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"'The [sciences] will clip an Angel's wings, /Conquer all mysteries by rule and line." – John Keats (195-1821)

Radical loving care 1    Scientific thinking is one of the great gifts of the Renaissance. Throughout the Dark Ages, scientific thinking and logical analysis were often punished by officials of the Catholic hierarchy that ruled Europe at the time.

   As science has grown to dominate modern thinking, we have sometimes turned to it as a god. "There are no mysteries left," some scientists argue, "only problems that remain to be solved."

   Yet, the most important energy of all, God's Love, remains far beyond what Keats understood as "rule and line." What I call Radical Loving Care, is beyond science because it involves the mystical journey of healing Love through our hearts.

   Who are these courageous people that become vessels of Radical Love? Some are saintly caregivers. Some are artists.

   Some of the greatest among us have often been classified as "crazy" and "possessed of mental illness. Indeed, many of our greatest saints and most brilliant artists have suffered from what is now called "bipolar illness."

   What happens when lay people use modern-day psycho-babel to stereotype (and therefore degrade) those who see the world through an oddly colored lens? Could Abraham Lincoln have survived the kind of scrutiny that would have exposed his moods of elation and depression. Would labeling him (correctly) as "bipolar" have caused his commitment to a mental institution instead of the White House?  

   In her insightful book, Touched With Fire, Dr. Kay Redfeld Jamison, professor of psychiatry at John Hopkins Medical School ponders "whether we have diminished the most extraordinary among us – our writers, artists, and composers – by discussing them in terms of psychopathology or illnesses of mood." (italics added)

   Jamison offers one of the most important and provocative questions I have ever encountered:

   Do we diminish artists [and saints] if we conclude that they are far more likely than most people to suffer from recurrent attacks of mania and depression, experience volatility of temperatment, lean toward the melancholic, and end their lives through suicide?

    As Jesus proved for all of us, the path of Radical Love is paved with thorns of ridicule, persecution, and degradation. Jesus was mocked as a megalomaniac for claiming to be the son of God and the messiah.

   Yes, there are those among who are dangerously ill with mental diseases. Yet, the greatest among must travel into dark corners, explore dangerous jungles, and climb the most daunting heights in order to bring back to the world the riches these areas hold. The trip they make is one the rest of us are too timid to try.

   Imagine what happens if you try to live Love beyond the rules and are punished for doing so by a supervisor stuck to "line and rule." How loving would you remain if your job were threatened for something as kind as letting the family member of a dying patient stay beyond visiting hours?

   Society sends a strange message: Practice Radical Love but be sure you follow the rules. Paint something better than anyone has every painted, but make sure it's traditional. Live Love, but don't act "crazy" (like some kind of Jesus?)

   In other words, society tells us, "Do not act like Jesus. Don't fall into depression and question why you have been forsaken. Live revenge: an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth."

   Saints like Mother Theresa, Gandhi and Dr. Albert Schweitzer and artists from Beethoven & Charles Dickens to Mark Twain and Vincent Van Gogh (along with thousands of other greats) were all afflicted with various kinds of bipolar illness. They were celebrated for the genius of their work created in the more manic state and shunned when they fell into depression and irritability.

   But, we don't have to be great to suffer rejection from our peers. All we have to do is truly Live Love and we will likely be attacked by society for being different.

   The shunning of Lovers is the crime. Radical Love calls all of us who may not have the gifts of the great to honor the suffering that saints and artists endure.

   It is not for us to condemn the bad moods of the great. Love is free, but not cheap. Radical Love is not for the faint-hearted.

   I admire the gifts of science. But, I am not going to let it clip my wings – my belief in the eternal mystery and ineffable power of Love.

   As Jamison writes, "The great imaginative artists have always sailed 'in the wind's eye,' and brought back with them words or sounds or images to 'counterbalance human woes.'(Byron) That they themselves were subject to more than their fair share of these woes deserves our appreciation, understanding, and very careful thought."

-Erie Chapman 

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9 responses to “Days 334-336 – Radical Love”

  1. Victoria Facey Avatar
    Victoria Facey

    Erie, this is a noble writing. Thank you for speaking of those artists and saints who were special, yet haunted. I was able to share your reflection with my daughter, who is also an artist.
    It is a challenge to stand against the norm and express love and devotion to all things Christ-like. I am happy to have this forum and you to keep me close to His light…

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Erie, the depth of this reflection gives me much to contemplate. I agree that we do diminish our humanity when we categorize and label people. We want to fit people into the boxes we construct in an attempt gain some semblance of order and security. As you say, underlying this effort is our fear, which only drains the creative life force.
    A helpful way though this dilemma is to recognize that suffering is a common human experience. Perhaps, at a particular point in time one person is experiencing the pain of loss and depression that we are not currently going through. However, we all will encounter the pain of loss at one time or another because it comes with being human. If we can cultivate empathy, understanding, and awareness of this truth, we can break down the barriers of isolation. We can resist the temptation of shunning of others to discover our bonds of brotherhood. Ultimately, we are all in the same boat. I’ve also heard it said that if we silently bless each person we meet it can change our energy from closed stance to one that is open and compassionate. Small gestures that can change our world.
    Artists have a wonderful ability to help us see beyond our patterned responses. Thank you for having the courage to live, Love and seeing with sacred eyes.
    In my life, I am really trying to listen to Love’s voice and to respond more honestly.

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  3. Marily Avatar

    Thank you Rev. Erie for reminding us what you call “Radical Loving Care is beyond science because it involves the mystical journey of healing Love through our hearts, your belief in the eternal mystery and ineffable power of Love” is too, ours.
    Only nurturing and healing ways tending our wings through our thoughts, as we commit in agreement. These loving thoughts we carry around in our heads… we move up our awareness from the lowest to the highest, we become a mystical being connected. Feeling connected to everyone, everything, and God. No longer separate from anyone, that any harm directed to others is really directed at ourselves. We are in cooperation rather than in competition, in love dissolving hatred and in sadness reduced to nothingness with joy. We are now instruments of Thy peace. That everyone great or small deserves our appreciation, understanding and very careful thought.

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  4. Maria Doglio Avatar
    Maria Doglio

    The Theologian Mary Daly said, “why must “God” be a noun? Why not a verb…the most active and dynamic of all?” I think that when we tap into the God Spark that each of us IS and practice “Radical Love”, we are living God as a verb–active and dynamic. God expresses within in us as love–sometimes as a noun, sometimes as a verb, sometimes both at once (is that possible? Why Not!)
    The Artist Ben Shahn said, “I believe that if it were left to artists to choose their own labels, most would choose none.” I think we put labels around people when we have no other explanation of how to define the eccentric in the context of our own personal world. Are artists deep, dark and mysterious?… or are they just living openingly their deep passion that expresses themselves in their art? Great artists like Puccini and Brahms have said their music was channeled straight from God. I see artistic passion as a form of living radical love – it is so deep, and fullfilling you get lost in it’s bliss. The creative pulse we all have within us gives us freedom–if we choose to let it out! I’ve long had a post card on my refrigerator by artist Deb Koffman depicting feet in a series of boxes. It’s called “What rules are good for” Box 1: Creating Space,(empty box) Box 2: Establishing Boundaries (feet inside box); Box 3: Going Beyond (Foot stepping outside the box); Box 4: Breaking (Foot kicking the box open; and Box 5: Making Better Ones (the box is not really a box any more, but a circle of meandering lines)…I like rules that are flexible.
    Erie, you have given us a profound article that expands my thinking into so many areas of contemplation. Thankfully quantum physics is beginning to blur the line between science and spirituality…I hope the scientists who think no mysteries are left are paying attention.
    The last 8 years I have been recovering my creative self, tapping into my artistic passion, while letting go of all judgement–it’s an on going process that I can apply to all areas of my life. When we go deep within to find ourselves, we come out living our truth. Radical Love in practice.

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I continue to reflect upon the meaning of your impassioned thoughts, Erie. Also, my comment about trying to listen and respond more honestly… is about being true to that inner guiding Light and not so influenced by my expectations of me and what I think others expect of me and I of them (as well as my patterned responses.) I am learning that in letting go of expectations I can experience the unfolding with less resistance and struggle (this is hard to put into words.)
    I find I am being surprised by it all.
    “He who should inspire and lead his race must be defended from traveling with the souls of other men, from living, breathing, reading, and writing in the daily, time-worn yoke of their opinions.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    These comments expressed by Journal readers reflect the enriching experience of being in community. Once again, thoughts swim through my head in response to this intricate kaleidoscope of ideas, Erie. Today what surfaces for me is the opposing energies that exists in all things, which together create a whole; shadow and light; separation and unity; love and fear; sinner and saint.
    It is inevitable that beginning at an early age we experience trauma living in our world. When wounded, we try to cope and protect ourselves by separating from the uncomfortable feelings of shame and pain we experience. Yet, the more we repress negative emotions the more they demand attention. Many suggest for healing to occur, we begin to notice our body responses, our reactions, and acknowledge those things about ourselves that we tend to deny. Not with an attitude of disdain or judgment but with compassion.
    It helps me to remember that whatever I dislike in another person is something I dislike in me. Likewise, what I love in others, I love in me. God is in everything. So for me that means God is also in the shadows and the rejected parts of us that long for light and transformation. Some say that we can learn to love as God does by recognizing that we are not ‘bad’ or ‘crazy’ only wounded and in need of Love’s healing touch. Isn’t it funny, that these woundings often lead us to our greatest gifts?

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  7. ann kaiser Avatar
    ann kaiser

    This post has been speaking to me since I first read it. I have been pondering a response.Frozen by it’s content since the suicide of my girlfriend’s 21 year old daughter 2 weeks ago. Elizabeth has struggled with her depression and shadows for 10 years. Although on the outside she showed us the angel she was through her mission work, I find myself looking at my own shadows..and somewhat frozen by them. I step back and look at the pain and wounds of others and myself around me and it seems to be over whelming.I feel disdain and judgment around me not always compassion..I pray this passes .I pray for Love’s healing touch….

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  8. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thanks so much for the incredibly touching comments several have shared in response to this post. Ann, deepest sympathies to you on the passing of your friend’s 21-year-old daughter. Depression is so poorly understood and appreciated and my heart goes out to you as you reflect on this.
    Maria, thanks for being a relatively new contributor and I sincerely hope you will continue to offer your gifts.
    Victoria and Liz, you two are a world class pair of angels!!

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  9. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    I should also have mentioned Marily who continues to be such a lovely and sensitive contributor. Thank SO much Marily

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