Journal of Sacred Work

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Today's meditation was written by Cathy Self, Senior Vice President for the Baptist Healing Trust.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure" – Marianne Williamson.

    Crowds Margaret Wheatley is a well-known author in the academic world of leadership and science. She has explored why we as humans organize and how we do so. She suggests that we organize "always to affirm and enrich our identity." We come together because of who we believe ourselves to be. Ask any employee of an organization to help create a vision for the organization and it is almost always grander than that of the leaders. People are drawn to and love the work they hope will be. But with time, that passion dims and disenchantment grows as procedures overtake ardor, rules and policies overwhelm purpose. And resentment finds a foothold. Any wonder retention rates are dropping and turnover abounds in healthcare organizations all over our country.

     We are, in fact, busy in our work of giving care. There are programs to fulfill, actions to take, next moves to plan. But perhaps it is a good thing, from time to time, to revisit purpose. Why have we come together? How do our hopes and desires connect to that purpose? Is this purpose large enough to invite the contributions of us all? How can the world be different because of us? What are the possibilities?

     Poet and author Marianne Williamson sheds some insight on what limits the possibilities with her words (quoted above). Fear holds us back. But then Williamson offers a daring thought as she continues: "It is our Light, not our Darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won't feel unsure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. As we let our own Light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." Maybe purpose is the fulfillment of our identity as made known by the light of Love.

     So who are we? Who are we to bring healing, with Love, to those in need? Do we know our own possibility, or will we forever be bound by fear and darkness. What really matters? Wheatley writes "We can't resolve organizational incoherence with training programs about values, or with beautiful reports that explain the company's way, or by the charisma of any leader. We can resolve it only with coherence – fundamental integrity about who we are….In organizations, clear identity is an unmistakable and certain call." So, who are you? What is the call of your life?

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6 responses to “Day 218 – Who are You?”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    What rings clear and true is your statement, “Maybe purpose is the fulfillment of our identity as made known by the light of Love.” I do believe it is important that we stay focused on something greater than the tasks of the day. This is what motivates me to keep going. I sometimes hear that “we are here to do a job and we need to stay focused on what we are paid to do”…but in truth, our life, our work, is so much more fulfilling when we are committed to work towards realizing a dream (or awaken to the possibility of a new reality). I never want to lose sight of my One purpose, or succumb to the temptation of shrinking back into the shadows. These powerful thoughts and images radiate a hopefulness that I seem to need to hear this morning, and I thank you, Cathy.
    “Vision without a task is only a dream. A task without a vision is but drudgery. But vision with a task is a dream fulfilled.” ~Unknown

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    P.S. Previously, I shared my sadness regarding a dear friend Bud, now I wish to share my happiness! Bud was taken off life support is making a miraclous recovery. How joyous is the healing power of Love!

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  3. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    I hope that in our sub conscious minds we realize that we are the ones who go on, where others cannot. There’s repetitiveness in our day-to-day work lives, but we wake up every day, where others don’t. We rise to contribute towards our work in care giving, where others cannot and do not. We are selfless, patient and bring quality and substance to others in place of those who are distracted, unable, or oblivious to respond to support the needs of others. We make the difference, and that alone is why I wake up every day…

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  4. Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales Avatar
    Yvonne Ginez-Gonzales

    Thanks Liz, for reminding me about how important it is to stay focused on something greater than the tasks of the day. I too felt a need to hear that today….So to interrupt my tasks of the day and now evening, I am here now not only reading the journal and comments but leaving a note. I miss you all at St. Joe’s.

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  5. Barbara Mason Avatar

    Sorry for the late comment. My days end late, not because I am compensated financially for the hours in the day I commit to what I do, but because what I feel I am called to do cannot always be done quickly. How do you put into a timesheet a patients need to be heard by someone not so close because they are trusted. Because ‘confidentiality’ is afoundational brick that they know is present. How can you smile briefly and say, I can’t listen to the rest of your thought because I’m not paid to. And if I work ONLY for that dollar perhaps I am not in the right place. I (we) spend so much of our life in the ‘work place’, shouldn’t I feel joy at least most of the time. How can I be joyful and begrudging of policies that are written by people that truely have no clue what really goes on. I can’t, I have to make a choice and most of the time I choose joy, which means I choose to listen and hold a hand for free because it feels right… in the moment.

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  6. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Thank you Cathy. As an “idealist” personality I am forever in search of who I am and my purpose in life. I love your quotes on greatness and success. I attended a motivational talk on “Shed or Your Dead” about shedding those things that hold us back. On a little card it asked what we are shedding today. I have it posted on my computer screen – “I will shed fear of success”. I believe many of us are afraid of the power and potential within us and what we would do if we truly let it out. “This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine.”

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