Journal of Sacred Work

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  In October of 1993, after leading the Chicago Bulls to three consecutive world championships in basketball, superstar Michael Jordan (left) made a strange decision. He quit. The reason? He thought it was time for him to try another sport. in the Spring of 1994 he was signed by the minor league Birmingham Barons and played with them for the rest of the season. It was strange to see this wizard on the basketball court look so uneasy on a baseball diamond.
   Career changes are tough. They take us out of our comfort zone and launch us into an unfamiliar world. Able to move easily in work to which we have become accustomed, we may suddenly find ourselves feeling awkward in a new role.
   The transition happens frequently in healthcare. First line nurses who are promoted to leadership roles may feel clumsy as they try out a role for which they may have received no training…

   Psychologists say it’s good for us to experiment working in areas outside our expertise. Otherwise, they say, we may fall victim to three problems: 1) the unused part of our potential may atrophy making us increasingly unidimensional, 2) we may become complacent, narrow-minded, and lazy if we always stay in the same role, and 3) we may become arrogant within our field and under-appreciate the world outside of what we know.
   I’ve probably taken this counsel overboard in my own life. Something inside my psyche drives me to try all kinds of things I have no business attempting including (but not limited too) modern dance, painting, music composition, poetry, a novel, a collection of short stories, a full-length play (which will be performed in February) photo-art, television & radio hosting, film production, and magazine publishing & editing not to mention an array of sports where I’ve never been better than average. This Friday, at a new radio-style show I’m hosting, I’m going to try one more thing I’ve never really done – singing in public.
   At a cognitive level, I have the idea that trying all of these things is part of living a passionate life. More likely, it’s some kind of Quixote-esque nonsense. I know I’m not really that good at any one of these things. I was trained as a trial lawyer. I did that for seven years before I entered the field of healthcare where success has come far beyond my expectations. Why bother with this other stuff?
   Each new venture generates anxiety and a wail of why-am-I-doing this? But, I really believe I am able to lead better (and live better) for trying all these different things.
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   After his year playing minor league baseball, sitting in the dugout with a bunch of fairly average players, Michael Jordan returned to the hardwood floors where his moves were magic. He then led the Bulls to three more championships. He says he never regrets his try at baseball. Why should he? We only have one chance at life. And Jordan decided he wasn’t going to stay in his comfort zone for the rest of his existence. He didn’t want to sit there in retirement moaning "I wish I had tried baseball when I could."
  And that is the challenge to each of us. What part of our unused potential could we mine that would yield gold that would enrich both our lives and the lives of others? And do we have the courage to leave our comfort zone to find out?

-Erie Chapman

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7 responses to “Leaving The Comfort Zone”

  1. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Thank you for this invitation to contemplate change and the compelling challenge to take risks. I truly admire your courageous journey of wondrous explorations, one that you model so well for us. To live is to love. The image of a skydiver comes to my mind. What choices do we have? To trust in life and take the plunge, wait to be pushed, or hold back and not jump at all. Yesterday my friend Shirley gave me a special gift, a little bracelet that says, “Live Your Life.”
    As I pay attention, my intuition guides me towards my natural gifts and I am learning to integrate what I Love most into my daily work. I am learning that with an open and receptive heart, Love’s possibilities are endless.

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  2. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network

    “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
    Martin Luther King Jr.
    This seems to fit in with this weeks meditations and was shared by Larry Ainsworth SJH CEO

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  3. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    This meditation reminds me that life is rich and abundant. So good.

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  4. Mareanne Fontenette, P.D Manager SJHHN Avatar
    Mareanne Fontenette, P.D Manager SJHHN

    I remember when Micheal Jordon left the Bulls and everyone thought he was crazy. Crazy to leave while on top, and crazy to leave something he was such a natural at. Friday July 6th, I too am doing something crazy, I am leaving a Health System I love, a Department I lead and am so proud of & co-workers I love, admire and think the world of. After many sleepless nights, I decided leaving my comfort zone of 10 years was exactly what I needed. I needed to shake up my life, to spread my wings and take the new amazing opportunity that was placed before me. I since then have had more sleepless nights wondering if this is the right decision, but always come back to the same answer-if I dont spread my wings I will never have the opportunity to grow into what God has planned for me. I am sure, comfort will come again!

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  5. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
    And sorry I could not travel both
    And be one traveler, long I stood
    And looked down one as far as I could
    To where it bent in the undergrowth;
    Then took the other, as just as fair,
    And having perhaps the better claim,
    Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
    Though as for that the passing there
    Had worn them really about the same,
    And both that morning equally lay
    In leaves no step had trodden black.
    Oh, I kept the first for another day!
    Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
    I doubted if I should ever come back.
    I shall be telling this with a sigh
    Somewhere ages and ages hence:
    Two roads diverged in a wood, and I–
    I took the one less traveled by,
    And that has made all the difference. ~Robert Frost

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  6. Anne K Avatar
    Anne K

    Today I began a journal: one year from today, I will Re-Tire! (think of Michelin and Goodyear when you read that). I don’t know what that means yet, and the year is for the journey of discernment, intentionally to think, pray and plan for what is next. I’ve had four careers, the last for twenty-five years. And as our previous writer said, it was and is comfortable. But I know it’s time to change, and to do it with intention. Like Erie, I have many loves, gifts and interests. But where am I supposed to be and what should I be doing to give myself and others joy?
    We’ll see: I’m excited about beginning the journey!
    Thank you for your journal, Erie!
    Anne

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  7. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    I read this quote today, which I liked and wanted to share…
    “What is opportunity, and when does it knock? It never knocks. You can wait a whole lifetime, listening, hoping, and you will hear no knocking. None at all. You are opportunity, and you must knock on the door leading to your destiny. You prepare yourself to recognize opportunity, to pursue and seize opportunity as you develop the strength of your personality, and build a self-image with which you are able to live — with your self-respect alive and growing.”
    — Maxwell Maltz

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