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Reflection 11 2017 3 Note: Reflection by Liz Sorensen Wessel: As we rode along the winding route towards home, emotions stirred in anticipation of gatherings with family and friends. The joy of seeing loved ones and the sorrow of missing those who are no longer here. The poignancy of life’s fleeting nature enhances our appreciation of how precious the gift.

Remembrances of our mothers wove its way into the conversation. As he spoke about his mom I knew we had moved into a sacred realm. I received the blessing of bearing witness to a deeply meaningful testimony. He spoke of the existential vortex one experiences with the death of their mom. Thoughts such as, “did I measure up in the eyes of my mother? Am I the person she hoped I would be?” All the memories we cherish and the accompanying wisdom that flows from self-examination.

 In our continual turning with the seasons of life, the extraneous begins to fall away. The faults we find in each other and in ourselves, the importance of who is right and who is wrong seem to lose power as pain and old hurts fade in forgiveness.

What is left is our essence; a brilliance that is always there but obscure from our awareness until we remember that what matters is our love for one another.

Liz Sorensen Wessel

Pencil drawing by ~liz

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6 responses to “Days 315-316 Essence”

  1. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    One of the best written, brief, pieces of writing, I’ve ever read! What you have said, is who you are, essentially, a caring, artistically gifted person, who can also share deep thoughts, without becoming overwrought–this too is a rare gift that few writers possess. I tend to go “on and on”, after my point has been made.
    Thanks for helping me pause, early this day, to remember my mother, who gave me impulsiveness, but also gave me a joy of living enthusiastically, an abiding interest in other’s life journeys, and finally, the ability to dance well, which has always seemed important to me!

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  2. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Wow, thank you so much Terry for such an affirming response. Perhaps we say more with less? What comes to mind is church sermons. I find short homilies more powerful and the longer ones that wander lose some of the impact.
    And thank you for taking the time to pause & connect, honor your mom and share your brilliance… and I am grateful for the smile you have brought to my face!

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  3. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    Life is our memories. We practice mindfulness and learn from the memories. Being there in the time of now…and then. Experience the smiles and warmth all over again. A bliss. A kiss. A love. A hand held one last time. Reach out.
    And welcome home…

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  4. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Completely agree with Terry and with Jolyon. Excellent comments by them and wonderful reflection by you, Liz. And I love the feeling of movement and the cosmos that emerges in your pencil drawing!

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Such a lovely gift, Jolyon, thank you!

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Grateful to you, Erie for your way of seeing.

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