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Our biggest fear is that the aftermath could be more lethal than the storm itself
.  – Caryl Stern, U.N. Children Relief – about the Myanmar (Burma) cyclone

   So many of us think that Love is obvious. So many imagine that we all agree about the need for Love and no one will get in the way of its expression. Military leaders in the country of Myanmar (aka Burma) demonstrate otherwise. They believe power and control are far more important than Love. With tens of thousands already killed by the cyclone of nature, the arrogant generals that run the country are killing more by blocking the delivery of vital food and medicines. Control is more important to them than the alleviation of suffering…

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   The story in China (left) is different and the same. As the most devastating earthquake of this century continues to steal lives, the Chinese government seems to be rushing to help. Simultaneously, this same government continues to oppress and sometimes torture monks in the peaceful country of Tibet.
   In the 1960s and 70s, as the need for seat belts and car safety became obvious to everyone, Ralph Nader found himself fighting a remarkably lonely battle against big auto companies. Today, our government continues to obstruct efforts to protect our environment.
   And in hospital after hospital and charity after charity, numerous CEOs continue to pay more attention to bottom line dollars and organizational control than they do to the needs of first line employees.
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  In every instance, the instructions of Love are clear: Let supplies come into Myanmar; stop punishing and torturing the gentle monks of Tibet; place car safety ahead of corporate profits; protect our environment.
   A New York Times photo from China (left) symbolizes a world dilemma. When the forces of nature come crashing down on us, some reach out to help. Others ignore the need or actually block help.
   More often than not, Love is a foreign presence in the halls of leadership.
   As for our places of caregiving, will America’s healthcare leaders ever understand that the most important thing they can do is to take care of the people who take care of people?
   All of this is obvious. Or is it? Is Love, in fact, quite uncommon?
   What do you think?

-Erie Chapman

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3 responses to “Day 135 – Uncommon Love”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    I agree that the theory of love is quite obvious. We talk about loving care, weave its language into our daily work, and hail the loving stories at the bedside. Yet, it somehow gets muddied when we have a fellow employee who makes an error in judgment. Or we get confused when a patient desperately needs our continued care, but doesn’t meet “criteria”. It’s ego and fear, which are really the same thing, that blocks the decision making that our heart knows is right.
    Like many of you I wept at hearing the news this week of these two natural tragedies and the idea of people being buried alive without help, with little hope. No matter what government is in charge, people are the same worldwide. We desperately need love and will do anything to save our loved ones.

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Today’s meditation takes me to the writings of Jean Vanier from his book Becoming Human, “How easy it is to fall into the illusion of a beautiful world when we have lost trust in our capacity to make our broken world a place that can be more beautiful.”
    Fear is the great motivator behind oppressive behaviors of leaders whose compulsive desires to resist life’s natural rhythm of change to retain power through control over others.
    Love calls us to go beyond our own needs to that of our larger human family. Vanier encourages us to seek the common good through a life of service working for peace and justice in evolution for the good of all. He shares this verse from Isaiah 58:6-7,11
    to break unjust chains
    to share your food with the hungry
    to shelter the homeless poor
    then you shall be like a watered garden,
    like a spring of water
    whose waters fail not

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  3. MELISSA SCOTT Avatar
    MELISSA SCOTT

    The part”More often than not, Love is a foreign presence in the halls of leadership.” Really spoke to me. Leadership = influence and we are all influencing people everyday.I think sometime it’s easy to forget that.It can be challenging to live with such integrity in a world that demands so much less.I am grateful for the reminder.

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