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Barack-obama-family_434x369  We
live in a culture that discourages empathy. A culture that too often
tells us our principle goal in life is to be rich, thin, young, famous,
safe, and entertained.   –
Barack Obama, speech, Jul. 12, 2006

   A president concerned about how culture can discourage empathy seems to me to be someone who is interested in encouraging its return. Can the President-elect inspire an increase in the expression of empathy in our country? We'll see.

   The last time I mentioned the name Barack Obama, one commenter wrote that I was wrong to even bring up this person. The Journal is about sacred work.
    If there was ever a job that has the potential for sacred work it is the role of President of the United States, the most powerful leader in the world. What we all hope is that our new President will view his role in the same way we want caregivers to view theirs – with Love. Is our President the Caregiver-in-Chief of American culture?
   Whether the hope Mr. Obama offers will be realized remains to be seen. But, what effect will his Presidency have on caregiving?
   Our writing and our work is about the culture that is needed to promote loving care. It is obvious that the dream of loving care has yet to be realized in most hospitals and charities in the way that it needs to be.
   Can political policies change culture? The answer, many believe, is "no." Can leadership change this? The answer is always yes. For good or ill, our Presidents affect American and, to some extent, world culture. Just ask the people of Iraq and Afghanistan if the American president has affected their lives.
   Through both policies and style, Presidents create a tone that both reflects and affects our culture. Regardless of party, Presidents influence the attitudes of many Americans toward each other and toward foreigners.

   When 19th century Presidents supported slavery or ignored it, they affected the attitude of many in the middle who weren't sure if the practice was right or wrong. When 20th century Presidents went along with demonizing Germans during World War I and both Germans and Japanese during World War II they influenced the way Americans thought about enemies and which ones supposedly needed to be hated. Many Americans today view Arabs in general and Muslims in particular with an irrational fear and suspicion. Where is the Love in this bias? 
   Abraham Lincoln was often reviled during his period of leadership. Yet, all historians agree that he was either the first or second (after Washington) best President in history.
   Ronald Reagan, a Republican, generated a sense of hope in America when he was elected. Forty-eight years before Reagan was sworn in, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, a Democrat, also ignited hope. His statement, "the only thing we have to fear is fear itself" rings as truth to us to this day.

   Love is the only answer to fear. Both Reagan and Roosevelt helped to channel hope into the hearts of Americans. Obama has the chance to do the same IF he makes loving decisions and IF we are open to that kind of leadership.
   On January 20, 2009, this man with the unlikely name (for Americans) of Barack Obama will be sworn in as our new President. Whether we voted for him or not, whether we like him or not, he will be our new President. What we all hope and pray for is that he will bring to all Americans a renewed sense of hope.
   Hope is the child of Love. If President-elect Obama can awaken in all of us a deeper sense of Love, then his leadership will favorably affect caregiving coast-to-coast. If Americans harbor hatred and anger toward Mr. Obama, then he cannot help them. Hatred, always fear-driven, is the one force that blocks Love. 

   Lincoln, Roosevelt and Reagan opened the hearts of most Americans to Love. It is time for Americans to open their hearts to the new President. If they do, Love will flourish and caregiving will be enhanced. How can we live Love, not fear, as we face the new American administration?

   Do you think our new President will influence the climate of Love in caregiving? How?

-Erie Chapman

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3 responses to “Days 5 & 6 – A President Interested in Loving Care?”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    On the political front, our country is polarized and any attempts at discussion brings out strong emotions and often divisiveness. I see this even in my own family. Too often, it does not feel safe to bring up political views because people become offended. It seems easier to use insulting labels as we protect ourselves from attack. It is hard to open to another person’s view when attacked but how can we make it safe to have real communication and dialogue on such crucial subjects? If we could find safety in communication we might begin to really listen with an intention of understanding. I think we would discover that we hold many of the same hopes and dreams in common. In this dire time so many people are losing jobs, homes, and our way of life, which is generating a lot of fear and uncertainty. Hope can renew in all of us a common bond as Americans in our struggle to overcome these monumental challenges. We Americans have always been able to rise above adversity by finding our strength in one another. Courageous leadership is needed to bring forth a vision that unites us and binds us together as one hope. We owe it to eachother and our children’s future to support that vision. Loving concern for the welfare of one another will help us remember who we are.

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  2. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    My hope is that as a country, we embrace new leadership. Mr. Obama’s key word is “Hope”. Until he lets us down, we need to give him the opportunity to “walk his talk”. I think that the future president will influence the people with a direction towards caregiving; this is shown by his call to promote accessible and affordable healthcare for everyone. It is only one of many challenges that Mr. Obama faces in his new position.
    I also believe that this new administration will work on healing our country from the recent wounds and problems we’ve encountered. Based on the outpouring of support that the President-Elect and Vice-President-Elect have received from all over the world, I’m not alone.
    As Erie and Liz states, regardless of who you chose for leadership, please be open to love and embrace change.

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  3. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    We can hope that this new president will bring with him a renewed interest in loving care, not only at the bedside but to humankind in our local communities and across the globe. Healing is always willing and waiting for the opportunity to embrace us if we let her. While Mr. Obama has a great many issues to tackle when he is sworn in, we can still diligently share loving care with one another.

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