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Remember those who are in prison, as though you were in prison with them; those who are being tortured, as though you yourselves were being tortured.   – Hebrews 13:3

Prisoners  One of the great spiritual practices for caregivers is to remember those we may have ignored. Prisoners are among the great forgotten. Shunned from society, they are caged away from the rest of us. Many shun the convicted from their thoughts as well as their presence in society.
   As a federal prosecutor and night court judge, I have participated in the imprisonment of many people. What always struck me as unfair was not their imprisonment, but the way many were treated behind bars. Felons are sentenced to be segregated from the rest of society. But no court sentences a person to be raped, beaten or tortured. Yet this is what happens to many both here and around the world…

   Love is not reserved for the law-abiding. We all need to open our hearts in forgiveness and compassion for those who, for whatever reason, live this day behind bars.
   Love and forgiveness do not call us to release prisoners. Instead, we are called to treat all beings with dignity and respect.
   Prisons The test of our society and each of us is found not only with how we treat those dear to us but how we think of those who are remote from us both by location and by behavior. It is difficult for many to pray for prisoners because, somehow, they may imagine that compassion for the convicted means approval for another’s crimes.
   Compassion is often confused with pity. We have all heard the contempt in the voices of those who condemn another by saying: "I pity you."
   Pity is an act of condescension. Compassion is an act of love.
   I remember, back in the early 1970s, prosecuting a man named Chester Range for bank robbery. Range didn’t just rob a bank. He also pistol-whipped two bank tellers. After his conviction, the judge administered the sentence I recommended – twenty-five years I remember the disgusted look on Range’s face as he headed out of the courtroom.
   Chester Range, if he survived, has long since finished his sentence. I didn’t think of him very often across his time in prison as I went on living my life in freedom. But I wish I would have taken some moments to pray for him and to express the hope that he was treated humanely.
   It is a tragedy that some of us must face time in cages. It is a travesty that any prisoners are ever subjected to torture. Torture is perhaps the most hateful thing one person does to another and we may pray, today, for those who are its victims.
   We may remember, as well, the many caregivers who look after our prisoners in hospitals and clinics. Their selfless willingness to give good treatment to those labeled "bad" by society is a hallmark of loving care.

-Erie Chapman

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5 responses to “Remembering Prisoners”

  1. Tom Knowles-Bagwell Avatar
    Tom Knowles-Bagwell

    This is a very challenging meditation for me, Erie. I find it more comfortable to live my life oblivious of the fact of others who are imprisoned. I suspect that my discomfort is multilayered and “over determined.” Thank you, though, for this uncomforting reminder of the call of love.

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  2. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    I believe that carrying Clancy Ranger in your heart all these years has been a special kind of prayer. In recent times, I have been praying the rosary, I guess, in a way, to intensify my prayer intentions. I have added prisoners and caregivers to my prayer offerings. I know of caregivers in our community who share in fellowship with women who are in prison. My hope is that these caregivers might share with Journal readers the inspiring healing experiences that are taking place. What a blessing it would be to see programs like this expand to other prisons across the country, as little seeds of Love planted in hearts and minds of others.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I appreciate this stirring meditation and Tom’s candid comments. I don’t often think of prisoners with the exception of when they are highlighted in a movie. I am saddened by the news of abuse and the joking way that society accepts the inhumane acts that occur. I will include them in my thoughts and prayers as my heart reaches out to those in situations that I can’t even imagine. I am so insulated…

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  4. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I have been visiting a man on Tennessee’s death row for over 7 years. For me, we are all children of God, no more, no less. I go to the prison pretty much weekly. I continue to be amazed at the ability of the inmates to live in cages, in a system of punishment and shame. It truly says something about the human spirit to survive in prison. I remember once asking the man I visit how he is able to make it day by day in prison. He responded with a core belief that “life is good.” Then he went on to describe things in nature. Keep in mind this man has not felt grass for more than 20 years. A prison system based on punishment is a failure – for the victim, the perpetrator, and for society. What is needed is a system of restoration. Restoration includes accountability, but it also looks at the whole person and allows for compassion and respect and our own role in righting a wrong. We are all more than the worst thing we have ever done.

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  5. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Diana,
    Wow, thank you for sharing your good works and philosophy, “We are all better than the the worst thing we have ever done,” how beautiful and how true.
    (My apologies for incorrect name…Mr. Chester Range)

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