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   Happy Monday. I hope all your Mondays will be as happy as your weekends.
Dragonflies
   On Sunday, my wife and I went to church in the afternoon. Our church walls were trees. Our arched ceiling was formed by clouds moving with the wind.
   We sat on a bench overlooking the Japanese Garden at our favorite Nashville spot, Cheekwood Gardens. From another pew we watched dragonflies dance above a pond, some of them mating in the middle of their zig zagging flight. As one four-winged dragonfly landed on a stone before us, the sun jeweled her wings.
   Away from sermons and far from the world tragedies of Iraq, Afghanistan, Georgia and Darfur, we breathed air freed from the high humidity that characterizes most summer days in the south.   
   We didn’t talk about friends or family or illnesses. We didn’t discuss the suffering in the inner city or the pain in rural areas where medical care remains inadequate.
   Instead, we talked about the service underway before us: the choir
of birds singing their afternoon hymns, the liturgy of shadows shifting beneath evergreens, the ritual of bamboo trees
tapping each other on the shoulder.
   Our benediction arrived when, walking out, we happened upon a fanciful gift created by the imaginative staff of Cheekwood. A team of inspired staff members had created an Arthurian castle nearby the pond…

   As we approached the scaled down fortress, we found a recreation of the
great Excalibur, a sword embedded in a sculpted stone, a plaque
nearby describing the legend that he who could withdraw the sword would
become king.
   King and Queen for a moment, we entered the castle, traveled its
maze, and eased out into the sunlight of our afternoon church. For me, it was the best religious service my wife and I have attended since we were married in a little chapel close by Lake Michigan forty-two years ago. I felt relaxed, at peace, in love and awed by the way dragonflies and sunlight can awaken God in us. And I felt grateful for the way religion comes true when kissed by spirituality. 

-Erie Chapman

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4 responses to “Day 224 – Afternoon Church”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Thank you for sharing you and your wife’s experience of being in beauty. “When two or more or gathered in His name, so shall He be.” Your imagery painted an intimate reflection of an afternoon together in God’s magnificent cathedral. I especially love your illustration of how we can awaken to discover God’s Holy alter within all. You both received sweet blessings of peace and Love. Through gratitude and your thoughtful sharing, these blessings expand out as joy to all of us.
    The photo of the dragonflies is exquisite. I may post again later as this meditation is stirring many thoughts and insights. 😉

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  2. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    I haven’t attended church regularly in some years. However each Sunday morning I make it a point to sit in my backyard and enjoy Nature’s choir and the beautiful day I meet. How nice it was to see others appreciate the beauty in what surrounds us daily.
    It only takes the few moments to recognize what’s always with us. Summer will be over soon and I’m happy to know I participated in the open air available to us today.

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  3. MFM Avatar
    MFM

    What an image you painted Erie! I too love when I can just sit in the wonders of nature and appreciate its awe!
    Thank you for sharing your special day!

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    I guess it has been a busy Monday for folks as I thought there would be many postings in response to today’s reflection. After reading your meditation, a colleague made a endearing remark to me, “I attend that service every Sunday!” I only wish she had posted, and now she has through me!
    Thoughts of my beloved in-laws arose for me after reading your story. My mother-in-law (M-I-L) was a devout Catholic and although in her later years she had crippling arthritis and chronic unrelenting pain she managed to remain independent and attended church regularly. After mass she would take communion to her homebound friends although if truth be known she was actually more incapacitated than they were. She had become a vessel and all her energy was in the direction of helping others offering beautiful light.
    My father–in-law was a man of few words and of many kind gestures. Although he rarely attended church, he was a very spiritual man. His worship occurred in nature. Wes loved to work in the garden alongside my M-I-L Helen. They grew homemade vegetables and fruits such as corn, tomatoes, artichokes, beans, beets, berries, etc. As youngsters my boys would spend weekends days with their grandparents learning all about gardening. Twice a year we gather as family to make fresh ground horseradish; German style and Russian. The food was harvested, cooked, and shared each Sunday at table, where all were welcome. There was always room for one more and I recall those family gatherings with the greatest fondness. It was the Holiest of communions I have ever known.

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