Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love. –1 John 4:8

The last three words in the Apostle John’s first letter, "God is love," are, to my mind, among the most important in all of the Bible. John tells us "who" God is. He doesn’t describe God as male or female, but as an all encompassing loving energy. Earlier in the same letter, John also writes that God is light and this serves to amplify how Love shines into this world. We know this light. We have seen it’s brightness and felt it’s warmth.
For America’s caregivers, the majority of whom are female, it may be comforting to consider a sense of God as the power of Love rather than as simply a male father figure. Thinking of God as Love has opened a whole new way of thinking for me and I hope it will illuminate your life as well…
As I have written before, imagine if you replaced the word "God" with the word "Love" throughout the Bible? Jesus, for example, becomes the son of Love. We, also, become children of Love: brothers and sisters who were touched at birth with the divine hand of Love.
Some of the Old Testament language that describes God as fierce, frightening, and punishing seems less fearful, and perhaps less credible, as we re-imagine God as Love. A male, God-figure might ask Abraham to offer his son Issac as a "burnt offering on one of the mountains that I shall show you." But would Love ask this of Abraham? Similarly, would Love send plagues of locusts and disease as "punishments?"
At the same time, we know that Love, and life itself, ask a great deal of us. Love calls us to do many hard and painful things and life itself is constant tribulation for so many of Love’s children. It is the notion of God as some kind of male king who threatens hellfire and damnation that has always troubled me.
After all, some may fear God, but should we fear Love?
That is the reason I advance this idea of God as Love for caregivers. If the Apostle John is right, and I believe he was and is, Love is not to be feared but embraced. Love is the energy that holds hope, courage and joy. Love is the only force that makes caregiving worthwhile.
"God is Love." What wonderful news.
-Erie Chapman
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