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"A paradise within thee, happier far." – from John Milton's Paradise Lost (1667)

William blake    Paradise Lost is considered one of the greatest works in English literature. But few, including me, have actually read it.

   Yet, this long, lyric poem suggests not only how paradise was lost in the Garden of Eden, but how paradise may be won. It is by turning to the "paradise within thee."

   This is the paradise, Milton says, that comes with belief in Christ. But, what a surprise that that paradise lives within us, not without.

   These is no garden in this world that can offer anything more wonderful than what grows at this moment somewhere in our hearts. The question is not whether the garden of joy is within, but whether we are allowing God's Love to nurture it.

   Caregivers are so often nearby when others die. What happens when the beating heart of a patient ceases and no amount of medical intervention will enable the heart to resume its life-giving rhythm?

   Chaplains are, of course, part of the caregiving team – sometimes too small a part. It is frequently the chaplain who is called when life-saving efforts are over. Sometimes, at the moment of death, those nearby report seeing a wave of heat leaving the body of the recently deceased. Could this be a sign of the soul's departure?

   Chaplains offer an idea of paradise grounded in the Bible. Who among us does not wish for this elusive "place," this state in which we are not only freed from pain but enter a world of, perhaps, eternal ecstasy?

   Because of my new ministry to prisoners, particularly those on Tennessee's Death Row, I have been particularly intrigued by the spiritual life of those who are locked for the rest of their lives in iron and concrete cages.

   What is the opposite of paradise on earth? Consider the life of the primary inmate I visit. Glenn, is forbidden any kind of contact with any living thing. During his one hour outside each day, he is released like an animal into a completely caged area completely alone. He may not touch the hand of another prisoner through the wire mesh and will be severely punished if he does.

   When I see Glenn, we talk either through a steel door or with a glass partition between us. Of course, he is not allowed plants or anything else that lives. He even has to wear leg irons when he is talking with me through the glass.

   But, we all know that there are millions who suffer far worse than Glenn. They come to us imprisoned by pain, locked up in severe anxiety, or held hostage by terrifying mental illness.

   What can we do to ease the suffering of others?

   In Jesus' final moments on this earth, one of his fellow prisoners, hung on a nearby cross, implored the Savior: "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." Jesus replied, "Truly, I tell you, today you will be with me in Paradise." (Luke 23:42-43)

   That "today" was two thousand years ago. Yet, we may believe that when that day came, it lasted for eternity.

   Our worldly days are marked by our personal mix of pain and joy. For all our wishes of paradise within, it is a rare human being who seems to have found this.

   Still, there is a pathway to worldly paradise that each of us knows how to find. It is often, an elusive path for we rarely recognize it. Paradise on earth may pass through us each time we offer God's Love completely and selflessly to another in need.

   Perhaps, that is "the paradise within thee, happier far."

-Reverend Erie Chapman

  Note: Painting, Adam and Eve, is by William Blake (1808) 

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6 responses to “Days 286-288 – Paradise”

  1. xavier espinosa Avatar

    During my tenure as the Chair of the Mental Health Board in my community I heard one of the community members talk about her time institutionalized and how through out her stay she was “skin hungry”. She longed for the touch of a compassionate hand. This touch would mean that she was a person of worth, able to be loved and mean something. Another community member shared how after attending a conference at a local hotel, she remembered back to a time when she was ill and was banned from the same hotel during the worst part of her illness because of the erratic behavior that was caused by her mental health condition. Now after being able to walk the conference venue, eat in the dining room, laugh in the lobby she too felt accepted and worthy.
    The Paradise we speak of is the one that we envision and most familiar to us. We need to consider that even our worst situation may very well be considered someone’s paradise lost or worst yet, never realized. We take for granted our ease and capacity for making choices, for traveling between locations, for speaking our mind, for being able to argue without fear of reprisal. There are many who are trapped, much like the prisoner described today. These fellow human beings that coexist in our society, that impinge upon our comfort zone are much like the fellow in the tale of the Good Samaritan. Many of of us who are considered members in good standing in our world choose to pass by barely acknowledging the outcast on the side of the road. Why does it take impending death or illness for us to consider being loving or kind or attentive? These “outcasts” die a hundred deaths everyday as they see and overhear us stepping out of the way when we approach them, how we plan and make pathways to clear them from our comfort zone.
    We further the stigma by labeling them as undesirable, untreatable, uncooperative, dangerous, crazy- while all the time all they long for is a welcoming gaze, acknowledgment that they are worthy of a welcoming touch because after underneath it all they are not human rubbish, just skin hungry.

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  2. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Xavier
    Thank your for your searing insight.
    You speak the highest (and lowest) truth of humanity when you write: “These ‘outcasts’ die a hundred deaths everyday as they see and overhear us stepping out of the way when we approach them, how we plan and make pathways to clear them from our comfort zone.”
    Your eloquence on this far exceeds what I wrote. I am so grateful to you for bringing your experience, your intelligence and your sacred eyes to this subject. – erie

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I wonder what it is like for Glen to receive a visitor, whether or not he receives any others, or if you are the only one who comes to see him. You have given me much to ponder, Erie. I am not sure I could muster the courage to show up. How difficult to bear witness to someone who has been stripped of his humanity. What to say, how to relate, find connection, not offend, or find meaning in suffering. When you travel into the pit of despair, stripped of everything there is, it becomes abundantly clear that only one-thing matters, and you begin to realize that it is all that ever did, ever was or ever will. Perhaps, that is when one begins to commune with God, in that dark night of the soul.
    I can imagine you there asking an open-ended intuitive question as a pathway towards what is real
    Xavier, you too have given me great pause to step out to of my comfort zone. Thank you both.

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  4. Sue Avatar
    Sue

    What did Glen do to get such solitude? In the hospital some nurses touched such a person and were hospitalized themselves by touching and trusting that their patient would not hurt them. It is tragic to think of. Some take 4 people that are men and strong to hold down not to hurt others. I love compassion and loving, but I also fear those that have none. I know that I am not one to deal with those who think differently. Those who do not think the Christian way. Those whose lives must have been so awful that they lash out and kill. Or the drugs they took brought into this world a child that has a mind that makes their head hurt everyday with the anguish and no conscious of the actions that they think to do. Labeling does not help. Doctors can not always help them,or can we. Only God and the person themself can deal with this. When listening to this person, hopefully they are not skilled enough to turn others thoughts towards theirs. They can be the most intelligent, persuasive people in the world. On another note, if there is an interest, what is the history behind the conquering of Constantinople and Spain in the Middle Ages or 1500’s or so. I can not believe the Moslems took over the cathedrals and made them Mosques.. Is it true? I am going to look into. It would be sad if history repeats itself.

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  5. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    Reverend Chapman, what deep and soul-searching subjects written today. I am moved to rekindle my lost feelings for unfortunate persons overlooked by society, and to open my heart to convicts who are made to suffer without regard for their humanity. The responding conversations that followed are also very moving…

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  6. Marily Avatar

    Though sufferings are inevitable in our present world, it’s wonderful and comforting to know that we can do something to ease this reality. Paradise within we could easily share as we offer God’s love completely and selflessly.

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