Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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   In his landmark 1992 book, Care of the Soul, Thomas Moore (left) writes: "The soul presents itself in a variety of colors, including all the shades of gray, blue, and black. To care for the soul, we must observe the full range of its colorings, and resist the temptation to approve only of white, red, and orange – the brilliant colors."
   Our American society sends us incessant messages on how to avoid the "dreaded" world of gray, blue and black. Endless commercials offer us relief from pain, protection from depression, and treatment for anything that might make us the least bit uncomfortable. As we pursue the temporary relief offered by these messages, we may weaken our internal strength to deal with trouble. And we may experience a narrow spectrum of life’s colors…

Careofthesoullrg    Although I hate the experience of it, pain is an eloquent teacher. Although I don’t, of course, enjoy violence and blatant sexuality as presented in movies, documentaries and books, I know they can be an essential part of great literature. This is because the truth, as well as the soul, requires that we recognize gray, blue and black as essential parts of the color spectrum. To ignore them is to live a lie.
   Over the past seven years since it was made, hundreds of hospitals have embraced truth in a film we made at Baptist Hospital in the year 2000-01 called Sacred Work. It’s not a "pretty" film, but it is an inspiring one. That is because it is true.
   Frankly, I doubt we could have gotten this film made if I had not been president of the hospital at that time because the making of the film required lots of access into the organization. Have you seen the typical hospital video? Most often, those fake-feeling films are filled with lies. They either present a happy picture of hospital life that everyone knows is false or they offer a boring recital of information as a "teaching tool." Decision-making executives, consumed with the idea that people must only see the bright colors of the spectrum, consistently censor any images that reveal the truth in gray, blue Sacred_work_film
and black.
   Our souls seek truth. The soul also seeks balance. Accordingly, life in the hospital is not all gray, blue and black either. And a true picture will include the bright colors of joy.
   The life of the healthy soul recognizes the full spectrum of emotion that is life and embraces all of it with courage. The darkest colors of our life have their own poetry and their own unique ability to help us appreciate that mysterious universe we call our souls.
   As you travel through the middle of this week, please share with us your reflections on the shades of color you see in your life and in your soul – the gray, blue and black as well as the bright orange and yellow.

-Erie Chapman   

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2 responses to “The Soul’s Colors”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I am learning from people in hospice who are faced with their immortality that a life with no regrets is not free from pain and hardship. Some choose to forgo complete pain relief so that they can experience life in a deeper way. I am the first to take a pain reliever when my head is hurting, yet realize that a great deal of my physical pain are symptoms of a stressed and tired soul. Embracing with courage all the colors of our lives and our souls is walking through the dark colors and learning from the deep change that happens only when we embrace it. Please note that I am not advocating abandoning the relief that medications bring, only to be open to experiencing the lessons through hard times.

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  2. liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network Avatar
    liz Wessel RN, MS SJHS Home Health Network

    As I read today’s meditation what comes to mind is acceptance. Too often I have preconceived notions and expectations of life. A big one is…I should be happy. This leads to resisting my feelings and moods. Yet, the more I resist the stronger the swell of emotion. When I finally give in and accept my experience, my energy begins to shift and with kindness and acceptance I can begin to move through it.
    I cling to the illusion that I am in control of life and it will unfold according to my desires and plans. Then pow, a sharp blow comes that wakes me up. As the earth gives way beneath my feet I realize there is no solid ground, nothing to stop, pause, or rewind life’s continual turning. I cannot stay off the death of this moment, or the birth of a new. There is only the tenderness of this moment born in Love.
    Meditation is a great teacher. As thoughts comes up whether good or bad, James Finley instructs, “allow your thoughts to arise, endure, and pass away,” without judgment, avoidance or holding on to them. I am discovering intimacy in times of quiet listening. The journey inward is a winding path with hues of light, dark, and radiant color, that offers moments of sweet peace and acceptance.

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