Journal of Sacred Work

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Today's meditation was written by Cathy Self, Senior Vice President for the Baptist Healing Trust.

The love of our neighbor in all its fullness simply means being able to say, "What are you going through?"  – Simone Weil (1909-1943), French philosopher, Christian mystic, social activist.

     Hands In yesterday's journal reflection, Erie Chapman and those whose comments followed suggested the act of presence as a means to relief and hope in the face of great pain. The power of being together is transforming, yet the very nature of being together in small groups in our places of healthcare reverts to 'meeting' mode and 'getting things done.' We've all experienced meetings that were regarded as 'a waste of time' or, conversely as 'highly productive.' Contrary to the question "when will it end" is the exquisite and wonder-filled experience of time that evaporates when just being with someone, and perhaps especially when nothing is 'getting done.'

     Wendell Berry (1934 -  ) is described as an American man of letters, academic, cultural and economic critic, and farmer. He is a prolific author of novels, short stories, poems, and essays. In a collection of essays, titled "What Are People For?, Berry speaks to the grace of health and healing that emerges from our encounters with one another:

The grace that is the health of creatures can only be held in common.

In healing the scattered members come together.

In health the flesh is graced, the holy enters the world.

And later he writes:

We clasp the hands of those that go before us,

And the hands of those who come after us.

We enter the little circle of each other’s arms

And the larger circle of lovers,

Whose hands are joined in a dance,

And the larger circle of all creatures,

Passing in and out of life,

Who move also in a dance,

To a music so subtle and vast that no ear hears it

Except in fragments.

     Community matters, and it is from community that healing happens, albeit in bits and pieces of the dance we spin from the music we cannot hear with our ears. Rainer Maria Rilke exhorted us to "Live the questions now." In a place of healing, some of the important questions are "How do we choose to be together?" and "What do we want to create together?" Author Peter Block asserts depth is of more value than speed, and relatedness more important than scale. Yet depth takes time and asks a willingness to engage. Creating a sense of belonging requires the courage to set aside our usual notions of action and of measuring success by the numbers affected. "It also means that while we keep our own points of view, we leave our self-interest at the door and show up to learn rather than to advocate," writes Block.

     I wonder what we, the readers of this journal are learning. What do we want to create together?

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2 responses to “Day 239 – Circles of Possibility”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Thank you for sharing these encouraging thoughts and the writings of Wendall Berry. I find these images of life and love, especially beautiful.
    Honestly, I am learning most about myself, what is primary, meaningful, matters. I feel that I am willing to look a little deeper and question my ways of being, not so much with judgment but with a desire to learn, change, grow. The Journal is a refuge for me. I have been posting for so long that I seem to have lost any timidity or inhibitions about posting and I express myself intellectually, emotionally, spiritually…but most importantly vulnerably. It feels honoring, even when what I write or share, for example an attempt at a poem, may not be well written, that I risk sharing my heart anyway, without paying attention to little voices of worry of what others might think…judge…say.
    At present I find myself struggling as my mom’s health is declining significantly since my brother died and I find myself quite teary eyed since my recent visit with her. I guess it is anticipatory grieving. I really cannot imagine living in this world without her loving presence. Ah, the great circle of life and love.
    What an intriguing question you pose, “What do we want to create together?” Herein lies the mystery of today with all her magnificent possibilities. I love the potential discovered in asking.
    “The answer that I give my sister/brother is
    What I am asking for. And what I learn
    Of him is what I learn about myself.”
    ~Course in Miracles

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  2. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    When I open the website for the Journal of Sacred Works, I enjoy the education I learn from the subjects, as each day brings something of an encyclopedia-type offering for the readers. There are some topics that are deeper than I can reach into, but I appreciate their “newness” in learning something I hadn’t been aware of before. And remembering something I may have forgotten, or taken for granted.
    Then there are topics that rekindle my past, and the great history that we all have, related to caring, responsibility, gratitude and the basic awareness of humanity. I love to go back to read the other responses because you see how we picture things, either in camaraderie – or in our own uniqueness.
    I’d like to think we are creating something like virtual quilts – rich, diverse fabric/content that is connected together, like our homemaker-caregivers (mothers, aunts, grandmothers, church, collectives, etc.) often put together in love.

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