Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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   On Monday evenings, my wife and I often watch a program on PBS called Antiques Roadshow. Folks bring in stuff from the attic, things they’ve found along the road, items purchased at garage sales or passed down from relatives and ask the experts what they’re worth. There are nice surprises. This Monday, for example, a pair of vases purchased at a garage sale for $10 turn out to be worth $20,000. A partly broken container found along a roadside turns out to be a Zuni creation worth $15,000.
   How do we know what is valuable? The things you might love, I might hate. The thing I might treasure may be worth nothing to you.
   Experts tell us things we might never have imagined: that a given piece of curved glass that may look like junk is actually something crafted by Lewis Comfort Tiffany in the late nineteenth century…

An old baseball may be worth nothing or it may be one of the few signed by Eddie Matthews and Stan Musial.
   All of this makes me think of the way someone from a remote part of China might view a multi-million Pavoratti
dollar Van Gogh as worthless, while we might take the same view of an ancient Sanskrit manuscript. A great performance by Pavoratti (left) may fall on deaf ears if the audience is Middle Eastern.
   How, and in what way, do we recognize the genius displayed by America’s caregivers every day and in so many ways? On this day, many of America’s doctors have engaged in valuable acts of caregiving for patients who were unable to appreciate the gift they received. Today, many of America’s nurses will deliver rare and valuable acts of kindness to patients who may be unconscious, disoriented, or fully aware, but unappreciative of the value of the caregiving they have received.
   Our challenge is to educate ourselves to recognize the rare presents caregivers deliver each day. And the rest of the challenge is for us to learn how to know that these are gifts of incomparable value and to celebrate them, and the people that create them, as the masterpieces they are.

-Erie Chapman

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7 responses to “Recognizing Value”

  1. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    A simple act of kindness as gift from one’s heart holds immeasurable value to me. Yes, may we be aware of the many varied ways Love manifests in our day and celebrate such beauty.

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  2. Lorilee Amlie Avatar
    Lorilee Amlie

    I loved this posting today Erie. We caregivers provide loving care not expecting to always be appreciated, and when it happens it is a such pleasant surprise. I am trying to make a point every day at work to thank the people I work with for the care they give to our patients.

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  3. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    I had a basal cell carcinoma removed from my face yesterday (day of this meditation). I was so aware of the loving care I received from the physician and the nurse during the procedure. They treated me with respect and with concern. Plus they were nice! One thing I noticed about the physician. When I thanked him, he received my gratitude by saying “You’re welcome.” This may seem minor, but our culture is getting where we usually don’t say “You’re welcome” when thanked. Instead we say something like “It was nothing” or “no, thank You.” Roberta Bondi, a theologian at Chandler School of Theology in Atlanta, quotes one of the desert fathers as saying, “It is more blessed to receive than to give.” She interprets this to mean that it is important to receive love from others so that you allow others to give love. The nurse spent much more time with me than the physician, as expected. I had the chance to thank her for being so nice. She just glowed in response. So thank you all for heightening my awareness of both giving and receiving loving care.

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  4. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Diana,
    Thanks for sharing your experience with us and I am glad to know it was positive considering what was awaiting you. I am sending thoughts of healing energy and light through cyberspace to you. I hope you are able to take time for you and rest up as I know you have been exceedingly busy caring for others as of late.
    Blessings and Love to you,
    ~liz

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  5. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    Liz: Thank you so much for reaching out personally to me. For my job yesterday, I spent the day in Hohenwald, TN. It is in a very rural area of Middle TN. I’m not sure why I am bringing this up. Yesterday was just a good day. Maybe because I was so close to the elephants in their sanctuary – see http://www.elephants.com. love and blessings on you, Diana

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  6. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Diana,
    I checked out the website for the elephant sanctuary. Thanks for sharing this with me. I am glad that you are doing well! I find spending time in nature helps to ground me and is healing in itself.
    🙂
    ~liz

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    liz Wessel

    P.S. I visited the website a second time and watched a video. It was very informative and wonderful to see the elephants in a natural habitat. Fantastic program and very educational to watch. Thanks again!

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