim, Karen & Liz,
    Thank you for these insights and for contributing to the Journal.
    -Erie

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  5. Jan Keeling Avatar
    Jan Keeling

    This was just what I needed to hear today. I agree that the distinction between desire and passion is very useful.

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