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   Who do I want caring for my ninety-eight year old mother (below) a robot or a human being? These days, with robotic medical instruments, the answer can be both.

   The future may be different. It may be technology alone.

  Mom age 97 bw Technology, by its nature, will always change. Love's energy, on the other hand, is constant. 

   But, what shape will Love take if the culture we have known is turned on its head?

   Take a look at the state of God's earthly institutions. On a recent trip to Boston, we passed numerous elegant buildings topped by crosses. Inside, many bear signs of a sea change in American religious expression. 

   In the wake of scandals, many Catholic churches and schools have emptied. The so-called mainstream Protestant churches are one-fourth filled, often with "grey-hairs" like me. Other church buildings have been turned into restaurants, theaters and, sometimes, private homes.

   Some expert observers believe that we are living in a "Post-Christian" era in which civilization is turning away from traditional faiths toward new pathways. When these pathways reflect indifference to the spiritual life, there is cause for concern.

   Love's expression depends upon all of us and each of us.  For who are the keepers of Love? Traditionally, civilization established churches, hospitals, hospices and charities as places where God's Love flows through caregivers to those in need.

   In recent decades, each of these agencies of Love's expression have undergone slow but radical changes.

   Hospitals, have gone from places of charity to high finance corporations with billion dollar budgets. High paid CEOs have replaced the mission-focused administrators of the past. In for profit health care companies the Wall Street ticker is more important than the EKG strip. 

  Some futurists, looking centuries down the road, doubt that humanity as we know it will endure. There are those who believe in the Apocalypse. More likely, humanity will decline because people will increasingly turn human tasks over to robots. 

   What form will human energy, and caregiving, take one hundred, five hundred or one thousand years for now?

   The biggest reason to care about that now is that so much change has already begun.

   In Japan, robot caregivers made their appearance more than five years ago. These "caregivers" were created to replace children who no longer visited their nursing home bound parents. Programmed to express kind words, warm reassurance and sweet expressions of affections they were so effective they are still in use.

   Frightening and demeaning as all of this may seem, these kinds of changes provoke useful questions. What is it that is unique about the human expression of God's Love?

  The answer, of course, centers around realtionship. We can program a computer to tell us what we want. But, God is absent from such a relationship because Love is absent.

   Those who have begun to devalue the role of Love in our technology-driven society may do well to recall that technology is not the reason for living. Love is.

-Reverend Erie Chapman. 

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6 responses to “Days 163-165 The Future of Loving Care”

  1. Karen York Avatar
    Karen York

    Your mom is stunning in her elegance and grace – perhaps a secret to her long life. We are in danger, I fear of losing connection with other humans, as we sit in our cubicles, working on items sent from some corporate space. Seldom do we have to actually talk to someone and when we do, it seems to disrupt the course of our work. At the bedside, technology of course, can aid in providing consistent and prescision care. Yet it is only a tool to assist in the recovery of the human body. Healing comes from engaging the spirit – that one-on-one connection that only human compassion can bring about.

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    Karen York

    I’m struck by your last two words… Love is.
    In a training I did before, we had a discussion about what Love is with many definitions, interpreations, etc. Finally, we were okay with leaving it just like that – “Love is”. The state of being that our humanity cannot fully grasp – the essence of the eternal soul. It just simply “is”.

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    You raise several interesting points Erie. I don’t necessarily think that people are turning away from organized religion due to a spiritual indifference. Perhaps, more because static forms of worship can feel stagnant, unbending, and at times bereft of the Spirit. I am drawn to organized religion because of community and the ability to worship with others in the tradition in which I was raised. Yet, the language spoken does not always resonate with me. Specifically words that conjure up images of a condemning God, of being an unworthy sinner, the guilt that comes with being born human, and a God that is only male. Although religion fosters a sense of belonging this inherently also creates exclusion. Personally, the image of God as Love is One that I embrace as unconditional, universal and inclusive. This is what I think people hunger for and religion would do well to respond by balancing tradition and risking evolving with all of life. And trusting that the ever changing face of God is still, and always will be, God.
    It is a bit overwhelming to realize how much technology can replicate our human characteristics. We are entering into a brave new world. Great meaning crystallizes in your revelation that the reason for living is Love.

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  4. Marily Avatar

    This reminded me of the movie “Bicentennial Man”… in this fantasy movie… even Andrew the robot longed to be like a human being… to look, feel and did cry like us… but only through our natural existence that we can live fully where love is, is reciprocated.

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  5. candace nagle Avatar
    candace nagle

    I think, when all is said and done, robots, computer communication and all of this amazing technology cannot give a human being a feeling of connection and belonging. To belong to each other, to be connected to our tribe is essential for a personal feeling of well being. No machine will ever give that to a human…maybe a dog or cat can but not a machine. I have heard complaints from many patients about their doctors interacting with a computer during office visits. The idea of this is so offensive. How can a doctor, nurse or other caregiver offer compassionate listening or healing touch if their hands and eyes are on a computer? It’s nuts. So, it can’t go on like this forever…remember that old pendulum? I hope it will eventually swing us back into each other’s arms!

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    This past w/e my mom and I were talking about the good old days. Our conversation took a turn toward the general theme of your reflection, Erie. Mom reminisced about the times when none of this technology was available. She fondly regarded the past as a simpler time; and without hesitation said they were better times. As much as I enjoy all the benefits of instant technology, I must admit I found myself agreeing with her. It seems we have traded something very precious in exchange for technology’s virtual reality, which has a one dimensional quality to it..

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