In a gorgeous and unique film called Silent Light ( Stellet Licht, 2007) the female lead, Marianne, weighed down by her mate's infidelity, says something startling: "Peace is better than love," she tells her husband.
Immediately, I wondered: Doesn't peace flow from love? Aren't they the inextricably linked?
In the context of the film, I discovered that when Marianne speaks of love, she means the romantic kind. We all know what a fragile thing romance can be, sometimes ranging from the heights of euphoria to the agony of betrayal.
God's Love does not possess. Therefore, Love does not know betrayal or fear. Inside Love, we can always find peace if we can let our fear fall away. In that inner stillness, the door opens and Love's light arrives.
The noise of the day makes caregivers yearn for quiet. Yet, quiet and peace are not the same. Lists and obligations may assault any period of silence, bringing more cacaphony than serenity.
Peace is a gift that lives within us all the time. We may discover it emerge from the woods as we listen to the rhythm of our breathing or practice yoga meditation or pray. Once discovered, we may learn how to drink from this inner well of peace amid times when anxiety threatens.
The grace of peace is something we all observe in gifted people. Each of us knows someone who maintains that precious sense of calm across days and nights. At best, I see this in one out of ten nurses. When seen, it is a special joy. And every one of us has it resting deep within, perhaps obscured by the many masks we wear.
When does peace matter? Perhaps, the answer is: all the time.
How do you experience peace in your life? What is it that helps you find this peace.?
-Erie Chapman
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