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When the sun is shining, as it is today, I’m in love.  – Paul McCartney

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   An article in the June 4 New Yorker magazine seeks to chronicle the life of the 20th century’s greatest pop musician. "Paul McCartney then and now" is the essay’s subtitle. What emerges in the story is an account of a genius willing to trust his instincts. Among the many ironies in the life of this complex soul is that McCartney can neither read nor write music. Neither could his partner, John Lennon. Yet McCartney has nevertheless pursued a rigorous discipline that has enabled him to send his gift for improvising into our ears.
   The randomly awarded potentials of caregivers also need discipline in order to flower…

   McCartney made two hard tries to learn music. His reason for failure is fascinating. "I couldn’t seem to match the notes to what was in my head," he reports. This observation is a comment on his fortitude. Most of the rest of us would never persist in a music career against the challenges of those who would seek to defeat us with the nagging question: "What, you can’t read music? You better try another career."
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   As I have shared before, I once read that most small children test as geniuses up to the age of four. After that, the fall off in IQ is stunning. What happens to us? Does life crush genius?
   The improvisational abilities of children at ages three and four are enchanting. As I watch my three year old grandson act out an endless array of imaginary characters, make up songs and prance around the room to a rhythm only he seems to hear, I see confirmation of his gift to be spontaneous.
   What will become of these presents as he ages into this world? And what’s wrong with the rest of us? Part of the answer lies in the strangling strictures of society. Adults don’t  engage in much spontaneous behavior. It’s not adult. It’s not professional. The few who get away with wacky behavior are viewed with either alarm (sometimes causing them to be institutionalized) or amazement, as with the comedic gifts of actor Robin Williams.
   It’s true that professionalism requires that we do some play-acting. After all, no one wants their surgeon to emerge from the operating room screaming, "Oh my God, the blood in there was terrible."
   Useful creativity seems to be grounded in a mix of the free-spirited child with the disciplined adult. At my son-in-law’s computer company, for example, teams of engineers are encouraged to play. But their play has a point. A useful product needs to emerge from all of their energy and genius.
   Success with improvisation is an alchemy of preparation, skill, talent and the whimsical voice of genius. The first two can be developed, the last two are more random.
   When caregiving workplaces soar to greatness, as continues to happen in healing settings like Mercy Gilbert Hospital in Arizona, St. Joseph Hospital in California and Parrish Medical Center in Florida, it is because leadership knows how to reawaken the exultation of childlike creativity and channel it into the rich riverbed of loving care. Everyone at these hospitals knows that there is serious work to be done. They also know that the answers that are needed require more than technology and business savvy.
   To engage the human heart, some tolerance for spontaneity is needed.
   I watched good judgment in action as I viewed, from afar, the selection process for a new Chief Nursing Officer at Parrish Medical Center awhile back. Unwilling to pick from the first few "finalists," CEO George Mikitarian and his leadership team knew they hadn’t found the right choice yet. Their willingness to forbear led to a superb selection. Now, Edwin Lofton heads nursing at this #1 Healing Hospital and the whole department is the better for it. The final choice may, in some ways, feel random. In the end, leadership made the right decision because they were guided by Love instead of a sense of immediacy.   
   As I read about Paul McCartney, I noticed one other thing. The singer continues to feel Mccartneypaul
a sense of awe and gratitude about the luck that has come his way. To him, much of his success seems random. He walked into a church songfest at age fifteen and found a friendship with the sixteen-year old lead singer, John Lennon. Later, on a bus, he met a fourteen-year old named George Harrison. The music for McCartney’s classic song "Yesterday"(1965) came to him in a dream. He was fifteen when he wrote the song "When I’m Sixty-Four." And now, at the age of sixty-four, McCartney remains startled by his good luck.
   Was it all truly random? Or is it a commentary on this man’s genius that he was wise enough to listen to his instincts, to follow his bliss, and thus to become a channel for music that most of the world knows today.
   We all hear music, see art, feel poems. We all have dreams. Perhaps it is time for us to listen more carefully to the random occurrences in our lives. After all, how does any dream become reality?      

-Erie Chapman

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9 responses to “Improvisation’s “Random” Genius”

  1. Judi Swartout Avatar
    Judi Swartout

    Patience is rewarded. We are so fortunate to have added Edwin Loftin to our team at Parrish Medical Center.

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  2. Ellen Johnston, R.N. Avatar
    Ellen Johnston, R.N.

    Sir Paul is my favorite! Thanks for your series this week on improvisation. Parrish Medical Center sounds like a place every nurse would want to work. I hope to visit there one day – and maybe even be lucky enough to work there! I wonder why more hospitals can’t be like them.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    We forget that we have our own music and often no longer recognize our own sweet tunes. We are works of art that we minimize by self-ridicule and doubt. We are not only poets, but living poems as we move through the world. We all have dreams, but too often they are squelched by fear and the plain truth of the monotony of our existence. Finding ourselves again, in the midst of everything we do, is the continual challenge. As I’ve said before, we are “beings” not “doings”, yet we discount our being in the acts of doing. Thank you for the invitation to presence and the re-discovery of our own genius.

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  4. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    McCartney’s story is quite remarkable, I was quite surprised to learn that he and Lennon could not read or write music. I find listening to, and trusting in, my intuition a very helpful guide.
    I wish to share this story with you. Last weekend Woody and I attended a Jewish wedding of a friend and colleague, Joani. The event unfolded quite simply without pretense, in the backyard, amidst spontaneity and the electric energy of Love. After a meaningful spiritual ceremony, Jerry (groom) and friends played music and the air rang out with amazing vocalists’ songs from Joplin to Dylan. Soon, bodies moved, seemingly involuntarily, in response to fabulous sounds. It was then that the magic happened. Mattie, age 11, daughter of a band member, was called up to sing. Listening to her, one immediately recognized her rare gift. She sang with such passion as she transformed into a woman, and after the enchantment she was little Mattie once again, a regular kid. I imagined her life; spending time with dad immersed in a world of spontaneous music, jam sessions her earliest memory. Her natural genius encouraged and nurtured, as her creativity unfolded in this beautiful gift. We all left knowing we had been part of an incredible experience, friends blessed to witness Jerry and Joani embark on love’s spontaneous journey.

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  5. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    These meditations and meditative comments this week have been so helpful to me. For several years now, I have been so caught up in doing that I wasn’t taking the time to prepare and be present to the spontaneity of love. Everyday life is a poem, a dance, a prayer. Thank you all for repeatedly making me aware of this.

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  6. Catherine Self Avatar
    Catherine Self

    Diana, you are so right! Every life is a poem, a dance, a prayer. I am so grateful to you and to all who read and contribute to this journal and to our shared journey.

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  7. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thanks to each of you for the way you are contributing to the shared experience we have each weekday through this Journal. This is one way that Love comes to life in this world.

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  8. Lisa Cavallero Avatar
    Lisa Cavallero

    Hiring the right person for the right job is, to say the least, challenging. We all make mistakes along the way in regards to hiring, but this time we definitely got it right with our choice of Edwin Loftin for our VP of Nursing.

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  9. Lisa Alexander Avatar
    Lisa Alexander

    Edwin is a blessing to Parrish Medical Center. I value, respect, and appreciate his expertise and the sacred work he is doing here.
    We make a fantastic team, and it is an honor to partner with him as we continue to move forward on our journey.
    Lisa Alexander, MD

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