Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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Attitudes are more important than facts.
  – Karl Menninger

Yoursacredself
   So many of us live so much of our lives reacting the stunning array of stimuli that come from without. Yet it is what’s going on within that shapes our truth. As Wayne Dyer writes at the beginning of his book, Your Sacred Self, "You have been facing the wrong way."  According to Dyer, "the door to higher awareness…opens inward."
   If this is true, why aren’t all of us spending more of our lives exploring the mountains and valleys of our inner landscape…

   It is arguably more difficult to conduct this exploration today than has ever been the case in western civilization. Our world is conducting a broad-ranging attack on our sensibilities, shouting every moment and from every angle for our attention. The range of multi-tasking required to survive in the modern job world is particularly challenging. A typical office employee needs to master a wide array of computer software to function. This software performs endless tasks with remarkable capability. and each performance, instead of being complete in and of itself, requires some kind of encore.
   When I summon groups to engage the practice of meditation, I am met with polite nods that rarely lead to actual practice. Very few imagine they have time to "just sit there and do nothing." Accordingly, if they accept my invitation to close their eyes for even five minutes, many find this limited practice stressful. "All I could do was think about all my lists," many people tell me after we try this five minute break.
Meditation
  If there is one single practice that is guaranteed to change the life attitudes of each one of us, it is the practice of twenty minutes of meditation twice a day. Our attitudes determine not only our point of view but the quality of our time on this earth. Regular meditation virtually guarantees a reduction in one of the biggest problems we face – stress. Meditation is the single best stress reduction technique I’ve ever encountered. 
   But I appreciate that none of this is enough to convince anyone to change their life by adopting meditation. Isn’t it remarkable that something so simple and so powerful would be so widely ignored in America? Meditation, in theory, makes so little sense to the western mind. There are no drugs involved and, to repeat, it is mainly a practice that appears to be "doing nothing."
   Meditation practice calms mind and body. After the twenty minute rest, the body is refreshed and the mind starts finding its way to solutions that seemed impossible just twenty minutes before.
   Some of the folks at Alive Hospice in Nashville have been smart enough to practice the wisdom of meditation. Vice President Karen York offers sessions to employees on a regular basis. As a result, every participating employee lives a better quality life and becomes a more effective caregiver as well as a better team member for all those around them.
   Our attitudes shape our sense of well-being. Meditation and prayer improve this sense. Are you interested? Are you willing? Is it time to change your life for the better?

-Erie Chapman

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5 responses to “Attitude & Meditation”

  1. Sim Yoon Avatar
    Sim Yoon

    Thanks to Karen York, some of us at Alive Hospice meditate twice a week with her. Being a multi-tasker, it’s not always easy to shut my mind off for 5 minutes let alone 20 minutes. I’ve had sessions when I was able to “empty” my mind for more than 20 minutes. It felt great and I will continue with my practice.
    Thank you, Erie, for the much needed reminder.
    Sim

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  2. Mary Jean Powell, MSW Avatar
    Mary Jean Powell, MSW

    This must be a marvelous practice because the few people I know that do this seem more peaceful than the rest of us.

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  3. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Personally, meditation and prayer is the foundation of my spiritual path. I think it is wonderful that Karen is offering meditation to fellow caregivers at Alive Hospice and I am impressed that 5 people actually show up! I fear I would be sitting alone in my work setting…people are just too busy. It is rather paradoxical, especially for those of us in healthcare who often experience intense workday stressors, yet we find it difficult to practice self-care techniques that can renew us, reduce the toxic effects of stress, improve stamina, and our outlook on life. I’ve been thinking about starting a meditation group at our ministry for sometime and today’s Journal reflection is just the catalyst I need to take this step. For as you wisely council, meditation is a life changing practice, one that is extremely beneficial for our sense of well-being and our integration of mind, body, and spirit.
    β€œWe carry within us the wonders we seek without.” Sir Thomas Brown

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  4. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Thank you for impressing upon me the importance of meditation. It has become a much hallowed time on my calendar. Liz, I encourage you to start it at your work, even if you are the only one. Gentle persistence and encouragement will most likely pay off. Even if only one person comes, it is worth it.

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  5. Jan Keeling Avatar
    Jan Keeling

    I will try this again. When I’ve meditated in the past, I’ve set the timer for too long: 35 minutes. And I “lounged,” instead of sitting, so I often fell asleep.
    I’m going to try again, for 20 minutes, and sitting. πŸ™‚

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