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   I encountered them in the store – three ordinary vegetables who looked
anything but ordinary to my beholding eyes and close touch. Beholding.
It’s an elegant and noble sounding word. Beholding the rapture brings
the weight of the religious since some think of the rapture as something to do with the
ascension of Christ.
   But a more common meaning of rapture
describes it as a state of being transformed by a lofty emotion. A sort
of ecstasy. To behold such a rapture must be transforming in and of
itself.
   Things and people are sacred and meaningful because of
the way we encounter them. Since we are the ones who bring the meaning,
then anything can be meaningful. Any anything may be a vehicle for transcendence
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   Thus my encounter with the trio of
peppers. It wasn’t that I wanted to taste them. It was that I wanted to behold them and to run my fingers around their whorls and over their
curves. To me, they are magnificent.
   One of my colleagues at the
Trust spoke at our Monday staff meeting about the relatively new (to
America) concept of "slow food." It’s become a movement
described at the website: www.slowfoodusa.org.
Slow food is understood best by thinking of it in contrast to it’s
widely practiced opposite, "fast food." In the midst of a fast eating society,
a small cadre of Americans have begun to contemplate slow food as a
whole different way to live – a life of appreciation of safe, clean,
wholesome, fresh and carefully enjoyed food. It is a way of beholding
God, something that may seem hard to do in the rush of the local fast
food joint.
   What does this mean for caregivers? Amid the bustle
of paperwork and tasks, behold the being before you! You are
witnessing the sacred quality of your work – the slow moments amid the fast.

-Erie Chapman

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3 responses to “Day 183 – Beholding”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Thank you for beholding these “stoplight” peppers and sharing with us. I enjoy local farmers’ markets to soak in the beauty and poetry of our local produce. It’s not about picking the right fruit, but relishing the experience of “being” with them. I am also drawn to hands of those who work there. Their skin toughened by sun and soil, cradles and protects each morsel as a special creation. It truly is a labor of love and helps me to appreciate the beauty in each of us.

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Thanks for sharing the gift of your beholding which transformed my experience of three ordinary green peppers into one of exquisite beauty. Interesting to learn about this new slow food concept and now I want to learn more. Karen, your perspective enhanced the Lovliness of today’s meditation for me. 🙂
    In the realm of caregiving I think of my recent time staying at the hospital with my brother. On the day of discharge, a dietitian came in to conduct a food satisfaction survey. John told her the food was fine. I told her I was happy she asked because I had observed that the caregivers were missing an opportunity to find meaning in their work. They drop off the tray and leave without any communication. If they realized how important their work was and how simple kindness could brighten a person’s day they might experience joy in their work. She said, “Oh you mean customer service training?” Well, not exactly, I mean helping caregivers to understand that a smile or a warm greeting could make a big difference to the person who is ill. I am not sure that she comprehended my meaning. I am planning on writing a letter, perhaps I will include a Touch Card of Remembrance.

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  3. Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales Avatar
    Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales

    Due to my inpatient curiosity I immediately clicked on the link to Slow Foods USA. I wanted to see what this movement was all about. On their home page is a statement, “Supporting good, clean and fair food.” I thought, now that is a simple easy to understand concept. That should just be an everyday idea. However, according this website America is one of the worst offenders of the opposite. It’s sad, although, it is an exciting movement. Thanks for sharing Erie.
    However, I am delighted to read that the idea of Slow Food is also simply about taking the time to slow down and to behold life with family and friends. We often forget, to smell the roses, when we live busy lives. To simply slow down and note what Liz posted today regarding the satisfaction survey for her brother John. To recognize that during a caregivers brief encounter with a patient, that even the smallest non-verbal jester of a smile :0) can speak volumes of caring when he/she is feeling ill.

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