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Kindness-Mark Twain 
                                                                                            Watercolor Polyprint ~liz Wessel

Kindness by ~Naomi Shihab Nye

Kindness

Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.

Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.

Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
You must wake up with sorrow.
You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.

Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to mail letters and
purchase bread,
only kindness that raises its head
from the crowd of the world to say
it is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you every where
like a shadow or a friend.

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7 responses to “Days 200-201 What Does It Really Mean To Be Kind?”

  1. Diana Gallaher Avatar
    Diana Gallaher

    This meditation is a great way to start the weekend. I love all of it. Thanks Liz.

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  2. Erie Chapman Avatar
    Erie Chapman

    Thanks for turning our energy toward the magic of kindness, Liz. You are a bright lamp of Love in this world.

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  3. xavier espinosa Avatar

    I had most need of blessing, and β€œAmen”
    Stuck in my throat.
    William Shakespeare
    Macbeth, act 2, scene 2
    Someone once challenged me about my motives for helping someone who they determined that I could not “save”. I had to let them know that I did it because should there ever come a time in my life when I have exhausted every kindness, tired every friend, disappointed every benefactor- I hope and hold on to the wish that there will be the loving voice that will say to those who challenge their motives “he deserves another chance”. Kindness is an investment in our “soulfulness”- no expected return- yet a bountiful augmentation to our self valuation.

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  4. marily Avatar
    marily

    Kindness is also loving like you’ll never get hurt, as in giving until it hurts no longer. If only all can be for one another. What a world this could be πŸ™‚

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  5. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    Once again we have inspired as we begin this new week. As we experience kindness in our life we know its transformative power. Mary MacKillop, soon to be canonised as Australia’s first saint, was a woman who ‘did’ compassion. People described Mary as a woman with a large heart who embraced in a particular way those who were isolated, marginalised and disadvantaged. May, we like her, continue to ‘do’ kindness and compassion. Thank you Liz.

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  6. Ann Kaiser Avatar
    Ann Kaiser

    The water color is gorgeous!!! Really sets the stage for the statement and the poem. The video brought me tears of joy. Memories of sitting on the banks in Iowa with my children , blowing on dandelion blooms, that we called love flowers. Because when you blow on them, it takes your love with them and goes to another person. Thank you for sharing this with us today and reminding us that everyone is fighting some type of battle. May our Kindness blow in the winds this week to keep us cool and our hearts warm. Find beauty in the dandelion !!!

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  7. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    Although I read the beautiful poem over the weekend, I did not play the video until this morning. So well written with such poignant messages of wisdom to follow.
    Liz, I so appreciate your reflections as they guide me to be better and more mindful of the love and kindness that exists in me and to seek the same in others, including those we have yet to know…

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