"What is great in man (sic) is that he is a bridge and not a goal." – Nietzsche
How do we cross the bridge that leads to our soul? Perhaps, part of the answer lies in recognizing that we are not goals, we are, ourselves, bridges.
Is our role on earth to be a bridge over which Love travels into the hearts of others? If so, than Love comes through us, not from us.
That is why the idea of using an image such as a bridge may be a misleading. The soul may not be a place we "walk toward" or "bridge to." If not, then how to we travel there, if at all? Do we need to travel to something that is already within us?
My recent sense is that our soul is God's Love living within each of us and all of us. If this is true, then the soul is always present. But our Love may exist in many of us unlit, smothered by the some darkness we have experienced. Meanwhile, our love lives in us as potential, as kindling waiting to be ignited so that we may warm the hearts of others.
Our work may be to let go of "work." Perhaps it is unwise to use the world's tools (such as logic, reason and analysis) to solve a mystery that is other-worldly. Instead, the inward pathway to the soul involves letting ourselves fall open so that the soul's love may enter.
What is "soul" music? Is it something we create or is it simply listening to music that is already there? If this is so, then all great caregivers, like all musicians, artists, writers and leaders are engaging energy other than what comes merely from the world.
When religion understands Love's energy, it posits that surrender (of ego) is the only way to engage God. We need not yield to some authoritarian power figure. We may instead perceive ourselves as yielding to the warmth and compassion of Love.
This thinking, engaging the heart's wisdom, may be the single most important gift caregivers can give themselves, and therefore their patients.
What I wonder is whether this notion appeals to you. Does this image of yourself as a bridge, or as carrying an unlit fire that can only be ignited by Love, help you or confuse you as you go about healing those who come to you?
-Erie Chapman
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