Since each of us is born with beauty, our life questions become: Will we express it? How will our inner beauty find expression, if at all?
Consider the actions of the hospital housekeeper about whom I have written (including at the outset of Radical Loving Care.) She is the good Samaritan who puts down her mop, steps outside her job description, and literally has to risk her livelihood to respond to the plaintive cry of a disoriented old man calling out for his absent daughter. In these moments, she releases her beauty into the world, coloring a patient's fragile life with hope.
Caregivers have the privilege of expressing their gifts by the texture of the love they express. To pick up on one of the metaphors of this week, they can (as did saints like Mother Theresa) paint their lives with rainbows of healing grace. Or they can jail their beauty, sketching their lives with gun metal gray.
So many caregivers seem frightened to express healing love to patients. After all, there are the myriad restrictions of policies, regulations, and the commands of supervisors. We may honor beauty in the abstract. But, when it is actually expressed in real life, we may see it as strange. The housekeeper who puts down her mop to offer the touch of her hand has a better chance of being fired then being rewarded.
What color is your life right now? How can each of us find the courage to release the beauty within so that it may help heal those in need?
-Erie Chapman
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