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Yes, art is dangerous. Where it is chaste, it is not art.  – Pablo Picasso (1881-1973)

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   When I came across Picasso’s line, I wondered a long time about it. Is a straightforward painting of a tree, like the one at left, too "chaste" to be art? At the same time, is Picasso’s own painting, entitled, "Dead Tree" below, left, great art because it is dangerous? What is dangerous about that painting?
   Perhaps Picasso himself would say his own painting did not become great until he began to paint with more danger – things like the third image, below, entitled, "Nude Under a Pine Tree" which he painted forty years after "Dead Tree." No doubt, his goal was to "provoke" us to see in new and deeper ways. For that, the viewer needs to take risks as well as the artist. For great art to reach us, we must be in dialogue with it. If we dismiss it too abruptly, we will never hear what the artist has to say to us.
      Had Picasso passed away in 1919, shortly after the "Dead Tree" Picassodead_tree_1919painting, it is unlikely he would have achieved the greatness that has made him a household name. What do you think?
   What seems most important for caregivers is whether we can exchange the word "Love" for the word "art" in Picasso’s quote. Must love be dangerous in order to be Love? Perhaps, there is no such thing as safe Love. For the expression of Love requires that we walk away from something so dear to us it seems impossible to set aside: our own egos.
   In our continuing effort to understand Love, the recent and controversial work of Eckhart Tolle may be illuminating…

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   Tolle writes that, "Ego is the unobserved mind that runs your life when you are not present as…the watcher." Tolle challenges conventional thinking with writing that sometimes seems complex and convoluted. "The ego," he writes, "perceives itself as a separate fragment in a hostile universe, with no real inner connection to any other being…" As a result, Tolle says, egos fall into competition, anger, resentment, possessiveness and a host of other negative emotions.
   Part of Tolle’s solution lies in the tricky notion of watchfulness that calls us to observe our thoughts rather than to be them. He believes that full presence will result in the falling away of ego as ego gives way to the subject of our presence.
   Full presence is a deeply difficult practice, especially for ego-obsessed westerners. Yet, Tolle’s work is worth exploring if only to help us understand what we believe if it is in contrast to Tolle’s views.
   As for Love, many would say that chastity is essential to its practice. But, is this really what is meant by chastity? When chastity becomes prudishness, it is hardly Love. Yes, Love is dangerous. Where it is chaste, it is not Love.
   What do you think and how do your thoughts help illuminate the nature of caregiving? Do either of Picasso’s paintings, shown here, help you appreciate this concept of the need for danger?
-Erie Chapman

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6 responses to “Days 190-191 – Love, Danger & Chastity”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    I agree Love does require that we take risks, open our minds and see with our hearts. I am learning that my ego perceives from a place of scarcity; yet Love knows only abundance. Love blossoms when we are open to receive and accept God’s gift, when we remember that we are Love, when we hear God speak to us through one another. Spiritual law shows us that the only way to have Love is by giving it away (Course in Miracles).
    Thanks for sharing Picasso’s paintings that embody the meaningful thoughts you have shared with us.

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  2. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Picasso’s paintings do provoke me to look deeper into the work, which provokes me to look deeper into myself. It is so easy to turn away from a picture that doesn’t logically make sense, or that portrays something not so pleasant. The mission of the artist is to invite us to engage in deeper meaning and to see the world and ultimately ourselves with a different lens. It is dangerous to love freely and to care passionately for when we are open, we are free. This freedom helps the caregiver to gaze into the eyes of the dying patient whose disease has eaten away their flesh and to provide reassurance that someone will be with them and care for them.

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  3. Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales Avatar
    Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales

    Wow, I am not sure how to respond to this very deep and meaningful meditation today. I feel a little overwhelmed by the comparison of words (love, chastity and danger) to the paintings. Therefore, I simply post an agreement with both Liz’s and Karen’s postings today, as they seem to be able to express some of my own feelings that I cannot put into words.

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Our chaplain offered these words yesterday when giving a blessing of the hands to caregivers at our orientation class. They seem to resonate with this meditation.
    “When what I do and who I am flow as one…
    Then science and art mingle
    And I am a powerful medium for healing
    Both in life and death.”
    Author Unknown

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  5. Tammy Alvarez Avatar
    Tammy Alvarez

    Wow,
    When I read this meditation, It reassures me that I am moving in the right direction in where I want to go and what I want to do to continue the journey of a healing hospital. I am leaving a wonderful organization for the love of providing meaning and depth to another. I am taking a risk but again it is worth it.
    When I look deeper into the work and meaning of my own career, I feel a sense of calling and purpose.

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  6. Xavier Espinosa Avatar
    Xavier Espinosa

    “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” I remember reading an essay who’s message I share with every group of new hires at our ministry.
    A university brought together a group of people and asked them three questions. One- What is your concept of beauty? Fifty participants had fifty different views of what beauty was to them. I think of a time when a roomate of mine in college had no place to spend Thanksgiving so I invited her to come to my home with me over the holiday. She easily won over everyone because she was so open,caring and genuine. Even years later an aunt of mine asked “How is your friend?” Because my parent’s home was a regular venue for all of my friends, I had some difficulty remembering who she had met. I asked further, “Who are you talking about?” My aunt replied “The heavy black girl”
    I had to think who it was that she was referring to, until I realized it was my dear friend who when I took the time to pay attention was Black and she was heavy (as she would later say “Thin may be in, but fat is where it’s at”) But I never noticed any of her physical attributes, she is one of the most beautiful people I know.
    We know that people like to associate with people who are like us. It helps us to have shared vision and community and growth. Beautifiul people like to be with beautiful people.
    The next two questions were simple “Are beautiful people more kind? Or are kind people more beautiful?”
    When we look at an art piece, it provokes much emotion in some and little in others. We see what we see and process according to our relative history, experiences and what makes us feel good. How do we conceptualize the intrinsic reward that comes from providng a service with integrity and heartfelt love? How important does a mundane task we perform become to those who receive it?
    The Sacredness of our work is not easily explained to others because how do we express the overwhelming emotion that chokes us when our patients look at us in a way that tells us that what we did as part of our minute to minute processes gave them strength, power, hope? How much significance does the welling of the tear in the corner of their eye mean to me as to my coworker.
    I am proud to say how beautiful all the people I work with are. Because we notice the tear, the smile and know that we all are working in the beauty.

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