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Tia and dad 1987   The very word frightens many. It enters our lives when there is pain. Who needs courage if the going is easy? 

   In fact, the word is grounded in the French, Coeur, or heart. In Consolations, David Whyte writes that, "Courage is the measure of our heartfelt participation with life."

   It is always easier to hide. That is why I have always admired my daughter's courage. Tia was only fifteen when she stepped onto the track at the huge Ohio Stadium to participate in the finals of the 4 x 800 meter relay. Ten thousand people filled the stands. The state championship was at stake. 

   It is hard enough to run a half mile full speed against the toughest competition. It is harder still to do so in a relay where each runner is under pressure. Of course, the bigger the lead you hand your teammate the better you have fulfilled your responsibility.

   It takes courage. Tia handoff to maggie

   When my daughter, running in the second slot, took the baton her team was tied. When she handed it off (right,) she was thirty yards ahead. Her team broke the state record. It was 1987. They held it for another twenty years.

   After such a performance most would rest. Instead, Tia ran two more races totaling over three miles & won medals in both.

Four winners   This week, the team members were inducted into their school's Hall of Fame. At the ceremony an important truth emerged. These four women, mothers & professionals, have translated their courage as girls into a "heartfelt participation with life."

   Courage is a choice. Fail to choose it & fail to live. There is no consolation for that. 

-Erie Chapman

Photo 1: Tia & Dad 1987; Photo 2: Tia hands baton to Maggie ; Photo 3: Holding Hall of Fame certificates, 2017. L to R: Tia Chapman Pierotti, Karen Saah, Maggie McLeod Bowers, Jibs Thorson Oefinger. 

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7 responses to “Days 125-129 – Courage”

  1. Todd Meador Avatar
    Todd Meador

    That is such an inspiring story! I did not know your daughter was a state champion runner. A 20 year record is impressive.

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  2. Lynn Avatar
    Lynn

    How lovely to read such an inspiring story about your daughter. I can feel your love and admiration for her. Such lovely images as well.

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  3. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    I now feel like I know Tia! Courage, has many shadings of meaning, ranging from the long time unemployed person, who is still searching, to the single mother or father raising a child with love and devotion, to anyone suffering through an illness, physical or mental, who perseveres to wellness and keeps up their faith in life!
    And there are “larger than life” examples of courage, such as the courage Abraham Lincoln mustered to lead our country through the Civil War. and my personal best example of courage, would have to be Ernest Shackleton, Captain of the ship Endurance, aptly named, who, when his ship got iced in; departed for safety in a small boat; left some of his crew on an island, and continued on 800 miles in open wintry sea, to an island believed to have a coast guard station.
    Upon arrival, he climbed over a mountain, with primitive gear; reached the station; was revived; then headed back by larger boat in icy seas, to retrieve his loyal crew; and then headed successfully back to home port! I can only hope I could equal what he did.
    But actually, all of us has a “courage knot”, tied deeply into our guts and held high by our spirit, which we can turn to when the seas get rough. Take a large breath; conjure up your desired outcome; set your sails for the horizon of your choice; and never, never, give up your faith!

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    sbeng

    I appreciate the word “it takes Courage”. How did I reach my goal of seeing the world that I have read and studied in my geography lessons in school? I did not have much money to start with but I did get a scholarship to study overseas. My thought of meeting people of different ethnicity, learning about their culture, tasting the different kinds of food and seeing the terrain of different countries became a reality. It takes “COURAGE” and I am happy that I had achieved my goal in life,

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    This a beautiful affirmation of your daughter and your love for her. You also offer an important message on courage. Thank you, Erie.

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  6. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    Erie, I really liked your story about your daughter in “Courage”. It got me to thinking what the word means.
    In Wikipedia there is discussion on courage being bravery and valor. To stand up and endure. Also a case is made for fortitude being a translation of courage.
    In Wikiquote there are a lot of familiar lines on courage but one caught my ear. “Courage is the magic that turns dreams into reality”. (Aster and Richter Abend) I believe that is what happened that day for your daughter and her teammates.
    Also from Wikipedia: The Tao Te Ching states that courage is derived from love (“loving causes ability brave”). The love of a father for a daughter.

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  7. maryjane Avatar

    thank you for this.

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