Journal of Sacred Work

Caregivers have superpowers! Radical Loving Care illuminates the divine truth that caregiving is not just a job. It is Sacred Work.

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Martha and bobby 2"Do something each day that scares you." -Eleanor Roosevelt

   The Roosevelt's changed everything in America – and the world. You can learn more about the impact of three of them if you are wise enough to tune into Ken Burns' series "The Roosevelts" running all this week on PBS.

   Each of the three was courageous enough to take chances. That is how you benefit others – by moving out of your comfort zone to do things that may scare you – but will help others.

   My younger sister, Martha, does that every day. She regularly leaves the comfort zone of her retirement to help autistic children through the charity, Agility Angels. She also volunteers at the Furniture Ministry sponsored by her church. Maybe (but not likely) it even took a little courage for her to stand next to her big, football playing grand nephew!

   Martha does not volunteer because it is easy. She makes hard choices because she is a woman of compassion. 

   Loving caregivers do this. The way we know their choices can be scary is because of how the rest of the world reacts to caregiving.

   Every hospice nurse, neonatal intensive care doctor and charity worker has heard friends say, "I could never do what you do." The implication may be that these people think they are too sensitive to do what the caregiver is doing. Yet, it is the sensitivity & courage of caregivers that enables Radical Loving Care in this world.

   Listen to Eleanor. Do something that scares you today & find yourself becoming more alive – & more in love with life. 

-Erie Chapman

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10 responses to “Days 256-260 – Eleanor’s Insights”

  1. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    This insight into going beyond what the world tells you to do is right on. We are told to not rock the boat, stay within our limits and just stay safe. Eleanor did anything but that. I see this often, luckily, in people I know and love. They are inspiring, and we can all do many wonderful things daily that may not be noticed, but have huge influence on even one life. So, get uncomfortable, and believe in the power of one!

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  2. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you, Julie! YOU are clearly one of those who, through her courage and compassion, brightens the world! Thank you.

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Hi Erie thanks for mentioning the K. Burns series on PBS, as I am going to watch it. I am a great admirer of Eleanor. What comes to mind is the people I know who are in prison ministry; you visiting Glen when he was on death row, Diana, my cousin Sr. Teresa, and friends Sr. Monique and Doreen. I have listened to stories told and of the difficulties these people experienced which may have contributed to their incarceration. I have seen how life changing it is to hold a space of compassion without judgment for both the giver and receiver in the encounter. It is humbling to bear witness to suffering and hard not be changed by the alchemy of love.
    I love your call to us in your closing line. Thank you Erie, as well as to Julie for sharing these insights.
    I did something that scared me today to test your theory…went to my first tango dance lesson. You are right!

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  4. sbeng Avatar
    sbeng

    Thank you Erie for Eleanor Roosevelt’s courage and compassion. I looked back and wondered how I had the courage to leave my birthplace and journeyed westward. I delivered babies first in the villages in the Far East then in the Western Hemisphere. Initially it was a scary situation but shared the joy with the parents of the children that I helped to bring into the world! Yes, Hospice Care too. The job brought me satisfaction that I had provided help and support to the patients and their families. We can see so many successful people contributing monetarily and their time to meet the needs of some of the impoverished nations around the world. Some of those who worked there even faced death e,g, doctors and health care personal had died with the recent Ebola outbreak in Africa. Their compassion brought them there. They dared to face the situation knowing what may happen to them.

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I just wanted to circle back today and say how much I admire and am inspired by Martha’s efforts to make a difference. We have had an opportunity to get to know her a little through your writings over time. The love you share is also apparent and lovely to witness. Thank you Martha!

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  6. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Suan. Your life is a testament to your wonderful compassion!

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  7. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Tango. WOW, Liz. Thank you for sharing your great insights and references, Liz. You are a woman of courage!

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  8. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I know,lol!(offered at the yoga studio)…well the point is to have fun and not to take one self too seriously.

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  9. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you so much, Liz. She really is a magical person.

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  10. Jonathan Ang Avatar
    Jonathan Ang

    I often describe myself as a “late bloomer”. It was not until the past few years that I really started stepping out of my comfort zone and relinquished slowly my constant thoughts of the what-ifs in life. Such thoughts have definitely made me cautious in life. Too cautious sometimes that I have become scared. Eleanor Roosevelt’s quote comes as a perfect reminder at this stage of my life right now. It inspires me to grow, live life, and create a positive impact on others. Thank you for sharing this.

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