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"…the salvation of this human world lies nowhere else than in the human heart, in the human power to reflect, in human meekness and in human responsibility." – Vaclav Havel, former President of Czechoslovakia in a speech to the U.S. Congress

   President Havel spoke to our Congress from a position of powerful experience and seering pain. The country he represented at the time of his speech had experienced years of oppression under Soviet rule. "A person who cannot move…because he is pinned under a boulder," he said, "has more time to think about his hopes than someone who is note trapped that way." How many of us allow ourselves to feel trapped under the oppression of a tyrannical boss or a bad work environment?…

And in that situation, how well do we nurture or dreams? I find that many caregivers seem to have given up – surrendered to the idea that things can never get better. In so doing, they surrender their humanity and begin doing their jobs by rote.
   Every act of kindness opens the door to Love. Every time we tolerate injustice, including in our workplace, a piece of our soul breaks off and floats away. How may we reclaim our souls? Part of the answer is already clear – it is by acts of kindness.
   But it takes more. It’s easy for caregivers to be kind to nice patients and nice co-workers. A great act of Love occurs when we show compassion to people who act in repulsive ways.
   The human heart is both fragile and strong. It is vulnerable to wounds and it is capable of the most important actions any person can take toward another. It requires courage to take these actions, the kind of courage that Love enables. 

-Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Day 86 – The Human Heart”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    This week, I notice the Journal meditations offer a macrocosm of a world view perspective, and readers answer within the microcosm, of each persons’ heart felt response. Erie, what seers my heart is your statement, “Every time we tolerate injustice, including in our workplace, a piece of our soul breaks off and floats away.” This is a helpful reminder because I sometimes take a path of least resistance by remaining silent and allowing a comment or behavior to occur unchallenged, that diminishes my self or others. I am fortunate to work for a great organization, yet I am responsible to muster my courage and safeguard the values we profess. What is important to me is not to hold a grudge against anyone and to make peace because life is too short and I want to focus my energy on what matters.
    I feel this poem embodies the macro/microcosm that is unfolding in this weeks Journal.
    If there is to be peace in the world,
    There must be peace in the nations.
    If there is to be peace in the nations,
    There must be peace in the cities.
    If there is to be peace in the cities,
    There must be peace between neighbors.
    If there is to be peace between neighbors,
    There must be peace in the home.
    If there is to be peace in the home,
    There must be peace in the heart.
    ~Chinese Philospher – Lao-Tse – 6th century bce

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  2. Tom Knowles-Bagwell Avatar
    Tom Knowles-Bagwell

    I have to say that I’ve always thought highly of the Czech people because of their electing Vaclav Havel as their president. I wish there were more world leaders who had the insight into human nature that Havel has. I also believe he is a perfect example of the sort of courage you are saying we as caregivers need in order to allow Love to work its healing power through us. “. . . nowhere else than in the human heart.”

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  3. Lorilee Amlie Avatar
    Lorilee Amlie

    I enjoyed this posting very much, I agree with the posting Liz made, I also have remained silent just to get through a situation.
    This is not good, but when the bad behavior happens over and over, it is the path of least resistance. I will try to offer a kindness when I experience an unkind situation, just to even the score!

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  4. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    Erie, sometimes I will read your writings and don’t respond. There is always a lesson to learn, and this week has made me think more about tolerating those who act cruel, or just plain rude to others at work.
    Responding today is difficult, as I also tend to let “that” person vent as I try to remain neutral during their negative behavior.
    I’m learning to pick my battles.

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