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"I studied a minute…I then says to myself, all right then I’ll go to hell, and tore it up…” – Huck Finn – from Huckleberry Finn, by Mark Twain

Benton%20small   What did Huck Finn tear up? It was the paper that would have cast his friend (and slave) Jim back into the hands of slaveholders.

   Finn decided he couldn't follow the slave laws of the time. Instead, he chose to save his friend – and that Jim was, in fact, fully human – not "three-fifths of a person" as the U.S. Supreme Court of the time had decreed.

   In mid-nineteenth century America, anyone who tried to help a slave escape was subject to arrest as well as eternal damnation according to many southern churches. If you were a white caregiver in a southern hospital in 1950, you would not be allowed to care for an injured black person. In fact, black people were turned away at the door to the Emergency Department and directed to a charity hospital.

   In Huckleberry Finn, when Huck tore up the paper, he presumed he would literally go to hell. The moment he forgot about his own salvation in favor of another's, Huck Finn expressed true Christianity – what we call, in a caregiving context, Radical Loving Care.

    If I had grown up in the mid-twentieth century south, where I live today, and attended a church within a few minutes of my current home, Protestant pastors and their congregations would have taught me to follow the politics of segregation and exclusion. Many Catholic clerics would have done the same.

   Indeed, a black friend of mine who was among the first to participate in the integration of a Nashville Catholic school in the 1960s was told by nuns that she was "not as smart as the white children." 

   Black people would not even have been allowed to worship in most Nashville churches of that era. They would not have been allowed to sit with whites at a lunch counter until 1961.

   Our ability to dehumanize others is astonishing. Something in our original sin of pride often seems to push us to want to raise ourselves by demeaning others. Something within most of us wants to pursue our own salvation by taking an elitist religious path that only people of our particular denomination can travel.

   In India, the poor are still shunned by many, including too many caregivers, as "untouchables." In parts of Africa, members of the Hutu tribe, including some caregivers, discriminate against members of the Tutsi tribe and vice versa. In Europe, Serbians, including caregivers, discriminate against Croatians. In the Middle East, many Muslims, including caregivers, discriminate against Christians and Jews. In Israel, many Jews, including caregivers, discriminate against Muslim's. And on and on.

   How can American caregivers avoid discriminating a bit themselves? Can we really "see" the person in the ER wreaking of alcohol as fully human? Can we really "see: the patient in room 4027 as more than a "gall bladder?" Can we discern the elderly male in the patient gown as equal to us or will we persist in calling him "that sweet little old man" and treat him like a small child?

   One of the strange conundrums of salvation is that if we pursue it for ourselves, we cannot attain it. Yet, if we pursue salvation by helping others, even when we don't want to (when it is most important) how can we avoid thinking that this kind actions might gain us "a few points with God?"

   Some have determined how to do it. Jesus showed us the way. So did Mark Twain through Huck Finn.

   The moment we say we're willing to "go to hell" in order to help another, grace arrives. For it is only then that we are living Love, not fear.

-Rev. Erie Chapman 

*Painting of Huckleberry Finn and Jim by Thomas Hart Benton

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5 responses to “Days 195-197 – Forgetting About Our Own Salvation”

  1. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    What a great illustration and excellent reminder for me today. This morning, I went out to a home to support a family in crisis because I felt compelled. I came away with the satisfaction that I was able to make a difference and to be of help. Yet, I admit there is a little part of me that thinks, “God will be pleased!” I guess I still bump into my pride/ and or ego all the time.
    When a person’s life is hanging by a thread, it is important to remember that our comments are amplified to the person who is feeling so vulnerable. An insensitive passing remark can really cause injury without us even being aware.
    Yesterday at mass I listened to the parable of the Good Samaritan, which is so aligned with today’s essential message; to risk ourselves for the benefit of another. Somehow, we must let distractions go that pull us from really listening to what is needed, and once understood, to respond with love.

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  2. Marilyn Donan Avatar

    Okay. I have to admit that when I see I’m going to be taking care of a heroin addict that has some horrible infection in a body part, I think, “That’s just great. Here we go again.” And there’s some fear there. But that fear doesn’t usually pan out. I’ve actually only taken care of one really mean addict. Once I start taking care of them, I forget they’re addicts. One woman was pretty ashamed. I was probing her wound and she was crying out in pain. I said,”I’m so sorry I’m hurting you.” She said ruefully, “It’s not your fault…I did this to myself.
    As I write this, I think how would I feel if my caregivers knew all my secrets and vices and didn’t want to take care of me. Honestly, it wouldn’t feel that great.

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  3. Suan Geh Avatar
    Suan Geh

    Erie: what you have written are profound words. The nursing profession had taught me how to “humble myself”, face the situations (when I was fearful) and do the work that I was assigned to do in the face of “any odds”. There were no room for “ifs, ands or buts” My job was to provide Radical Loving Care and the field of nursing was the laboratary where God had placed me and tested me. In giving I received Joy.

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  4. marily Avatar
    marily

    No matter how stable and strong we think we are in our walk with our living love… there will be times that we can snap. It is in how we can forgive oneself over and how we can allow our self to bounce back in place, making no room for fear of rejection, but with humble broken heart always seeking healing as we bring healing to the ones we have hurt. Salvation as a free gift is always available to those with open hearts broken or unbroken.

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  5. Sue Avatar
    Sue

    I really like this one…

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