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"…as we begin to recognize…beauty, we become more beautiful ourselves." – Plotinus 

Louis zamperini   When Laura Hillenbrand met Louis Zamperini (left) the hero of her book, Unbroken, she first studied his hands. There were the scars from a bird that pecked at him while he struggled to survive at sea & the mark where his wedding ring caught in the wreckage of his downed plane.

   Through those scars Hillebrand connected with the truth & beauty of Zamperini's suffering & survival. Perhaps she believes, as did Simone Signoret, that "individual courage is the only interesting thing in life " and its own ladder to Love.

   We seek Beauty – often through fairy tales or in magic. But, she is always near. She lives in your mirror & in every patient you see.  

   Does your soul seem enigmatic because you imagine it will materialize for examination? Plotinus wrote in the Ennead that "…because it has no size, the Soul's nature…contains the whole cosmic body in one and the same grasp."

   We enter our beauty's mystery by conversing with love at the deepest level. How do you talk with your scars? Which of your truths are too painful to touch? How do you experience a dying rose?

   Conversely, how do you befriend your most beautiful encounters? Each happened because you brought your best self to those engagements. Bring that self to each new encounter.

   Your scars begin to heal when you face them. Your heart strengthens when your pain allows you to ease another's. 

   Deep encounters happen only through radical persistence – rare because most of us sip only life's surface. Zamparini met torture with superhuman courage & survived to savor Beauty. Hillenbrand herself summoned uncommon strength to outlast Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.

   Beauty is Love's finest prize. Every time you find her you become more beautiful.

   Invite your best self to every encounter: with friends or enemies, with sun or amid storms, and Beauty will always appear. 

-Erie Chapman

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13 responses to “Days 361-365 – Becoming More Beautiful Through Your Best Self”

  1. Anne Milligan Avatar
    Anne Milligan

    Thank you Erie!!!!

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Your message, images and prose are of the finest handmade lace, Erie. Each reflection mirrors a Beauty that graces the eyes of the beholder; a rare and precious gift from a rare and precious soul.
    I love the encouragement you offer us in your closing line, “Invite your best self to every encounter: with friends or enemies, with sun or amid storms and Beauty will always appear.” I will carry this with me as I greet my day, thank you.

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  3. julie laverdiere Avatar
    julie laverdiere

    Beautiful reflection, thank you

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  4. sherry Avatar
    sherry

    recovering and renewing our best selves every day in every circumstance and encounter, thank you Erie, I pray for this for all of you and for those we love and care for.

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  5. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank YOU, Anne.

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  6. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you, Liz. You already bring your best self everywhere so can’t imagine you need to improve:-) Wish I could do as well as you do.

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  7. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thanks so much, Julie.

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  8. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you so much, Sherry. I believe your prayers will be answered.

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  9. Teresa Reynolds Avatar
    Teresa Reynolds

    I was so happy to find this reflection as I am barreling into a New Year and wanting to tease out my best self. Beauty on the page is inspiring and evidently the result of continuous soul searching on your part.
    “Your heart strengthens when your pain allows you to ease another’s. ” Thank you for sharing the wealth from what must be a very strong heart.

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    Anonymous

    Erie: thank you for your words of encouragement: “Invite your best self to every encounter: with friends or enemies, with sun or amid storms and Beauty will always appear.” I also appreciate your quotation from Simone Signoret “individual courage is the only interesting thing in life” and its only ladder to Love.

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    Anonymous

    Erie: previous reply was from sbeng

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  12. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    You are so kind and eloquent, Teresa. Thank you and Happy New Year.

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  13. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Thank you, Suan. Your own “best self” must be very special indeed! Happy New Year.

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