[Note: Below is a short essay I first posted to the Journal in November, 2009. It is the first time I can recall re-running something and I hope it is helpful to you both this day and beyond.]
In silence we must wrap much of our life, because it is too fine for speech. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
I reflect, just now, on the millions of patients lying in silence in hospitals, hospices and nursing homes. We are born into the company of our mothers. We may well die alone.
Yet, whether we are surrounded with legions or attended by a single caregiver, silence will still, as Emerson writes, "wrap much of our life." And most of us don't know words that can begin to describe the texture of our innermost selves.
What is the quality of your silence? How much of your thought-life centers on lists of things to do and how much of your mind floats towards reflection and ideas?
Caregivers offer some of their best healing through silent presence. It is often not our words that heal but the love in our eyes, the kindness in our hands, and the way we stay near to a person in pain.
What is the color of your silence?
-Rev. Erie Chapman
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