Journal of Sacred Work

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 [Below is the piece I wrote for the very first edition of the Journal of Sacred Work. I hope it will encourage you to search other previous essays as I take some days of vacation with family. – Erie]

A Mountain Lake Experience

Consider
the difficulty of looking at a painting like Turner’s Lake of Zug
(viewable by entering in Google the phrase: "William Turner, Lake of
Zug.") The first question in the mind of the average westerner is: What
is it? The obvious answer comes – mountains, a lake, people. Now the
heartbreaking part: Art museum studies show that the average viewer
spends about seven seconds in front of a great art work. How hard it is
to appreciate the gift of beauty in seven seconds.

What
kinds of noise circle about you now? How is your attention, your
presence to the deepest needs of others, your ability to hear the music
of your own soul?

Turner

The
forces of the world – schedules, agendas, lists – yank us from our
center and toss us about so that we may feel like flotsam riding ocean
cross-currents. Radios play, televisions sell their messages, e-mail
asks for answers, cell phones shout, video games dance. Each calls like
a siren for our attention. Your own thoughts may shout louder than all
the other noise so that you are frightened to take the minutes of
silent meditation your soul needs to help you thrive in this world.

Caught
in the swirl, it is no wonder that America’s caregivers, beeped at,
paged, blinked at by call lights, may lose touch with the core of their
calling – to care for those in need, to offer healing, to be present to
pain and joy – to be present to real light instead of its electric
imitations.

Competing
demands dilute our ability to heal with love. They interfere with our
capacity to appreciate the beauty around us and to live our love.

Early
caregivers understood the power of presence – the need to be heard and
to be loved. Those who cultivate presence in long interactions are also
more effective at being present in brief encounters. The practice of
meditation is the exercise most likely to further our ability to be
present to others. It is a gift we give ourselves and, in turn, becomes
a gift we give to others.

Presence Meditation: Take
a full minute with this lovely work, a painting by the mid-nineteenth
century artist, William Turner. It is called The Lake of Zug – 1843.
See how adding fifty-three seconds to the first seven affects your
appreciation.

Poetry Meditation: Here
is a brief meditation I wrote after looking at Turner’s Lake of Zug for
a minute that was full and rich and peaceful for me.

Turner’s Lake

Outside me, three tree branches dance above bunches of nervous cars

driven
by blank-faces waiting for red to go green, tires to turn, the radio to
play the next song. Back within, I sit, close my eyes, open

my
heart’s door. It’s time to visit an Alpine lake the way Turner
watercolored one in 1843’s summer. The elbow of the steep blue mountain
blocks the sun’s effort

to
define itself. What light there is hazes the lake below. In the left
distance, two men boat. In the right foreground, children
rock-scramble. In the lower

left,
two inch-high women thigh-deep the lake, wash clothes they aren’t
wearing, air their skin near brown rocks & blue water. Near the
dying man

I will care for today, others edge to the end of their earthly

visit. Today, I will take my patient’s hand, listen to his pictures. When he falls asleep,

I will stay awhile, pour out a blue lake, arrange some rocks around it.
Nearby, mountain peaks will pierce the sky, children play, women wash clothes &

two men will sway in a wooden boat that will never reach the shore.

A Gift For You:

What
do you see in the painting now? How do you feel? Pick a painting or
photograph of your own choice and give it to yourself as a gift to
guide a personal meditation. Spend time with it – one minute, five
minutes, twenty minutes. Then put it in one of your heart’s pockets and
carry it with you across the day. This gift will become a present for
all those around you.

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4 responses to “Day 212 – Revisiting June 7, 2006”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    I think back on all the many days since the Journal began and this journey of daily reflection. Two things strike me. First, reflection has helped me know myself better. My inner core is stronger and the lens that I gaze upon this world has opened enabling me to see with my heart. I listen as the Spirit gently guides me and I know my sole purpose in life.
    Secondly, this practice of reflection in this unique community forum with other caregivers has enriched my life. I am amazed at the endless reservoir of thoughts and ideas that spring forth from the Loving intention of these meditations. What a precious gift Erie has given us. Catherine, readers, and dear friends who post, some of you I have never met, yet I look forward to reading you intimate thoughts each day. What continues to expand out to bless others is our Love shared.
    I go forth healed, to offer healing and Love.

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  2. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Liz, you, Cathy, Karen and Diana were among the first to post comments in the Journal. As others have come and gone, you four have remained the most loyal. Thanks to each of you for nurturing the community of the Journal where caregivers, some of whom will never meet each other in person, may gain comfort from sharing. Thanks also to newer members of this community for expanding and enriching our dialogue.
    With love,
    erie

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Bless you Erie for your steadfast attention to this journal and for lifting the hearts of so many caregivers who enter the sacred moments of other people’s lives. This has served as a place of reflection and learning for me, as well as a place to post a few of my own essays. Peace to you while on vacation.

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  4. Rachelle Yeates Avatar
    Rachelle Yeates

    I am a firm believer that God sends you what you need, when you need it. The past few weeks have been particularly difficult for me as I flew back to care for a very ill and elderly father. The days since then have been a haze…more hectic and more and more roadblocks thrown in my path. Needless to say, I was feeling pretty frazzled. I took time last night to really meditate and think through the journey that lies ahead of me, and then felt guilty because I could have been caring for and spending time with my children. Today’s post, particualry the part about being “Caught in the swirl” captured my attention, and I do believe there is a message for me in there….sent by God, delivered by earthly angels in the form of you Erie, and you Liz. Thanks for unknowlingly becoming vessels of wisdom……

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