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Keller and anne sullivan  “I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.” – Helen Keller 

   Imagine if your hearing was taken from you in an accident. Suddenly, the world of speech, of music, of nature, of all sounds, vanishes. Consider how much you would come to rely on your eyesight for the clues to stay in touch with the world.

   Now, think about how you would live if your sight was stolen as well? Now your world is both dark and silent.

   Minus two of your most crucial senses, how would you navigate through your life? In a silent world, the resonance of sound and sight gone, how would you sustain speech?

   At age two, Helen Keller lost both her sight and her hearing. Unable to hear words, she seemed to have lost her ability to speak. Coddled by her parents as an invalid, her restless energy went unchecked and undisciplined. Instead, she raged about the world until, one day, a powerful and trans-formative force entered her life in the form of a teacher named Anne Sullivan.

   Without Ms. Sullivan's Loving caregiving, we would never know the massive range of gifts locked within the blind, deaf and mute Helen Keller. It was Sullivan who enabled the world to meet and be dazzled by Keller. Keller's potential was developed until she became one of the most inspirational people of the twentieth century. 

   In her blindness and deafness, Keller learned the wisdom she expressed to us in this way:   “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.” Can we, who see and hear, understand this?

   It took the partnership of Keller and Sullivan to find the energies living in both women. Indeed, Sullivan's firm guidance of Keller teaches us a crucial lesson about Love: We cannot truly serve others unless we have disciplined ourselves to develop and shape our different gifts. We need to have our own personal vision of how we can serve. As Helen Keller wrote:

   “The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.”  

   Every caregiver's potential exists as a vast, fertile field that lives within. Most of this energy is untiled, un-nurtured, and undiscovered. Work enables our gifts to bloom with the beauty God intended.

   Potential is listed as the third energy because without the energy provided by purpose and passion, there will be no desire to develop our potential or to sustain it. With purpose and passion comes a deep desire to know our gifts and how best to answer Love's call.

   What are our gifts? What can we accomplish with them? With the focus the energy of purpose provides and the passion that will arise when our purpose is discovered, the gifts lying within our potential may begin to pour from us like a newly discovered fountain. 

   Awaken your childhood dreams - all the things you once believed you could do which may now be buried. If your purpose is true, these gifts will begin to re-emerge in your life.

   Let go of all excuses. Now is the time for us to commit with all the passion of our being. Those in need are desperate for our help. With discipline and skill, Love will enable us to heal in ways we may never have thought possible – until now.

-Erie Chapman

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6 responses to “Days 90-92 – The Third Energy – Potential”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    What resonates with me is Ms. Keller’s expression, “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.”
    I wish to share your inspiring words with my fellow caregivers as I often open our meetings with your reflections. So thank you for another gift of inspiration.
    Yesterday, I was in a meeting with fellow caregivers and we were discussing ways to promote our values. A caregiver described, “cynical” views about his job not being more than just a job. Of course, I find this disheartening, yet the group affirmed him for his honesty. I really do appreciate that he contributes a voice that might otherwise go unheard. Also, it speaks volumes that even though he feels this way, he still attends. I interpret it as a hopeful sign and I am challenged to engage others differently. We spend a great deal of our lives at work and we all have a gift to contribute. Thanks for awakening us to the possibility of potential that lives within each of us. Our potential is just waiting for us to water the seeds that can not yet be seen only felt with our heart.

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  2. Barbara Mason Avatar

    Sometimes I think we lose sight of ‘our potential’ being overwhelmed with providing care. Particularly if we have given and not renewed. I believe my potential is endless. As a caregiver, I have always said ‘I am where I am suppose to be every minute of the day’. If that is true, it is not just to provide care. I believe to experience this encounter at a heart level, you must be open to the potential of the caregiving visit, for me homehealth. It is more than possible that I am there for more than caring for a wound. It may be a sacred moment for someone in the home to vent a need, a concern that without taking that time, would not be heard. It is just as likely that someone in the home has a word of grace for me. Thank you again for these writings. Right now Im looking for work and I visit, but rarely give feedback. It is part of my spiritual practice in the mornings, pray, read, reflect. God Bless you all during this most Holy of seasons. May we all realize our Potential.

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  3. Julie Laverdiere Avatar

    I often think about my gifts, and am I utilizing them enough. I guess another work for this is potential. The parable of the gifts always speaks to me. Do I bury it, an ddon’t expecto more of myself. Or, do I use my gift, and have 5 more? We all have that choice.

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  4. Kurt Harlan Avatar

    When I think of the things that I can see and the gift of sight, I’m humbled by that which we really can see and that which we can’t. When light pours through a prism we can see colors but that is only one part of the electromagnetic spectrum (and only a small portion of the spectrum) that we can see. What
    Helen demonstrated is her ability to see beyond what anyone else could visualize either physically or otherwise. This is a reminder to me that God blesses us with gifts and then allows us to use our own free will to do with them what we like (see previous post). And what He prefers is that we use them to glorify Him.
    During this Holy Week I have been encouraged by Peter’s writing to the churches throughout Asia Minor and to us:
    1 Peter 24: He (Jesus) Himself bore our sins in His body on the tree (cross), so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; by His wounds you have been healed.
    I would encourage you to put your name everyplace in that passage where you see “our” or “we” and “you.” This is what Jesus did for you!

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  5. Victoria Facey Avatar

    This is such an inspirational story and subsequent posts, just in time for Easter Sunday. Erie, thank you for reminding us of our gifts, sleeping within us and our potential energies, waiting to be recognized.

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  6. Marily Paco Tronco Avatar
    Marily Paco Tronco

    Great is our God, marvelous are His ways. May I continually realize the potentials He has given me and in others. Howsoever difficult the situation may be, now is the time to leave every negative thing in everything that comes my way. Thank you Rev. Erie.

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