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ShoesNote: Reflection offered by Liz Sorensen Wessel

Strolling without a destination, the day’s invitation was to linger without reason or a purpose, other than gratitude. Sitting idle upon the garden wall was a pair of worn leather boots without companion. Resting, abandoned, forgiving, trusting, lonely, lost or forgotten?

Perhaps, his feet were tired and swollen and he breathed a sigh of relief as he unfurled the tight laces to stretch his toes, released from the weariness that accompanies a day of labor, immersed in the feel of cool greening grass.

Did he sit and take in the “sky mogily blue” above and wonder, whatever had his grandfather meant, who he had never even met, when he said those confounding words?  Or did he instead rise up in ecstatic joy and for one fleeting moment; free from the cares of this world, splash and stomp with childlike glee in the cold fountain mist? Or did he sit dreamily to watch his feet dancing without moving at all?

What would bring your aching feet comfort or healing from life's injuries? When our actions cause suffering, we suffer too. Can we forgive ourselves and in doing so free others? A reversal of thought from the realities of this world returns us to our true nature.

What story do these shoes have to tell about the life of this person who has worn and molded them to the contours of their soul?

What comes to mind for you? Perhaps the truism to never judge another person until you have walked a mile in their shoes? Regardless of how leathered and old, is it still a helpful adage to live by?

 Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881-1955) was a French philosopher, Jesuit priest, paleontologist, and geologist. His poem (below) speaks to the sometimes excruciating experience of waiting on God.

Above all, trust in the slow work of God.
We are quite naturally impatient in everything
to reach the end without delay.
We should like to skip the intermediate stages.
We are impatient of being on the way
to something unknown, something new.
Yet it is the law of all progress that is made
by passing through some stages of instability
and that may take a very long time.

And so I think it is with you.
Your ideas mature gradually. Let them grow.
Let them shape themselves without undue haste. 
Do not try to force them on
as though you could be today what time
— that is to say, grace —
and circumstances
— acting on your own good will – 
will make you tomorrow.
Only God could say what this new Spirit
gradually forming in you will be.

Give our Lord the benefit of believing
that his hand is leading you,
and accept the anxiety of feeling yourself
in suspense and incomplete.
Above all, trust in the slow work of God, 
our loving vine-dresser. Amen. ~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

 

Liz Sorensen Wessel

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12 responses to “Days 151-152 Journey Without Distance”

  1. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    Liz, the photo itself is a work of art – thank you. Your reflection, through its images, compassion, ponderings suggests to me that you, through your experiences, know the heart of so many as you have trod with them along their journey of life. In preparation for the feast of the Ascension I discovered that the original Greek translation used for ‘make disciples’ was a verb, to ‘disciple’ others. How well you disciple us Liz.

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  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    These feet were “made for walking” phase bounds to mind in seeing the photograph, though I would have preferred older, more worn boots. Walking, to me, is one of my favorite ways to get in touch with myself, to literally re-connect myself to planet Earth–its concreteness, its grit, and its wonder! All of us, if we had to, to survive, could walk far greater distances than we can imagine. But even a walk to get your mail is a good beginning in patience. Simply add more distance each time you head out.
    When I joined my son Dan, Cancer survivor and successful adult,in walking the Boston Marathon Route in 2000, along with his hearty and loving wife Carolyn, I was surprised that, even after 1/2 of our 26 miles route was behind us, I had plenty of energy and desire to continue to the end of that journey. And when we reached the finish line, and the loudspeaker announced my son Dan’s name as a prominent fundraiser, my goosebumps leaped to attention and I teared up and felt more alive than I’ve ever felt.
    Impatience at any point in that journey,was never an issue as we encouraged each other, laughed at our growing blisters, and together, three as one, finished our mission!

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  3. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thanks for your thoughtfulness, Maureen and for sharing this Greek translation of disciple and for being a mentor along this journey. Blessings to you

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thanks for your enriching comment, Terry as well as sharing this peak life and meaningful experience with your son Dan and Carolyn. “Together three as one.” Beautiful.

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  5. Chapman Health International Avatar

    I think this is the best writing I have ever read from you. Your beautifully framed beginning sets the stage perfectly: “Strolling without a destination, the day’s invitation was to linger without reason or a purpose, other than gratitude. Sitting idle upon the garden wall was a pair of worn leather boots without companion.”
    You took the lonely boots and made them our companions for a journey through your insights. Thank you.

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  6. Chapman Health International Avatar

    Terry. I join with Liz in thanking you for sharing this moving story of your walk with Dan. “Goosebumps at attention.” marvelous.

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  7. Lynn Avatar
    Lynn

    Always a blessing in the reading of your words, Liz. Thank you.

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  8. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thanks so much for your affirmation Erie, it means a lot to me.

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  9. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you for your blessing in return, Lynn.

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  10. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    When I look at the photo and read your reflection I wonder…perhaps this person has become enlightened and become more than the dewdrop that has merged with the ocean. Their breath of air is left for the leaves to grow towards the sun. The boots they traveled in are encouraging us to walk the paths toward knowledge and enlightenment.

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  11. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Beautiful insights and wondering, Jolyon. Thank you!

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  12. maryjane Avatar

    I like this.

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