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   What must be the last butterfly of the year falls from the sky like a rose pedal. He flaps his white wings around the row of evergreens that line our little backyard. He's probably a moth, but I'll make him a butterfly for now. After all, he's the last one of the season. I've never seen a November butterfly in a four-season climate.

   Opposite the evergreens, a thousand berries bead a holly bush. Platoons of leaves do their best to copy the butterfly, launching themselves one by one from the Willow Oak, navigating the breeze until they reach their burial ground.

   A chorus of chickadees and an anxious cardinal sing through this autumn afternoon, jumping from branch to branch past squirrel nests, never once stopping to notice the bluing sky or the faint, half-carved moon.

   I was going to write to you today about spirituality and religion – how, for caregivers, the first one seems a lot more important to me than the second; how religion seems to divide us and spirituality seems to unite us; how we all share the same soul when we're carrying Love to heal someone in pain.

   As you sit a moment, the computer screen glowing into your perhaps-tired eyes, I wanted you to know that I intended to write to you about what the writer Karen Armstrong said on NPR on Sunday. "Feeling with someone in pain is better than feeling sorry for them." 

   But then those winter-white butterfly wings caught my eye.

 Rev. Erie Chapman

(Note: The photo, above, is by Frank Kirchner)

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4 responses to “Days 310-311 – The Last Butterfly”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for creating a little magic, to flutter across this page and grace our day. Ah, the chance to glimpse the rare and exquisite beauty of a butterfly’s delicate fan! There is something very special about living in a four-season climate. I miss the dramatic changes, reminding me of the ever-changing yet constant movements of life. Nature humbles me as well, reminding me, I am not in control of life’s powerful forces… and Love teaches me, not to fear but to let go my resistance and surrender to the rhythms of Our soul.

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  2. Victoria Facey Avatar

    Such a fragile and lovely butterfly (moth). Had to think about why it was the last (a-ha, the East Coast).
    Erie, I pray that these words you wrote stay in my memory for ALL days: “how religion seems to divide us and spirituality seems to unite us; how we all share the same soul when we’re carrying Love to heal someone in pain”. You were right on the mark here. How ironic some overlook such common sense when biased. Thank you for getting my week off to a good start…

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Karen Armstrong writes, “…I see my work, my study, as prayer. …its silence, the disciplines of the science of compassion where you get out of your own preconceptions and into the world of another. This changes you.”
    Karen Armstrong’s thoughts on religion resonate with me as well. “…theology, I think, should be like poetry, a work like the Qur’an. … Now a poet spends a great deal of time listening to his unconscious and slowly calling up a poem word by word, phrase by phrase, until something beautiful is brought forth, we hope, into the world, that changes people’s perceptions. And we respond to a poem emotionally.”
    Yours is a lovely prayer, Erie.
    Karen describes religion and church rituals as an art form. I have been a server at my church for many years. I remember Fr. Peter once telling me that the liturgy is like a beautiful dance. When I serve my singing becomes other than mine, the hymns, rituals, slow purposeful movements, are all orchestrated in an unfolding sacred dance. A meditation in motion, It’s so joyful!

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  4. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Thank you for this uplifting prayer Erie.

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