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"Meditation is the discovery that the point of life is always arrived at in the immediate moment.” – Alan Watts.

Mother Teresa prayer   From where did Mother Theresa derive her enormous energy? The short answer is: from God.

   But, if Mother Theresa drew (or, more accurately, received) her energy from God, why can't we? The answer is that we can.

   Like others, I am forever using Mother Theresa as an example. She was not only a great Loving leader, she was and, in the eyes of many, a saint. But, to some, who didn't see her potential, she was a very unlikely possibility. Like, Gandhi, she was so diminutive that, at a glance, that you might miss her because you would look over her head.

   She famously said that her mission was to care for "the poorest of the poor." This means that she committed her ministry of Love to caring for those who seemed totally without hope. In the practical terms of the world, many of those Theresa and her nuns looked after had only days or hours to live. No one else would bother with them. They were perhaps even lower, in the eyes of many, than "untouchables."

   Theresa "followed Jesus into the slums," to use her words. How did she find the ability to express such great Love?

   She found her answer through prayer and meditation. It was only in this way that she could discern her calling. She not only heard God speaking to her, but she heard so clearly and powerfully that, even when she doubted God, she never turned back from her mission.

   The energy of prayer and meditation is that,through silence and self-care, we prepare ourselves to feel God's energy flowing in us and through us. Lovers know that God's energy lies within. They also know it needs constant nurturing and renewal.

   We need to reflect, pray, meditate, lest our life be consumed lists & shallow transactions. We all need to find time to pull back in order to assure that our actions are informed by Love. Absent Love, our work, and therefore our life, loses meaning.

   Prayer & reflection helps us gain perspective so that we may realign our life energy with God. These practices keep Lovers in touch with what Lincoln called "the better angels of our nature." 

   There is a great deal we can learn from Buddhist thinking about the energy of prayer and meditation and why it is essential to self-care. Buddhist thinking is not contrary to Christian thinking or the theology of any religion (except that it does not, as do some religions, preach violence.)

   Siddhartha (6th century B.C.E.) recognized as the founder of Buddhism, wrote that "Meditation brings wisdom; lack of meditation leaves ignorance…choose the path that leads to wisdom."

   Christian clergy have said similar things. Consider the wisdom of the Bishop Jeremy Taylor (1613-1667) who wrote: "Meditation is the tongue of the soul and the language of our spirit."

   As caregivers, we can hear "the language of our spirit" in many ways: as we exercise, eat, experience art, serve another, or watch the world. But, it is when we are quiet – in prayer and silence, that we are most likely to hear most clearly the power of this fifth energy - to discover that "meditation is the tongue of the soul."

   Mother Theresa discovered that. So have many others. So can we.

-Erie Chapman  

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5 responses to “Day 97-99 – The Fifth Energy: Prayer, Meditation & Self-Care”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar
    ~liz Wessel

    Meditation, or better known as contemplative prayer in the Christian tradition, is a necessary for my personal well-being. To enter into relationship with God in a slightly different way, rather than doing all the talking, it is being receptive with a listening heart. Contemplative prayer is of primary importance in my life. When I meditate on a daily basis the effect is gradual and subtle but my life just naturally comes into balance. If I do not practice consistently I feel off kilter. I have struggled recently with consistency in areas of self care. Yet, I keep returning to meditation as I know everything will right itself, if I do. Recently, we formed a contemplative prayer group that meets 2x’s per month in the evening. I find being in a community helps strengthen my practice. We have a weeklycontemplative prayer break at work. This circle came into being from the encouragement of this Journal. Some days we miss because we are just too busy but then I remember it is those days we need it the most. So we keep returning to the breath and the wisdom of communion.

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  2. Kelly Roberts Avatar
    Kelly Roberts

    My outlook on life and on my work is always better when I start out my day with prayer and reading God’s word. I can tell by my attitude when I don’t take the time for prayer and reflection.

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  3. Sue Staley Avatar
    Sue Staley

    Alot of my meditation comes when I walk with my dog to the park or on the bluffs overlooking the ocean and see the mountains on one side and the ocean on the other. Two great forces of nature that are there for us to admire. It is during this quiet time I can listen to what God has to say to me. I do not always like it, but then after listening long enough I know why… Mother Theresa was and is a great role model for all of us.

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  4. Marily Paco Tronco Avatar
    Marily Paco Tronco

    Starting my day right is when I spend it with God upon awakening. Being in silence, acknowledging His presence, being grateful, and offering what’s ahead, makes me feel ready for the day.
    Still I find myself spending time with Him at work, walking with Him in prayer, calling His name for assistance in everything I do. I may say experiencing His love and constant presence is a good day, the best day.

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Let weeping be my joy,
    fear my remedy for fear,
    Sorrow my solace;
    Let losing everything be my reward.
    Let me find my love in the harrowing storms,
    and my delight inside the wound itself;
    let me discover my life in death
    and my approval in rejection.
    Let poverty be the source of my wealth,
    my struggle: victory,
    my labor, rest,
    sadness my contentment.
    Let darkness be my light;
    may my greatness lie in the lowest place.
    Send me up the short, steep path;
    make the cross my glory.
    Let my honor hide in my humility,
    triumph within my suffering,
    satisfaction inside my desire;
    let me gain through losing.
    May hunger be the origin of my fullness,
    despair my wellspring of hope,
    terror a cause for rejoicing;
    let grieving be my joy.
    May forgetting be the same as remembering,
    humbling one with exalting,
    my reputation nothing more than disrepute;
    let failure be my success.
    Let contempt be my praise,
    trouble lead to tenderness,
    my dignity a distant cave;
    Let me prove my worth in solitude…
    -St. Teresa of Avila

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