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Love’s Capacity


The November sunrise

strokes a strip of
frozen grass

as the rest of the ground

waits her turn.

 

A newspaper, folded &
cold

meets the hand of
one of my

neighbors who lifts the
world 

from his front step &
retreats to his

home.

 

What is the ability of
the grass

to adore the
sun's warming

fingers?

 

Does the newspaper admire the
man 

for rescuing him?

 

What is the capacity of
my neighbor

to love the woman who waits
for him by

the kitchen window,
peaking out at me over 

the rim of
her teacup, steam curling across

her eyes? 

 

Where is the heart of the
nurse

who steps across this morning’s
threshold

into the room of
suffering?

 

Erie Chapman

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7 responses to “Days 307-309 – Love’s Capacity – An Open Forum for Caregivers”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Your November poem creates vivid images on several levels, swirls ordinary into extraordinary, your questions stir me awake; thaws my sleeping heart.

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  2. Gay Lindsey Avatar
    Gay Lindsey

    Ability plus capacity equals heart.

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  3. Victoria Facey Avatar

    Erie, a beautiful and unique poem to begin a hopefully sunny and peaceful weekend.

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  4. Kelly Roberts Avatar
    Kelly Roberts

    Thank you Erie, your poem is beautiful and thought provoking.

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  5. Marianna Avatar
    Marianna

    Wow! I absolutely loved this poem. Like some of the others mentioned this posting definitely started the wheels a turning in my brain. My favorite part was where it described the neighbor lifting the world from his front step.
    I would love to see a breakdown of the deeper explanation of every line in the poem.
    Thank you

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  6. erie chapman Avatar

    Thanks to each of you for your very kind comments. Someone once asked the poet Pablo Neruda to say what he meant in one of his poems. He answered something like, “I can’t say anymore than what I’ve already said in the poem.”
    A frustrating answer, perhaps. But, maybe it’s a bit like asking a caregiver to explain how it FEELS to be present at the death of a patient. The heart knows more than the mind. The mind can never quite tell the heart’s story.

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  7. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I think that our capacity to love stems from our ability to forgive. Of late, when I look into someone’s eyes but find a distance that hinders, I say to myself, “I forgive you. I forgive me” and I feel a softening.

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