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   The last hours of the year provide an opportunity to reflect on the 364 days that have preceded this one. When I consider my efforts to nurture the Garden of Loving Care, I often find my own behavior wanting. Clearly, writing about Loving Care doesn’t make it come true. If anything, it establishes a standard that those around me sometimes like to point to. "Hey, Mr. Loving Care, how come you’re seeming irritable?" someone will point out to me when I veer off the path of kindness.
   What I am pleased about are things like this:…

1) This Journal is still alive. Although our readership is still
not large, we have fifty to one hundred people a day who regularly come
to this site. About five to seven people are kind enough to offer
comments to nurture further reflection.
2) A brand new book, The Caregiver Meditations – Reflections on Loving Presence, came out in the spring of this year and thousands of copies are now in the hands of caregivers.
3) The charity work of the Baptist Healing Trust has helped improve the lives of thousands of vulnerable people in Middle Tennessee and beyond.
4) Top leaders of twelve hospitals attended our first annual CEO Healing Hospital Summit in Nashville. This summit signals a greater focus on loving care by the leadership most able to bring about change.
5) Although I had nothing to do with it, of course, I’m so grateful for the arrival into this world of my granddaughter Sonia Gina. At age three weeks, she is still blessed with good health. She also has the precious blessing of two wonderfully loving parents.
   This year has held many other sweet blessings as well as some heartbreaking losses. Each day is a gift – especially when we are present to it.
   What are the things you’ve done this year that have nurtured your own Garden of Love?

-Erie Chapman

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5 responses to “Reflection – 2007”

  1. Lorilee Amlie Avatar
    Lorilee Amlie

    All of your items in your Garden of Love sound wonderful and fulfilling. The things I have done to nuture my own Garden of Love include meeting Liz Wessel and being introduced to this site and the book Radical Loving Care. Being around Liz makes me want to work at being a better person.
    I am also almost done with school and I hope my advanced degree will give me more opportunities to bring loving care into my work.
    My life is blessed and I hope everyone has a safe and Happy New Year.

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  2. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thank you, Lorilee, and thanks, also to each of those who regularly comment in this space including Liz, Karen, Tom, Edwin, Diana,Mareanne, Victoria, Sonya and Jan.
    Happy New Year.

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  3. Mareanne Fontenette-May (MFM) Avatar
    Mareanne Fontenette-May (MFM)

    Thank you for reminding me Erie that although we may strive to always provide loving care, we are all human and have days when we veer from the path. What’s most important is that we acknowledge our misgivings and veer back into our journey of providing loving care. Thank you for the commitment you put into this site, it is truly a gift.
    Lorilee you are right, Liz Wessel is an amazing woman and someone I am proud to call my friend. Her presence emanates love and makes you want to be a better person!
    2007 has been an amazing year, one fulled with change, new beginnings and a promise for a wonderful 2008!
    Happy New Year!!

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  4. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    2007 was a year of change for me – job, home, and commitment to help care for my elderly parents – as well as commitment to cultivate self-care. I’m thankful for the journey that has lead me to this point. I’m thankful for each one of you.

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  5. liz Wessel Avatar
    liz Wessel

    Diana I have missed you and I am glad you are back! Lorilee and Mareanne I thank you for your kindness. I have learned a lot about friendship and Love from all of you!
    As I reflect on this past year, I am grateful for friends and family who touched my life with Loving-kindness. I appreciate those who have been less than kind to me as well because they have helped me develop greater self-awareness. I have learned how good “yes” can feel when I open my heart to choices that matter. To elaborate, I share these experiences from my week.
    -Although, I felt overwhelmed as I organized my house for a dinner party, a friend called to ask if I had time to go for coffee to talk, I said, “yes, of course!”
    -Unexpectedly, a delightful seven-year-old child was in my care for a day. We made oatmeal and peanut butter sandwiches, we hiked at the park, climbed monkey bars, played cards, and I let the chores wait.
    -On “Sharing Sunday we shared a meal at Emmanuel House (residence for people with HIV/Aids), I lingered to listen and chat with a gentle young man. I found it much more meaningful than a boring night of TV.
    -With Woody’s famous cookies in hand, we visited our friend who is slowly rehabilitating, a small gesture to show we care.
    This year I have expressed Love more often, forgiven more freely, and I said I am sorry when needed. Daily I have tended the garden of Loving Care through contemplative prayer, meditation, reading, reflecting, and writing in response to the wonderful teachings offered on this Journal and I have benefited immensely. In return, I have given of my heart, risked vulnerability, and visibility. I have learned that it is not so important what I write but that I do so in the spirit of Love. (Sorry I am so wordy.)
    Dear readers,
    Does this Journal nurture your soul as it does mine? A garden thrives in relationship. Won’t you risk becoming visible and join this caring circle? Even a simple acknowledgment that what you read held meaning is deeply valued. We all will benefit greatly if you make this choice to grow this garden together. Happy New Year!
    ~liz

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